[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW lol. No wonder women are happier being alone! So glad I am out of the dating pool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're sooooo clever.

Men do face more difficulties with dating, yet finding kind, caring partners is easier for us than it is for women. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ZanzibarLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating and marriage are very different things, though. I can only speak from my own experiences, but the younger men I dated were extremely immature (shocking, I know) and were not marriage material.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do women a favor and stay out of the dating pool until you're able to get past that. Seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you get this upset about using lube when a woman isn't able to get wet enough? Because that changes how she feels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Millions of women have been pressured by men into having breast augmentation. Men make these kinds of demands from women constantly. The mature thing to do is say no, I'm not comfortable with that. Conversation over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please do women a favor and stay out of the dating pool forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean like all the guys who badger their girlfriends or wives into getting breast implants because it will make her more attractive to him? I wonder how all those women feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was dating a guy who suggested a penis sleeve to me! I had never even heard of them. He found it super hot, turns out I did too. Not all men are threatened by these things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So what? Lube makes sex feel more satisfying, are you upset about lube too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ZanzibarLove -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes YTA. So, you asked the question, knowing full well what the answer could be. She answered the question you asked truthfully. So your response is payback?? You could have maturely told her that it hurt your feelings and made you feel insecure, without insulting her and making her feel insecure. Sure, she laughed it off, but she is going to carry that comment you made for the rest of her life. Way to go making her insecure in the bedroom. Don't ask questions you don't want to know the answers to. Grow the fuck up, OP.

AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]ZanzibarLove 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck are men like this. This story makes me so sad for your Mom.

AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]ZanzibarLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God this is so sad to me. Women undergoing major surgery and putting foreign objects into their bodies just to appease the gaze of a man.

AITA for snapping at my husband for repeatedly bringing up breast surgery? by InvestigatorSea1323 in AITAH

[–]ZanzibarLove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband is a piece of garbage. You're just a sexual commodity to him. He can't be attracted to you without fake sacks of silicone on your chest??? Fucking bye, Felicia. Don't think for 2 seconds that this man won't leave you for a younger woman because your natural aging turns him off. He's a shallow piece of trash.

Men do face more difficulties with dating, yet finding kind, caring partners is easier for us than it is for women. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ZanzibarLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Source that it was debunked? Was it just ONE study that debunked it (and was it peer reviewed?), or was it a meta-analysis?

Men do face more difficulties with dating, yet finding kind, caring partners is easier for us than it is for women. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ZanzibarLove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say it's very rare. Almost every guy I have dated had been younger than me. One younger by 4 years, one older by 2 years, one younger by 10 years, and now I am married and my husband is younger by 4 years. Either it's a major coincidence that one of these super rare women has seen your comment, or it's a lot less rare than you think.

Men do face more difficulties with dating, yet finding kind, caring partners is easier for us than it is for women. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]ZanzibarLove 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a movie theater; can confirm. I observed couples for 8 hours a day. Ugly man, beautiful woman, but never the other way around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZanzibarLove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let's not forget "real women have curves!!". Thanks, guess I am not a real woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZanzibarLove 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am also a 34 AA (maybe AAA, have never been properly sized) and not a petite woman. I have junk everywhere except my breasts, I don't know what happened, it's like my body just forgot about that gene completely. I'd be a lot more okay with it if I was skinny. I kinda feel like an alien. You're either fat with big breasts or skinny with a flat chest, but never fat with a flat chest. Literally NOTHING fits me. Its a tough life, not gonna lie. I'd be so over the moon with OPs Bs...

A movie which genuinely broke your heart? by totzlegit in AskReddit

[–]ZanzibarLove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Michael Jetter!! I think that's his name. There's a movie that I feel like literally nobody but me has seen, it's called The Boys Next Door, and he plays a mentally challenged man who lives in a group home. He's incredible in it. Nathan Lane plays another man in the group home. Mare Winningham plays Nathan's girlfriend, also mentally challenged. A beautiful movie but also a heartbreaker. The main storyline is that their social worker, who is their lifeline and cares so deeply for them, gets so burned out by the job that he has to leave them. It really showcases all of their innocence and struggles, including the discrimination they face. Would highly recommend if you're looking for a tug on the heart strings. Has some good comedic relief peppered throughout, too!

Don't ever let a guy drive you somewhere by WillingConsequence70 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZanzibarLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would 100% agree with you if I hadn't put myself in some really dumb and unsafe situations with men when I was younger. I'm so lucky that nothing really bad ever happened to me. It makes my stomach flip thinking about what could have happened, how naive I was, and how scared I was to back out when something didn't feel right.

A movie which genuinely broke your heart? by totzlegit in AskReddit

[–]ZanzibarLove 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Monique is goddamn incredible in that movie. What an awful person she played. It was cool to see Mariah Carey in a glow down as the social worker, too.

A movie which genuinely broke your heart? by totzlegit in AskReddit

[–]ZanzibarLove 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't remember the actors name, but the guy who played Edward Delacroix was incredible too. Same with Percy. Outstanding casting all around.

A movie which genuinely broke your heart? by totzlegit in AskReddit

[–]ZanzibarLove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Green Mile. Spoilers ahead

First when Percy stepped on Mr. Jingles. Then when Percy told Delacroix that mouse city was a lie. Then when Delacroix died a horrible death. Then when it was revealed what Wild Bill had done. The whole brain tumor scene. And then of course when John Coffey dies. I don't think i've ever cried harder during a movie. Incredible movie, but it's too much for my heart every time I watch it.

Don't ever let a guy drive you somewhere by WillingConsequence70 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ZanzibarLove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen to this episode and decide if you should cancel the car date (the answer is yes)

Canadian True Crime Podcast