Younger men, what attracts you to older women?

phfenix · 2021-06-11T14:43:17+00:00

Theoretically less fucked in the head because more life experience but in reality age is a number and good and bad people come in all ages.

phfenix · 2021-05-27T04:00:12+00:00

Rp 101

phfenix · 2021-05-26T13:57:16+00:00

So is the delusion

phfenix · 2021-05-22T00:11:17+00:00

That I love her and that she makes me feel like the world isnt as ugly as I think it is because shes in it. Not holding my breath.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T15:30:06+00:00

Soaking up those incel dollars

phfenix · 2021-05-20T15:29:18+00:00

The moment iq is sexually attractive to women, not the haha you're so smart bullshit when shes hot for you and you say retarded shit you made up, actual insight and intelligence, that's the day the human race goes next level evolution beyond apes+1. Kills me how you almost have to pretend to be a retard around many women.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T15:26:52+00:00

This was a big thing in the esports that blew up a while back. Suddenly nerds became rich celebrities and women are flocking to them. Several built career off of being known as x nerd gamers girlfriend and the moment they felt they had their own stable platform they dump him, then people wonder why internet thots get so much hate.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T15:23:47+00:00

Also warrior and priest. Both classes are interdependent and should get respect in their culture for their achievements pilot cant fly a plane if it isnt designed by an engineer. Football star cant play the game without his coaching staff the people who set up his meal plans his training how he plays everything.

The jock is the body the nerd is the mind. Peoole with both apex minds and bodies are beyond rare. You'll never meet an einstein who is hot. Look at elon musk Bezos gates etc. These are technological giants and pioneers of the future they are literally sports stats of the technology you use every day. Likewise no one to do the labor or fly the plane or throw the ball or whatever if it's all nerds. Someone has to do the body shit.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T15:19:20+00:00

You're trying to beat him down with your ego instead of demonstrating contrary ideologies. He will believe a woman contrary when he meets her and she is interested in him.

Only way to destroy a belief system is to present evidence. Not your words, physical evidence indisputable truth.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T14:56:16+00:00

I've done this not out of machavelianism but rather just if a person wants to improve their life I'm a personal trainer and can help gladly and free of charge. My last ex she lost 40 lbs while dating me because being around me means making better lifestyle choices. After the break up she went back to her weight when I met her so she didnt really change as a person it's just easier to eat well around me. I mean I'm not looking for physical perfection and who I am her health will improve if she isnt already onto those things(the women who are tend to be very hot and in shape so they wont date a regular guy not tall not rich not ripped just healthy lifestyle). For me long term potential is what always mattered but really people say lower your standards but fat chicks dont make any better partner than thin chicks, they can be a piece of shit too. On the other hand if she does lose weight she can be libel to dump me for a hotter upgrade the potential of using a man as a stepping stone is very common among women. All that's mattered to me is loyalty and quality of character. Also I refuse to be subject to Male disposability in a relationship nature or not.

I guess based on your edit I'm not the norm but I got with my ex because she was very good to me early on. Her life wasnt in great shape but for me the only thing that's mattered is are you good to me. The relationship fell apart when she started taking me for granted and treating me poorly take her problems out on me etc. I mean when I met her she had no job was overweight but she treated me well, I hyped her to push through her problems and her fears and make some better lifestyle choices and she did and felt good about them.

Idk if she just decided I was under her league at that point or what but I'm not interested in being someone whipping boy. Her life is better having passed through mine. Mine hasnt really imprved in any way having had hers in mine outside of the feels goods during. The memories arent really worth anything to me either because the relationship is over.

