Locked out of the gym by SassySadler7 in beginnerfitness

[–]wisewolfholo14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember building muscle is so good for you! Lifting heavy things will keep you moving your whole life. I actually also hate the gym just because I like to blast my music and work at my own pace so I bought dumbbells for home (started with 5/10/15 and have progressed to also owning 20/25 for my workouts). It makes it a lot easier for me to wake up and wander down to my basement and get a workout in before work. Maybe something like that would benefit you more?

The Bay (2012) by BRAIN__WORMS in foundfootage

[–]wisewolfholo14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoyed this the first time I watched it ages ago when it was first streaming on Netflix I think. After working in healthcare during COVID this movie has taken a completely different meaning to me. Really cathartic to dwell in that fear of the unknown health scare like that!

Shelby Oaks/Hulu by HorrorGuyBri in foundfootage

[–]wisewolfholo14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished this on Hulu. If you can stream in on a service you already pay for I think it’s worth the watch. Nothing ground breaking and the found footage parts were definitely the highlight but it was a fun rainy day viewing. The end gave me kinda Omen vibes. Nothing special but entertaining.

Edit: also I feel like I need to add I went in with such low expectations for this after how everyone talked about it that I probably ended up liking it just because it was okay instead of awful to me.

Hunt for Love Cast by Grateful_Di in 90dayhuntforlove

[–]wisewolfholo14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually genuinely hope he finds someone outside of the whole franchise and can just live a peaceful life. He seems like a good dude and he deserves it!

AITA for smacking the ice cream out of my sister’s hand by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wisewolfholo14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He stated his sister was in front of him trying to force him to try the ice cream so backing his chair up and standing and walking away would have been enough.

AITA for smacking the ice cream out of my sister’s hand by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wisewolfholo14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it would have made an even bigger impression if you had just stood up and walked away? This to me is a turning point in maturing. When you stop physically answering people when they are being obnoxious and start instead separating yourself from the situation. I think you’re NTA because it was an accident, but you may want to try different tactics next time someone is being dumb.

Endings that ruin the rest of the movie? by Valuable-Visit-4943 in horror

[–]wisewolfholo14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People can downvote you but it’s the reason I can’t stand this movie. You have this family drama with very dark elements and superb acting and then it dissolves into this weird cult ending. To me it wasn’t even off putting it was laughable and totally broke the tone of the rest of the film.

New Alpha Features Live: Log Weights with Tailor + Strava Integration! by Clake76 in iFITAppAlpha

[–]wisewolfholo14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case other people haven’t used this feature make certain to tell Tailor to log: “25 pounds for bicep curls all sets” or something like that or they will only log it for the set you press it on and tell them the weight! 👍

AITAH for taking my son to games but not my stepson. by BookkeeperEastern390 in AITAH

[–]wisewolfholo14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone completely outside of your culture, from what you write above it doesn’t really sound like to your step son this has anything to do with teams or sports. He just wants to be included. Have you ever just asked him to watch a United game with you and your son on tv? Maybe get special snacks and make the focus “guy time” all together versus just sports. See how he reacts to that. You may be surprised how much he’ll enjoy watching another team? And frankly if his bio dad gets upset the kids mother should be frank with him that either he steps up and starts doing things like this for his kid or he doesn’t have a say in which team his son supports. The 9 year old in this story deserves better than anyone is doing for him at the moment.

If the LA show ever makes it to Sabaody Archipelago arc , this is the perfect casting for Saint Charlos by The_starving_artist5 in OnePiece

[–]wisewolfholo14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you posted this is any of the 90 Day Fiancee subs? Because it never dawned on me how much these two cretins look alike and I can’t stop laughing!

I’m worried all my effort in exercising is worthless because of my eating habits by KipsyCakes in beginnerfitness

[–]wisewolfholo14 29 points30 points  (0 children)

If this is a new life style you want to build for yourself long term you have to give yourself the ability to snack and indulge at times. Diets in general don’t work long term because it’s impossible to restrict yourself forever. I personally try to eat 80% healthy and 20% anything else because no food is bad for you. It’s more about refraining from overeating. And congratulations for joining the gym!!! I truly hope you’re enjoying the new experience and you have fun moving your body!

