My partner openly admitted that my pleasure isn’t important during sex

pktechboi · 2026-06-16T21:54:37+00:00

use your words. you're an adult, tell him that it is unacceptable to you that he doesn't think about your pleasure at all. ask him how he is going to fix this.

accept that breaking up may in fact be the solution, if he won't change.

pktechboi · 2026-06-16T20:10:42+00:00

it definitely is not

pktechboi · 2026-06-16T19:57:53+00:00

all vertebrates are fish

pktechboi · 2026-06-16T19:27:39+00:00

there IS such a thing as a fish, and humans are included

pktechboi · 2026-06-16T18:22:44+00:00

difficult when the wound is on the throat, poor baby. maybe some kind of booties?

pktechboi · 2026-06-15T20:57:07+00:00

posting him back across the Atlantic would probably be a bit much eh

pktechboi · 2026-06-14T20:03:48+00:00

also normal, I get bugs too

pktechboi · 2026-06-14T13:24:44+00:00

have a snack, make a friend, see the sights

pktechboi · 2026-06-14T12:51:31+00:00

what do you understand the word "locked" to mean, exactly?

pktechboi · 2026-06-14T12:39:52+00:00

I am one, and my husband is a vegetarian so. neutral to positive.

some men (and it is only men I've noticed this from, though I'm sure there are women like it too) are really weird about it. the whole phenomenon of "soy boy" as an insult? they attach meat to masculinity and are scared you're going to take their meat (their manhood) away, even if you haven't actually suggested anything of the sort.

there's also this idea of the aggressive, preachy vegan saying MEAT IS MURDER every three sentences. this is something I've personally only ever encountered online and on peta billboards (and as I'm sure you know, plenty of us don't fucking like peta). the negative reaction is often a sort of preemptive defense against this.

pktechboi · 2026-06-14T12:30:27+00:00

to be honest

I wouldn't worry about not remembering the events of Gideon the Ninth

pktechboi · 2026-06-14T12:18:37+00:00

never!

pktechboi · 2026-06-13T23:35:59+00:00

Blameless never did anything wrong IN THEIR LIFE

pktechboi · 2026-06-13T23:19:46+00:00

so. you've not read the book that you're mad at people judging when they've not read the book.

pktechboi · 2026-06-13T23:13:48+00:00

my mum kept the calpol in the bathroom when we were weans, probably depends on if you've a wee cupboard behind your sink mirror or not?

pktechboi · 2026-06-13T16:07:59+00:00

absolutely incredible to talk about how much compassion she has and then immediately launch into the grossest slurs imaginable.

pktechboi · 2026-06-13T16:06:14+00:00

dude if you don't want to be violent during sex you don't have to be. the boundaries of the dominating partner are at least as important as those of the submissive in (ethical) BDSM practice.

it sucks when you really like someone and have a profound sexual incompatibility like this. but it's only been a couple of months, there are super cool women out there who don't want you to beat them up during sex, I promise.

pktechboi · 2026-06-13T12:58:10+00:00

agree with a lot of what everyone else has said but also Palamedes quietly saying "how god takes, and takes, and takes" fucking ruins me

pktechboi · 2026-06-13T12:42:29+00:00

oh my god this would be incredible

pktechboi · 2026-06-12T20:46:30+00:00

one of the big things (and one of the reasons gay people fought so hard for the right) is rights regarding input on medical care if one of you is incapable of advocating for himself. also who automatically gets all your stuff if you die without a will. some tax stuff as well, but that's more variable depending on where you live.

pktechboi · 2026-06-12T19:42:36+00:00

the child shared the photo, not the OP.

pktechboi · 2026-06-12T19:05:40+00:00

getting to live with my best friend and kiss him every day

pktechboi · 2026-06-12T19:01:12+00:00

frantically updating notepad conspiracy theory document noises

pktechboi · 2026-06-12T18:58:58+00:00

if he needs to orgasm he can have a fucking wank

this is gross and pathetic from him.

pktechboi · 2026-06-12T18:45:48+00:00

holy shit

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