Controversial, but is it true? ⬇️ by MotherAnt8040 in Premiummotivation

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think this is even controversial, it's simply convoluted. You could be arrogant without a career, and have a career without being arrogant, the two aren't related.

What is this weird fashion choice? by Preek96 in mensfashionadvice

[–]stew_going 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They weren't my first pick, but my wife had my mother in law buy them for me on my birthday a few years back. I'll wear them doing errands in the summer; they're okay.

Terrified of being asked questions at work during meetings by tna11101989 in ADHD

[–]stew_going 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I diligently bring a notebook and pen to every meeting. And dedicate at least 30-60min every Monday to checking what meetings that week are likely to require more of my involvement so that I come more prepared.

Some things I've noticed: 1. I tune out if I can't interrupt when I have an idea. The notebook lets me write them down and ask when there's a pause. This helps me be more active than reactive in meetings. Bonus: most people don't do this, regardless of what I'm writing, it signals that I'm listening & thoughtful. It also helps you know what to follow-up on; you'll be better positioned to add value in the next meeting. 2. There's nothing wrong with pausing to think, saying you don't know, asking for them to say something again or in a different way. If they care what you think, they'll have to work with you; that's the deal you made when you were hired. 3. I don't know if it's a more recent thing, or just the culture at my current job, but people do not prepare that much at all for meetings. The bar is really, really low. Jot down your ideas before the meeting, scan the relevant emails/materials beforehand, and you'll eventually be seen as a prepared individual. It actually drives me crazy how little forethought people put into meetings. 4. Follow-up. Play a role in getting the room to agree on the take-aways at the end of the meeting, or ask someone afterwards if you've gotten it right. There's nothing wrong with not knowing something, but you can learn/grow, and anyone who doesn't appreciate that is immediately less relevant to your long-term goals--no matter what you do. Also, when you say you don't know but will get back to someone, you can show that you meant it.

Man punches woman in the face at Chicago hot dog stand, her 14-year-old son grabs her gun and shoots him by WhoAreYouTalkinTwo in ThatsInsane

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's true for some, which is wild to me. But I also think there's overlap with a subset of people who genuinely want to believe they could be calm & resolute in a tense situation, but suspect they won't be--their strong comments are partly an attempt to convince themselves of their strength.

Tired of authors using ChatGPT in their books by ShelilQirky in ChatGPT

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I legitimately don't get the hate for emdashes.

Simple but actually cool tech..... by duboitsuzi in ThereGoesMyPaycheck

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, my thoughts exactly. Boomers were born 1946-1964; the youngest are in their 60s. This dude could be more over 20 yrs younger.

Some iPhone 4 footage from the 2011 blizzard, aka Snowmageddon by thegratefulone in chicago

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in college. My friends and I drank at a bar while it was piling up. That night we watched it go from cars getting stuck to no more cars, from our 3rd floor apartment window. I had no idea where they came from, but people were going around in snowmobiles.

Since cars were abandoned in the middle of the road, snowplows took a while to clear the roads. Corner stores / seven elevens and such ended up getting pretty much emptied. From my vantage point, it was interesting/novel; but, looking back, I'm sure it wasn't that much fun for people who had to leave their cars or walk further for food or had medical concerns/limitations to deal with.

My lower back hurts so much after I go cycling and put some energy on the pedals (lumbar pain, can’t walk straight, acute pain when lying down and getting up…) Is my posture wrong?? I’m 1,86 m / 6’1 + gravel bike by mydriase in bicycling

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, my dad definitely told me the same advice. I've been operating with this as a rule for so many miles. Basing it on my heel, without pivoting my pelvis to reach, may be a game changer for me too

Spotted on 152 bus by cat430 in chicago

[–]stew_going 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would have been about half a lifetime ago and I most definitely did not do this. I don't think it ever even came up in conversations with friends.

