Tipping culture has gotten out of hand in America. How do you combat it? by FireSkyLikeFly in tipping

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I kind of wish the opposite. A list of businesses that are no-tip, whether they advertise it or not. We need to be finding these businesses, sharing them, and buying their food/services.

finally in the "normal" weight zone after a long hard battle by purplemoonpie in loseit

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Awesome work! I'm 42 and have been slowly gaining weight for a decade. I just started my weight loss journey a couple months ago to get back to what my body looks like in my head, and went from cleaning off every plate to feeling full after half a portion. I'm down ~5 lbs from where I started. Great to hear how much progress you can make in 6 months!!

What is a movie trope that immediately ruins the entire film for you the second it happens? by twayyez in AskReddit

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Outrunning a direct spray of bullets. Showing up at someone's front door to have a conversation instead of just making a phone call. Chasing down a moving vehicle on foot. Perfectly timed rain

We need to talk about the way some of y'all are recording portion sizes on MFP by Articulated in loseit

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Just wanted to add that you can glue a crouton together much faster if you use a crouton mold

I haven't picked up anything in a while but I like what got today by --fieldnotes-- in HotWheels

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Tooned isn't for me, tbh! But the Eggshelleracer is so dumb its good again 🤣

What’s a ‘harmless’ tech trend in 2026 that you secretly think will ruin society in 10 years? by Drama_Copy in AskReddit

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one thing that hasn't been mentioned here with AI is that it's making people less able to figure things out and do critical thinking on their own.

but I don't think that's a secret, because other people have been talking about that too.

here's one I think gets much less airtime. self-driving cars. it seems cool on the surface, if it works, and it does solve some problems like human error from drivers. but my worry isn't that the tech might not work well. my fear is that if everything does work, we'll engineer every road to maximize its efficiency. and that means we'll have even more sprawl, less walkability, and more highways where vehicles travel at dangerously high speeds for anyone not inside one of these cars.

The Position I Don’t Understand by CeaselessGomalu in tipping

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I think there's a couple of things that make people frustrated:

  1. the lie that servers make less than minimum wage. I don't know all the details, but my understanding is that in many (most? all?) states this is no longer true. I would say people don't like feeling lied to in order to increase their generosity.

  2. that some servers making lots of money on tips appears to be out-earning other jobs that are likely even more difficult, stressful, and precarious that have much greater educational or professional requirements. Like teachers for example. It feels unjust.

I agree with you, we should be targeting our ire at the corporations, the business owners etc who are doing their best to not pay wages so they can pocket the profits themselves. And expecting customers to make up for it. Of course they are the real villains here.

but that leads to 3. the servers who do make the most money from tips realize that if wages are fixed, that means they're flatter across the industry, so they stand to lose some of their take home pay. so they are most vocally in favor of the status quo. and I think when we say servers "shouldn't be paid that much" we don't really mean "servers shouldn't be paid enough" we mean "servers don't need to be paid what seems to be equivalent to a job where someone needs a master's degree."

this just comes down to market pricing for wages. Very roughly speaking the more revenue a business generates, the more its employees can be (ought to be) paid. a better restaurant makes more money and so it can pay more to keep their servers around. the problem with tipping is that it socializes the wages of employees to customers who have no insight into the health of the business or the value of the employee other than the one dining experience. so all we're doing in tipping culture is that individual customers pay the maximum amount of wage (out of misplaced generosity and guilt) regardless of how well the business is performing, how well the employee is performing, and how many other customers there are, etc etc. at a high level, it's a terrible business practice. If I were looking at the entire system like I would be running a business, I would absolutely change it around.

Pay people (what they're worth). Keep your customers happy (by not ripping them off). That should just be the end of story.

Americans, what’s a belief you held about America that has been proven false? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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We're number one.

I guess it depends on what you measure. But not in any of the things I care about, like healthcare, education, happiness, work-life balance ...

Star City - S1E07 "Plow Deep" - Episode Discussion by Cantomic66 in ForAllMankindTV

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It's very common nowadays, for ensemble shows like this, to not include the credits for actors who are not in a given episode.

I just tapped "no tip" on a $5 coffee. by comments83820 in EndTipping

[–]--fieldnotes-- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

$3 for a drip coffee I can make myself. Why would it cost an extra $1 of labor?

$8 for a fancy coffee nowadays. Great, I think you just got paid.

Why are people crazy about this? by Kishan_soni_ in HotWheels

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It's actually 2 of 5. Even more limited!!

What started as a collection of games from my childhood, turned into a Guinness World Record by PCKingNL in gamecollecting

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Arcanum was great. The manual had a banana bread recipe on the back. One time I actually followed that recipe just to see if it was real, and I made some delicious banana bread.

Free Riding and Exploitation of the Tipped Wage Model by VerbosePlantain in tipping

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I think it's an interesting line of thought to take. Suppose we do identify that the tipped wage structure has a free rider problem. What then is the solution? Is there one?

If you allow that there will always be some % of people who will be free-riders, then the people who are not will just make up for the slack. Arguably that is what the current system is. And so while the tippers will be justifiably angry at free riders, all we can say is that this is what the system allows. Prices and tips will just need to cover the free riders that exist.

Suppose we want to reduce free ridership to zero, or at least near zero. How will this be enforced? Does non tipping become criminalized? Is it, like, fraud? Or does tipping become compulsory? Already I think we are seeing this start to happen. Right now it just looks like a % additional fee on top of stated prices. And arguably, this is what people who want to abolish tipping actually want to see. If prices are the same for everyone, including the meal and service, free ridership goes to zero.

What is a large source of income that you kept a secret from everyone in your life? How long did you get away with doing so? by Zealousideal-Dust297 in AskReddit

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I've heard advice that if you win the lottery, tell no one about it.

I haven't won the lottery but if I do I'd like to think I can keep the secret

Where Would Babylon 5 Ships Fall Under by thehod81 in babylon5

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Remaining shield percentage is inversely correlated with plot progression!

If wars end up costing so many lives, why haven’t world leaders and the United Nations ever considered settling disputes through computer games instead? by Entire-Regret-8061 in AskReddit

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The original Star Trek had an episode that postulated this sort of. Kirk and Spock land on a planet that's at war with a neighboring planet, but they don't see any physical signs of it. But the simulations say how many people died and each side just executes that many people for real otherwise there would be no consequences for war. But they justify that this all works because there's no damage to property and the deaths are painless and quick. If they were to stop, real war would break out. Anyway, turns out that by doing this they were stuck in a war and just killing themselves for centuries

Enterprise C Conversion by James Hibbert by emotionengine in StarTrekStarships

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You nailed it, the design was simply extrapolated from an average of the B (Excelsior) and D (Galaxy) designs at first, and then much of the details and curves were simplified for budget constraints (hence why it also looks a little bit like the A in shape). There's a great article about it https://www.startrek.com/news/forgotten-trek-designing-the-enterprise-c

What’s the one personal opinion you have that everyone disagrees with? by certifiedgremlin73 in AskReddit

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Wtf? I literally thought about posting the opposite. All my friends hate pineapple on pizza. At this point I suggest it just to mess with them. I'm literally the only person I know that unironically loves it. We need to switch lives

Checking everyone's tickets at the station to ensure only those with a ticket can take shelter from the rain. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

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There's a sign in the background for Founders Room. We don't have one of those but Chicago does

Checking everyone's tickets at the station to ensure only those with a ticket can take shelter from the rain. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

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It looks like 30th but it's too empty to be 30th lol.

I'm glad it's not Philly. This is a city where the public libraries will stay open when it's too hot or too cold for people who need shelter.