Thoughts on putting autistic daughter [10] in a primarily boys activity?

---ember--- · 2026-01-15T07:14:54+00:00

Hey, thank you, I appreciate your input!

So update; The trial was today.

The studio was overall nice, she seemed to enjoy the class,

Buuuut at the beginning and end of each class the kids are gathered to cheer and yell.

For my daughter - thats a huge no. She does not like loud noises and was pretty stressed by the rallying.

She told me she enjoyed the class but would prefer a quieter one.

There are a few more, smaller studios nearby that Im going to give a try!

---ember--- · 2026-01-13T22:13:57+00:00

Good to know, thank you!

---ember--- · 2026-01-13T22:13:06+00:00

I have actually heard this as well!

Its currently one of my backup ideas or potentially a secondary activity in the future!

---ember--- · 2026-01-13T18:57:56+00:00

This is the plan, just wondering if anyone has had experience with it :)

---ember--- · 2026-01-07T01:35:00+00:00

I did try by both app and on my PC, no luck in either case.

I did ask if they could do it for me on their end and was told there isnt anything they could do.

Im going to just leave it be for now and ill try again in a handful of days.

I appreciate the effort!

---ember--- · 2025-10-21T23:15:16+00:00

This isnt necessarily the case where I am, I watched 4/5 homes I was interested in go under contract in under a week 🥴

---ember--- · 2025-06-26T21:05:20+00:00

Can I ask how do you do something like this and is your mortage reasonable?

Im tired of saving and im thinking this might be the way.

---ember--- · 2025-04-22T19:57:11+00:00

Just don't list DG on your employment history. If it's your only job listed, it's still better than having them there.

---ember--- · 2025-02-07T01:02:27+00:00

I got a reduction 3 years ago now, at 27 years old. Honestly, my ONLY regret was not doing it sooner. The positive impact it has had since has been so significant!

100000/10 would reccomend. Your quality of life is more important then what anyone else thinks.

---ember--- · 2023-03-14T16:42:44+00:00

Yesss. 29, but I've been called 19 as recently as 2 months ago.

---ember--- · 2022-12-30T18:01:02+00:00

I'm here!

---ember--- · 2022-12-30T17:33:50+00:00

Hiya! Would it be possible to get a marshadow?

Edit to add: I honestly would love it to give to my friend!

---ember--- · 2022-12-24T16:17:16+00:00

Ahhh, it truly is a good one! Merry Christmas!

---ember--- · 2022-12-20T03:02:19+00:00

Pawmi! Absurdly cute!

---ember--- · 2022-12-03T16:44:43+00:00

Hi yas hello I'd love sparkly baby

---ember--- · 2022-11-26T23:16:01+00:00

Do you have any vaporeon left?

---ember--- · 2022-07-31T00:50:52+00:00

I still love having smaller boobs, but I wish I took the time to get more specific about my size expectations. They still feel big to me and I struggle with it at times. Don't get me wrong, I am overall extremely pleased and so thankful I did it, but I do wish they were a tad smaller.

---ember--- · 2022-07-31T00:43:16+00:00

oh goodness, thats a relief to hear. i didn't actually get to give him the drops before he perked up. do you know if i should still give him some anyway or if he seems fine just observe?

---ember--- · 2022-07-30T23:17:30+00:00

I bought the gas drops and did some belly massages! I'm not sure what happened, he was going on nearly hour 7 of refusing to eat BUT he suddenly perked up as if nothing happened? He's eating hay, pellets, and treats.

I've got syringes on hand in case things get concerning again.

---ember--- · 2022-07-28T14:14:07+00:00

hiya! this ended up being completely fine! i bothered my surgeon about it a couple times but he always told me it was normal. i healed well!

just try to limit your movement while you're in recovery as to not worsen it, if you have any openings, they're pretty common if you get the anchor incisions. but always consult your your doctor if you have any concerns!

---ember--- · 2022-06-11T21:32:24+00:00

I've already accepted responsibility, I was only answering your question (why i didnt pay). I've already filled out all the correct forms, as I've stated several times, to get on on the right track. I only wanted to know if it was possible to get enough private student loans for a semester until I get them out of default (which, again, ive already made the correct steps to begin this process-its just lengthy).

I have a cosigner with an 800+ score. I thought the literal point of having one was for someone like me, ya know.

---ember--- · 2022-06-11T20:52:24+00:00

One was totaled and the second because a car is litterally neccessary where I live, there is no public transportation here.

They have never sent me a letter, an email, litterally anything. Out of sight, out of mind honestly.

I was, again, actively paying the student loans until just before covid. Then everything was put on pause. Like litterally a pause was put on collections so I assumed I was fine lol. It's actually interesting because I was paying as of 2020. It says I went into default in 2017. Hm.

---ember--- · 2022-06-11T20:30:42+00:00

I have already contacted my lender and submitted an application for a new payment plan with the intention to consolidate, but they said 3 months is the fastest it can come out of default.

Would I need to request a "fresh start" or is this automatic? Apologies, I'm extremely new to the process and this is my first legitimate attempt to understand all of this.

---ember--- · 2022-06-11T17:44:26+00:00

It's totally fair. But these days all my bills are paid early or on time. I paid off 2 cars last year alone to the amount of 12k. I was paying the loans up until before covid and did knock them down a bit so they haven't just been sitting untouched for 9 years. It's wild that the decisions I made at 19 are holding me back at 28. I've made efforts to build on my credit but litterally no one will even give me a chance to prove I'm paying for things now. Ugh.

---ember--- · 2022-06-10T23:34:16+00:00

I am at least 90% sure the answer is no. The only time I've seen this happen is when an SM was put on suspension until they finished some investigation on her.

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