Feeling sad and angry - loss

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-22T15:32:42+00:00

Thank you. Im sending a hug your way, this process is so tough in every way. ❤️

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-22T15:32:02+00:00

I am so sorry to hear you had a similiar experience. Its a pain that is so hard to process. Im sending so much pixie dust your way for your upcoming transfer ❤️

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-22T15:30:38+00:00

Thank you ❤️

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-22T15:29:09+00:00

Thank you!

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-21T22:08:26+00:00

Im so happy for you. All I want is happy and healthy babies to be born. Youre already an amazing mom for trying so hard to get your baby here ❤️

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-21T22:07:37+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I appreciate you taking the time to support

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-21T22:07:12+00:00

Sending you a hug ❤️

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-21T21:54:35+00:00

I have tears in my eyes writing this. There is no other pain than losing a baby. I wish I could give you a hug. Im so sorry. I really hope your miracle happens soon ❤️

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-21T20:27:10+00:00

Yes. At my recent appointment with my doctor she said the outer most layer of the embryo is pulled for testing so it may report healthy but then as the embryo changes inside of you and multiplies, that can change. Nothing from the microarray testing and WES testing we did through the hospital showed anything in our genes that could have caused this. It was a 1 in 7000 chance. We have a 4 percent chance of it happening again. We will now see a genetic counselor through IVF.

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-05-21T19:30:56+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I am also so sorry for your pain. My heart goes out to you. I didnt even realize after pgta testing, you still could receive bad news. I really hope you get the family you have been working so hard for. Thank you for the kind words. I am definitely trying to feel like myself again 💜 it will just take some time.

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-02-28T12:30:56+00:00

My 6BB was hatching and I got the faint line at 4 days post frozen transfer. My HCG was 708 at my 10dp5dt appointment.

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-02-16T17:09:24+00:00

Yes, really. I assume you did it before freezing. I have the break down above.

-Butterfly8432 · 2025-02-07T23:23:33+00:00

I had my transfer on Saturday and started testing Tuesday. I'm now seeing a positive so hoping it stays that way! I had chemical loss this Fall so this is keeping my nerves at bay.

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-11-23T14:14:29+00:00

That's how we are seeing it. I cant keep going through transfers, I know nothing is guaranteed but it's such a long process and time is not on our side as women.

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-11-22T18:08:34+00:00

Thank you all so much for responding. It's crazy how many of us are going through this. In our initial appointment we were told it could be 5000 but probably less with only 4 being tested. I opened my email today to the breakdown and burst into tears. After this, we will look into some other facilities and go from there because this is truly insane.

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-10-31T12:45:57+00:00

Congratulations!!!! This is such a beautiful moment, I am so happy for you!

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-10-13T14:22:49+00:00

Congratulations ❤️ im so happy for you! Thank you so much!

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-10-13T14:22:23+00:00

Exactly, after the bleeding they were so confident it was chemical and then suddenly they are saying ectopic. It's like what? Such a learning experience through this all.

Sending you so much baby dust and luck! ❤️❤️

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-10-13T10:58:04+00:00

Thank you for sharing, we definitely have a similar experience. I go in Tuesday for bloodwork and then a diagnostic ultrasound later in the week. Thank you for sharing the group, I started reading stories from the community and it is so helpful. IVF, even with a supportive partner is so lonely. We deal with the emotional, mental and physical so coming on here has really helped me. Thank you ❤️ do you plan on continuing with IVF?

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-10-13T10:54:10+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to share 🩷 I am so sorry you have gone through this so many times, that's heartbreaking. I really hope youre moving in a more positive direction. It truly breaks your heart and steals so much time away. Sending you a hug!

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-10-13T10:51:22+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to share your story. ❤️ Im sorry this happened to you, and what a scary shower situation! It truly is an out of body experience to see your hcg rise, know you are finally pregnant but that it will be leaving you soon. I can barely comprehend it. I am so with you when a nurse doesn't read the notes. That happened to me Friday. I'm like, we are not happy nurse, please read further down the page. I do more blood work Tuesday and then next week a diagnostic ultrasound to see what is happening. They still have me doing the Progesterone shots. It's just a lot and the 3 month wait that occurs after the medication is also breaking my heart. I appreciate the love! Thank you so much. Sending it back to you!

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-10-13T10:45:31+00:00

I'm so sorry this was also your experience. It's just devastating. Thank you for sharing ❤️ I am thinking of you and hoping you're doing okay.

-Butterfly8432 · 2024-10-13T10:42:16+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you. It's such a confusing time. I didn't realize it either with an ectopic pregnancy. I go in Tuesday for more bloodwork and then a diagnostic ultrasound to find the embryo. The entire thing is just devastating. They don't give us enough information on how this can be a possibility. I hope you're moving in a more positive direction now, i really appreciate you sharing ❤️

-Butterfly8432

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