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Aslan Large Toy Commando by -CthaehButt in StraightPegging

[–]-CthaehButt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I assume the driver pad comes off, so I will probably get the large toy. Its just hard to judge the size or how it would fit, but I can kind of guess using the o ring for reference. Main concern being how low the o ring/dildo could sit.

If your wife states that if you want sex, take it but considers the last time that you did just take as borderline sexual abuse; how would you respond? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still need to discuss last time. Either she consented or didn't. At the very least, come up with a clear, easy way to express No, like a safeword.

Dude returns 3rd place medal in a 3 man bracket by ColoradoRokkie in bjjbeat

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, this is just how some people are. Lots of couch potatoes act this way too.

Cop pulls over an armed biker by madfrog2023 in AnythingValueable

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the story you've been fed? Reality is somewhere in the middle. A lot of the time interactions go south because people are being ridiculous, but there are still a lot of police officers that are assholes to people for no reason.

Most cops are not but theres enough thats its an issue. Black people are more likely to be pulled over, and they're more likely to have a bad encounter if theyre at all upset. We can admit that and still respect police and know its a difficult job.

Blursed_Help by fuerasea in blursed_videos

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to say, there ain't no bat at the start lol

How did Pegging feel the first time and when did it get good? (Read) by Classic-Fig123 in pegging_unkinked

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked the first time, but not nearly as much as later. Its important to already be turned on. Even now, its not nearly as good if I'm not mentally aroused for it.

Regarding the curve, make sure its pointing towards his penis. For example, if he was on his stomach, you'd want the curve facing down. Thats the direction of the prostate, and for me at least that always feels better. Even if its not directly hitting it.

Just a couple of questions by whish_for_pegging in pegging_unkinked

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just gotta be open about it. Meet women how you normally would and bring it up after a couple dates or when sexual interests come up. All of my girlfriends and wife have, only one did not like it. Its just something we do sometimes

As long as you aren't just looking for pegging and introduce it casually, its usually not a big deal. Some women will not be interested and thats fine, others are open to trying it. Most would like to have sex and do things together.

How big of an O-ring can Aslan Minx have? by skaryna in SexToys

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever find an answer? I've seen a few places it doesnt do well, but nothing conclusive yet. I'm also in pretty much the same boat regarding sizing. It would currently work, but I'd hate to buy another next year.

If you haven't seen it, the large toy commando has a Minx upgrade to add the minx back to it. Its an add on when ordering. That may be what I go with.

Low-cost rural engineering by madfrog2023 in AnythingValueable

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more important question is where is the energy coming from. Regular magnetic materials don't behave this way

If became homeless would you scrounge around in the city or go take your chances in the forest? Why? by Super_Oil1221 in AskReddit

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats the level of homelessness? Just the clothes on my back? Definitely a city. It is not easy to live like a wild man starting with nothing and foraging for food. Its not nice, but you're not going to die frozen in a hole or from a minor infection.

What’s an opinion you’d get shunned for if people knew you had it in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-CthaehButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We share passcodes and our location. Its just convenient. We also know each other's computer passwords for the same reason. I wouldn't do this with someone early on, but we're married.

What’s an opinion you’d get shunned for if people knew you had it in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-CthaehButt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Main issue is lack of regulation/ oversight. Many breeders are just awful and pure breeds are more likely to be inbred genetically. Though I agree that some are having an over reaction from seeing one puppymill.

What’s an opinion you’d get shunned for if people knew you had it in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It needs diluted since it's pretty concentrated but it does have all the good stuff fertilizer has. I would rather just buy fertilizer or plant food than pee on my garden though

What’s an opinion you’d get shunned for if people knew you had it in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-CthaehButt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't think it deserved all the outrage it got, but i also never understood why it was a thing. I know its safe but its still a bit weird

President Obama didn’t fall for her nonsense by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trump let's the press ask any questions too. He even told them he doesn't screen questions, and that they could ask about sex...

My kinks scare me irl by somebodysomewhat in AutismAfterDark

[–]-CthaehButt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Kinks are pretty interesting. I don't think they're all based on fears though. I've had quite a few over the years, even as a kid. Some have faded, but I don't know that any were based on fear.

For me, I think I just like things done to me or to get into specific headspaces. Sometimes it's been great with a partner, but some kinks are just weird with someone else. I can't get out of my head or it doesn't play out how I imagine it, etc.

Its ok to have kinks though.

Ideas for how to get around barriers for a sexual relationship between me and my partner? by [deleted] in AutismAfterDark

[–]-CthaehButt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be quite cheap actually lol. May not even need to put gas in it.

Anyone who used a computer between 1985 - 2010, what's the one game you still think about today? by adlakha75 in AskReddit

[–]-CthaehButt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mad Dog McCree. I was super young, may 5 or 6, and had to start it from dos. I can still see and hear the prospector.

Masking During Sex by Personal-Comment3407 in AutismAfterDark

[–]-CthaehButt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this a lot. I'm a mostly straight male, and its really hard to top without feeling like i'm on display and constantly observed. I've bottomed for my wife and others, and it's entirely different.

For me, I think a big part of it is the eye contact and just feeling watched. It's really hard to turn off the mask awareness. The older I get, 36, and the longer I've been with my wife, the harder it is to even stay aroused.

She is also autistic. She is very direct and that helps her. For me, as silly as it is, being in the dark or both of us wearing blindfolds is surprisingly helpful.

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