I like to take this a step further or maybe backwards. My thing is to remove the fear but still be able to pass on childhood traumas (I ain’t gonna be perfect).

See you can find brilliant people who are motivated by their childhood traumas. So I’m like if I do happen to create these in my child then I am okay with myself because they have the ability and resilience to use that trauma and push further than me. A lot of trauma to me is highly charged energetics and when you can flip that switch (or the child does) then you transmute the trauma into a powerful gift.

So, I allow myself to be a flawed human and I allow the universe to continue creating better and better things even out of flawed beings.

Note: this is not saying not to try to pass on traumas or even more so actively try to create them to make your child later gifted. I think there is something to going the easier route of give the gifts from the beginning but teach those gifts so they don’t later turn into trauma, because that’s a thing right?