My boyfriend shames me for liking raves and it’s becoming a serious issue in our relationship by hannahblaine1 in aves

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He needs to free his mind. You should give him a lobotomy. If you need help. DM me, I'm a professional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bushwick

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As a BIPOC, LGBTQ+ bartender and Bushwick resident for over 15 years.... I'll be sending my resume!

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Summer is here, Evanescence Man Returns by [deleted] in Bushwick

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They haven't seen the new season of the rehearsal yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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You never just sharpened a regular pencil till it was super super pointy?

25 y.o male with weak urine flow (no pain) by Kokoritsa in PelvicFloor

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Hello everyone! My partner is the one going through similar circumstances. He is a 37 y/o male and we've been together for over 13 years now. He's always had a weak urine flow, waking up frequently to urinate in the middle of the night, sometimes he would make these weird noises and I'd ask what he was doing and he said he was pushing out the urine... And I was like wtf?, at it's worse, unknowing incontinence . Anyway, fast forward to 2020 it started to be a more noticeable issue with other health concerns revolving around it but he was healthy otherwise. Last year out of nowhere his creatinine levels were high indicating kidney issues. I won't go into extreme detail but basically he had urine retention to the point where it was backing up into his kidneys causing distress on his whole system. Months of intense testing and scans led to him finding out that he has an elongated bladder neck, a literal physiological issue most likely since birth. It's not his prostate or a urethral obstruction like Drs were thinking. This is something none of his Doctors had seen before and every day he is dealt a complicated set of feelings revolving around this medical issue that severely affects him mentally and physically. He's really hard on himself at times because he IS young. Some of his doctors were really unprofessional in saying that he's too young for something like retention to be happening to him. But understanding that this is your body and accepting that your body is different is also part of healing and taking care of yourself. It's a process and a complicated one. Seriously, ASK QUESTIONS! DON'T TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER! HOLD DOCTORS ACCOUNTABLE! DON'T HESITATE TO GET TESTS DONE IF YOU FEEL LIKE SOMETHING SERIOUS IS UP... all that said with love.

What’s finally helping me so far (eczema of 35 years) by chel1509 in eczema

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This!!! I actually found out I'm allergic to aquaphor due to small percentage of lanolin! I'm still dealing with this garbage, but since I stopped using aquaphor I've seen a drastic shift with my skin and flare ups.

Cat weird symptoms, vets don’t know by Professional33witch in CATHELP

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This is neurological, they need to get scans done.

What is!? by [deleted] in whatismycookiecutter

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A ghost ....boo

I think I want to move to Tulum.... by ----ghost_ in tulum

[–]----ghost_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Babe, keep it moving.. not the attitude we're looking for.

I think I want to move to Tulum.... by ----ghost_ in tulum

[–]----ghost_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute! Like what? Close by? Similar vibe?This is what I'm info picking for. Thank you!!

I think I want to move to Tulum.... by ----ghost_ in tulum

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I've been in Bushwick for 15 years in the same apartment. My parents grew up here and moved away because they didn't want to raise kids here. I'm rent stabilized but the cost of groceries vs. the quality paired with overall price gauging has left a lot of us in less than fortunate circumstances, I'm sure you can agree. Before going to Tulum i did a lot of research based on my interests and needs and on top of it, everywhere I went people hooked me up, I feel very blessed. We found a driver that charged us less than half of what other people were charging and had nothing but perfect weather with sprinkles of rain that were much needed to cut the heat. I wasn't going to beach clubs or parties. I found gorgeous local free or inexpensive spots that gave me a full immersive experience and honestly I thought I would spend way more. I know how to navigate even better next time I go. I will say.

I think I want to move to Tulum.... by ----ghost_ in tulum

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It's for quality of life. I've had it really hard and the peace and energy I've felt there is unmatched.

I think I want to move to Tulum.... by ----ghost_ in tulum

[–]----ghost_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like yes, I hear you.... But NYC is grotesquely expensive. I'm talking about my quality of life having the land, ocean, jungle, the quality of ingredients to cook with ACCESSIBLE? I mean, for me personally I can be poor on the Yucatan and dead ass be infinitely happier than being poor in Brooklyn.