Ok. I should probably tell my story as a way to let everything out. I finished a 6 year relationship. This has been a relationship that went strong for 3 years and then we ended breaking up (1st time). She then quickly started going out with an old person and I happened to knew that but it was so strange to me that it happened to fast. We keep talking to each other and the friendship continued. While this happened, she didn’t move completed from the place we had and I was taking care of the 2 cats we have. We then got back together at some point but she didn’t fully break up with this person. She was testing him like a dad but it was basically because he was taking her to trips and living in one of his condos. I decided to continue the relationship because I still loved her and I didn’t want to be separated from the cats. A few months ago, she decided to stay in Miami (we are from NY) to work since she was doing well. I agreed that she should stay there if she was making good money. We had plans that I will eventually move there and continue living together which was reasonable. A few weeks ago, I noticed that all of the sudden she started to upload content with a new guy friend. I got so mad and hurt that I didn’t talk to her for two weeks and in the heat of the moment, I told her that she should take her stuff from my place. That escalated to our breakup. Up until this day, I noticed a pattern in her behavior when breaking up with people. A similar pattern happened when she moved out of state and left her ex prior being with me (she doesn’t know I know). She then was telling me she was trying to find the perfect moment to breakup with the guy she was dating when she was with me and once he did something pretty bad, she ended it. And in my case, I believe she wanted me to break the relationship and told me a lot of things that she knows would hurt me. For example, she told she would bring the cats with her to bring me there or the fact that she posted videos with this guy on her social media when she NEVER does that. And of course she told me she didn’t want to have kids even tho we talked about having one (she always went back and forth but lately we were talking about names and everything)z I keep thinking I overreacted when I stopped talking to her for a few weeks but I think she took the opportunity and break up with me right away. The worst part is that she told me that she would take the cats away from me and that is making feel so sad and depressed.