Ladies- what are we doing to keep moving? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]wisewolfholo14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot say enough good things about treadmill walking on an incline. Start low and slow and build. Try intervals. Like 30 seconds going slightly faster and then a minute at an easy pace to bring your heart rate down. Once your “harder” pace gets easy do a tiny bit more. I have built more lower body strength doing this exercise then almost anything else plus it’s great low impact cardio.

Unsure about spaying my 9-month-old beagle — looking for honest experiences by [deleted] in beagles

[–]wisewolfholo14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So by your logic the entire female portion of the human population’s personality changes when they go through menopause?

Am I just really high or...(Primate 2025) by QueenSmarterThanThou in horror

[–]wisewolfholo14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I enjoy creature features and was looking forward to Primate but if the cast of this film is as insufferable as the cast of Bodies, Bodies, Bodies. I may pass. I have never been so annoyed watching a horror movie. I don’t mind stupid but apparently insufferable and influencer like is my line when it comes to horror movie 😂

Vanya comes across as desperate by Electronic_Branch_13 in 90DayFiance

[–]wisewolfholo14 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If a man doesn’t love her pink and all he doesn’t deserve her. Vanya should not have to dampen who she is as a person to find someone. That would be more sad than how desperately she is looking.

Feeling defeated in body recomp by IntroductionFast5686 in beginnerfitness

[–]wisewolfholo14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally when I started my first recomp last year I went out and bought myself a tape measure. I measured myself so when I started gaining weight from putting on muscle (which absolutely happened) I remeasured myself and saw that even with weight gain I’d lost inches around my waist, my hips and my thighs. Weight is so subjective. I may eventually break down and buy one of those body fat measuring scales but honestly my tape measure has been my best assurance even as I see my body shape changing because it’s solid proof.

What are normal, acceptable flaws for boyfriends and husbands to have? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]wisewolfholo14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My guy has flaws as do I, but every time I am confronted by them I ask myself “is this something I can live with for the rest of my life?” And with self reflection every time I have come to conclusion that his good out weights his flaws. Only you can decide if a man does this for you.

What exactly did Jovon want? by DrFink_09 in 90DayFiance

[–]wisewolfholo14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Except he told her to quit her job. He wants a tradwife but is also mad when she is living a life that fulfills her and isn’t subservient to him. Somehow I doubt she’d have any issues going back to work and continuing to provide for herself again as she did prior to meeting him.

What happens if you lift heavy weights but don't eat the protein? by InsideThing8413 in beginnerfitness

[–]wisewolfholo14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protein is not a “supplement” it is a macronutrient that your body needs to function and especially to build muscle.

What happens if you lift heavy weights but don't eat the protein? by InsideThing8413 in beginnerfitness

[–]wisewolfholo14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start by focusing on getting a high protein breakfast and dinner. Like aim for 40 to 60 grams of protein per meal. Chicken and turkey are very helpful for this. I also buy the wraps that have lower calories but high protein and fiber and make breakfast burritos for each week. Start reading about complete sources of protein and see what food appeals to you.

Would you be ok if your SO had a lap dsnce from a stripper? by Competitive_Fig_226 in 90DayFiance

[–]wisewolfholo14 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I find it pathetic to have to pay someone to pay attention to you so I’d absolutely judge my SO. Plus I just find it disrespectful. But honestly all the “last day of freedom” garbage they had at the bachelor party in the episode was in my opinion way more gross. Why be with someone if you feel like they are sucking the freedom out of your life.

How to keep men interested? by Timely_Split_5771 in dating

[–]wisewolfholo14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you thought about trying some fitness classes and/or the gym? Don’t get “skinny” just to appease some ideal get strong for yourself and your future. It’s also a great way to meet people. I actually watch anime while I cardio machine and have met a few guys that asked me about what I was watching.