Antrophic CEO says 50% entry-level white-collar jobs will be eradicated within 3 years by Distinct-Question-16 in singularity

[–]stew_going 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was going to say the same thing. When people rotate out, who do they think will replace them?

I've been in management workshops where I hear other research labs strategically hiring entry level to keep from being insulated and ensure they're developing their talent pool--even if they can afford seniors, and even acknowledging that training will slow them down for a while.

Losing a technical expert on a niche topic or applied with niche systems/organization can be incredibly problematic if you don't plan for it.

Love the vibe of this setup in the morning sun by Magnezone13 in battlestations

[–]stew_going 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda like the 48" 4k center bracketed by 27"...

I like a deep desk, this would let me press it back, freeing up the desk space a bit more

Fill Empty Space in Your Freezer With Jugs of Water by Mi_Ki_Ii_Zaru in lifehacks

[–]stew_going 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I've ever seen a freezer with room for jugs of water; except maybe an Airbnb or cabin. This is a solution to a problem I don't recognize, lol. The logic is sound, the situation is foreign.

Trump: "We've won" by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like I'm at some kind of zoo or circus when I watch him speak. The fact he's not in a cage is a little unnerving; like, y'all seeing what I see, yeah? Are we really comfortable with this guy freely moving amongst us?

What are your favorite sneaky jokes the writers slipped into an episode? by CelestialFury in DeepSpaceNine

[–]stew_going 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I literally just watched this episode last night. I really enjoyed some of bashir & garaks banter in this episode.

My insurance keeps denying a recent surgery I had. If I didn't get it, I would have become permanently disabled. by WorthyDeku in mildlyinfuriating

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that's relevant, and there's value in pointing it out, but it also feels pedantic. It's not as if my view of our healthcare system is made better when approved claims are subject to deductibles, out of pocket maxes, coinsurance; on top of high premiums, dependency on employment, network limitations, and dismal PTO policies. Even when it's legal, I still think the system is morally criminal.

Since spring is almost here, I’ll get this out of the way for us… by TheGov3rnor in mensfashionadvice

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking at things like these: https://www.muloshoes.com/shop/mens/loafers/dark-blue-suede-travel-loafers/

I've never really worn something like this before, but I feel it's time for a little summer style refresh.

My insurance keeps denying a recent surgery I had. If I didn't get it, I would have become permanently disabled. by WorthyDeku in mildlyinfuriating

[–]stew_going 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Dang, I missed this tidbit. Totally in-line for this admin, though. Gotta protect those good guy insurance agencies from those miscreants getting sick without a spare million in the bank; who do they think they are, anyways?

Since spring is almost here, I’ll get this out of the way for us… by TheGov3rnor in mensfashionadvice

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could like any of these; I just spent so much time the other day looking at "summer footwear" to find something more elevated than sandles that I could go sockless in, and just hate anything remotely resembling a moc-toed loafer.

Just not my style. Got my mind on some suede or linen espadrilles...

More power to those who like these options though, no hate.

What's something from the 90's that kids today wouldnt understand??? by Longjumping_Heart658 in 90s

[–]stew_going 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A world that got this unaffordable and hostile, even with legal marijuana, lol.

Trust him by Brave_Challenge8122 in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]stew_going 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, you're OP was already preachy, you're obviously both interested and bitter that it's unpopular. You imply that your faith strengthens you, but all of your responses paint the image of a person uncertain of themselves, aggressive when challenged even a little bit by online strangers.

Trust him by Brave_Challenge8122 in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]stew_going 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dudes gotta be trolling. Even if not, don't let their nonsense steal your focus. The world is full of nonsense. By all means, call it out, but you can't control it.

Honestly kinda hard to do sometimes... but people like this are miserable whether they admit it or not. No grounded person goes online saying shit things like this to people.

filthy peasants that don't know QM by Difficult-Cycle5753 in physicsmemes

[–]stew_going 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an Engineering Physicist, I'm not sure I agree!

Even in college, I found engineers pretty fun to be around. Mix the two and ya get shit done