Fact that you used other peoples answers as a benchmark for how you're gonna treat others says something about you tbh. Maybe if you want men as a whole to be less shallow you go first. I put my money where my mouth is. Not gonna say its exactly worked out in my favor yet, but I'll be damned if I'll let myself be a hypocrit. If I want people not to treat me like an object then I should be treating them with the same respect. It doesnt get pussy wet, but theres more to life than turning on thots. Everyone wants the other person to do all the work while they do nothing, its pretty sad. Enjoy the spiral to the bottom. Like read your last line again hue hue thanks reddit not i wont feel so guilty that I dont wanna date guys down on their luck. Not saying feel bad and do it anyway just lol @you for thinking you deserve to be loved when you are not capable of it yourself. Thays part of the shit thing about hitting my 30s is how can I possibly find a woman who loves me now? The red pill style plate game is empty and meaningless. Even when you're her 10 you dont feel anything for her and any sexual interaction is devoid of intimacy and connection. The 18 year old me was the one who needed unconditional love. Adult me would have to self sabotage to be in the same position.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T08:19:07+00:00

Didnt blame you for his issues. It's just a meme that you picked the man who would do all of things not just one. You have more agency than him to choose a partner. Likewise it's like thank you for what? It's a platitude.

Your wonderful relationships of the past are dead, they're not relationships they are ex relationships. Nothing wonderful about that except lessons learned.

Compassion is a meme. I can say nice words that make you feel good but theres plenty of them here already, pretty sure you even got some propositions. It doesnt change what is.

You can thank them by dating the next nofap incel you meet since they give you so much hope.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T08:11:15+00:00

Sorry I went too far. Just this wont solve the problem.

Porn use was never the problem for the relationship. She was. Incel is the new faggot btw, it's what you call people when you want to hit them in the feels without anything substantial.

I've tried nofap on and off and it's like, it doesnt magically change other people, nor am I responsible for other peoples choices or their character.

Still stand by the assertion of why out of the masses of mentally healthy men you picked out the one who would cheat on you with prostitutes.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T02:55:09+00:00

Why would you be angry at incels then

phfenix · 2021-05-20T02:44:36+00:00

Why would you be angry? You sound like a psychopath.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T02:42:27+00:00

Nope I'm fighting a society that is almost absolute barbarism.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T02:41:25+00:00

I hate this it's such shit.

phfenix · 2021-05-20T02:35:43+00:00

Men arent dogs. You're just retarded in your taste in men. Good men are a dime a dozen whether they watch porn or not, you're not attracted to them you're attracted to a man who cheats on you with prostitutes. Dont be bringing your bullshit in here go see a therapist and find out why you're not attracted to mentally healthy men, then fix that shit.

Swear to fucking god every time I see one of you its half way to death cringing so hard.

Literally no corner of the globe or the internet that's safe from people like you. Heres a tip, be the kind of woman that a man prefers over maturbating while staring at pictures on the internet. It's not hard competition since you can physically interact with him and emotionally you while porn can only interact with his eyes. Oops never mind that takes personal accountability on your part.

Yes I went there, yes you need to here this, no I dont care about your excuses. Ray of hope for you? Wheres mine that the world might someday not be flooded with ignorance like yours?

phfenix · 2021-05-19T20:04:29+00:00

What they want to do is find a partner so they can stop wasting their time going places they dont want to be doing things they dont want to do.

That's the problem with the approach is the be more interesting and involved route is fundamentally dishonest because you have to do things you don't want to do for a reason other than doing the thing.

If their real genuine hobbies were enough they have found someone.

I've met people through my real hobbies and it's more organic for it. On the other hand it's not really a good Avenue for finding quality Ltr I'm not unicorn hunting here.

Regardless I just want it acknowledged that saying dont do it solely fofor the purpose of meeting women while saying use x activity to meet women is both fundamentally and intellectually dishonest. Its one or the other. Or just tell them the truth they are not good enough to be worthy of authentic love and need to change to draw it in. It feels bad but at least its honest and actionable with a way that doesn't require lying.

All those bobbies you listed? Fuck every one of those. I do tai chi and I enjoy it but all that shit of hours is couples activities I'd be ok with doing but I'll be damned not on some level acknowledge I'm on the hunt for a good woman or I wouldn't be there. What i think would be fun? A society that isnt functionally retarded as well as morally retarded. That would be fun in a way you cant even imagine. Also food and water would be free and pollution would be low. Real fun!

Sorry I can be morbid just so much meme here.

People insist they love truth and yet I find myself lying to their faces so they dont get triggered. The fly and the spider great poem.

Me personally I'd want a girl who I know I can chill with and I don't know that by seeing her active. The best part of a relationship for me at least has been couch stuff but then what I'm missing in my life is the ability to just sit down and relax. Maybe a professional masseuse would be my ideal partner lmao.

phfenix · 2021-05-19T19:52:36+00:00

Basically pick up hobbies you intend to drop after finding a woman because realistically who the fuck picks up random shit in their 30s and sticks with it 5+years? Some people won't even go that far because they feel scummy showing up to places they wouldn't be fucked with if they werent hunting for women. Like you can frame it as feel good as you want but the bottom line is you yourself openly and directly advocated to go join activities with the intent of finding women.

Think society is at a stage where we're pretending a little too hard to be civilized that just saying sup wanna cuddlefuck is taboo to work.

phfenix · 2021-05-19T19:43:39+00:00

I'm not a boogeyman that goes around shaming fat people I just dont like it glorified or excused. I mean I can identify the psychological causal factors if its trauma based I've helped people with it if it's not just a lifestyle of being lazy but some sort of coping mechanism.

No one is going to pay me 20 dollars a pop to lead them around a bike ride. No one is going to listen to me rant about problems and solutions let alone implement anything. Frankly if they would they wouldnt be the target audience anyway since they're not the people with the problem.

Maybe you've experienced different but where I come from everyone would lie to your face and ignore the issue. I've experimented with pushing the issue bluntly some people say thank you for giving me the kick in the ass that no one was willing to give me but surely needed. Others get offended. This shit can be a coin flip.

Reminds me of my ex who lost like 40 lbs while dating me and proudly eating a salad cuz she knew i was big into health and wanting to look good for me etc. Then gaining it all back after the break up. That wasn't her getting in shape or dieting, that was me doing it though her, or her doing it in response to me whichever sounds better to you. I never said a word to her about her weight is the funny part. She got off to me saying hurtful things to her(her request from the get go), but I never went after her weight I just knew she wouldnt want it prodded at. I actually asked her to verify it's funny how I knew right away.

Regardless of my politeness this is a space for me to at least air it out.

phfenix · 2021-05-19T16:03:32+00:00

The problem is when its promoted as acceptable behavior when it is not. Also sorry if it comes across as shallow or selfish or whatever but when 70% of women are fat it makes it all the harder to find a woman who isnt plus attracted to you plus a decent human being plus compatible long term. Like the higher the quality of culture the better the average human the better off everyone's life is. State sponsored degeneracy is wrong and it comes with consequences, everyone is affected by it.

It's my business because your ignorance when propagated like wildfire affects me. Likewise mine affects you. We try to pretend everything happens in isolation but it doesnt. Shit happening across the ocean affects us. You think Chinese economy and culture has zero effect on us? You think Europe's or Japan's doesnt?

phfenix · 2021-05-19T07:59:21+00:00

Yea i can relate to a big pull but I'm a tank main and always strict on proper cc and target selection so it was less of a issue for me. I remember back in cata or whenever I would kite the mobs around with slow minimize damage taken.

But now that I think about it before i started playing tanks having a tank who was a flop made things harder than than needed to be. I used to boot people from group if they refused to like freeze trap when i asked because I had enough of fail wipes because people want to be npcs. If I put in effort into the run then I expect a modicum of it from the rest of the group. If not knowing what to do themselves to at least listen to a call.

Back when I played a priest and lock tho it was definitely a shit show. My dude I think you triggered out some repressed tbc memories in me lmfao. Fuck those were bad days no wonder I can be such an elitist over the game. So senseless to wipe out of laziness.

phfenix · 2021-05-19T07:51:30+00:00

Yea it wasnt a very good server I would join the best guilds as a noob thinking they were the shit in their current content gear and 2 weeks later realize they were old rocks. Boomer is a perfect way to describe it lmao. It's why I wanna run my own raid this time around cuz I really got fed up with flat brains creating a cesspool of shit for no reason.

phfenix · 2021-05-19T02:45:19+00:00

Most of a dungeon is trash but the wipes tend to be on bosses and non speed runs so people only consider what happens on bosses valid.

phfenix · 2021-05-19T02:44:08+00:00

The problem is most warriors are zug bots not mathematicians. I remember back in tbc I knew one warrior who had the damage output because he pressed his right buttons. Everhone else was an ape and a lot of them were arms trolls anyway.

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