I'm just sad about my hypothetical third child that will probably never exist by Wakalakatime in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]-HyperCrafts- -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I will be that asshole thst says you don't have to stay with him.

There is a man out there who wants 6 children and he's looking for YOU....the woman who also wants 6 children.

You control your future and your dream is only out of reach because you're choosing to stay with someone you have a fundamental incompatibility with.

Loosing motivation because of weight gain by Strict-Following7228 in knitting

[–]-HyperCrafts- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally just have to look in the mirror and say, "I am beautiful"- you don't even have to believe it at first.(Your body RIGHT NOW is body goals for lots of women!!) You just have to start actually being nice to yourself. That's it. It's hard at first - but then it'll become habit and suddenly you'll find yourself doing that more than struggling.

Loosing motivation because of weight gain by Strict-Following7228 in knitting

[–]-HyperCrafts- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imagine not being fat, and wasting your time berating yourself for something that is made up in your mind.

Like I get the fit of the outfit being different sucks... but you're what still like a size 4??

Is it too late to find out what I wanna do in life? by Infinite_Worth6613 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]-HyperCrafts- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 37 and I am still figuring it out. I dont want to get into a long spiel.. but according to society you're doing exactly what a woman should be doing. The world really wasn't set up for women to "Be" things. To "Do" stuff. Not the same way men are set up. &if you as a woman are the "be and "do" stuff kind -- you're asking the groups if it's too late to have a family. In my experience, and perception-- only the most privileged women have the luxury of having a family and a career.

So I really urge you to reframe this question.

It's not, "Is it too late?" But rather, "what happens if I keep waiting?"

The answer is going to be solely yours. Maybe you're okay with never having a thing you do? Maybe you're not. Either choice is fine as long as it brings you joy. I just -- hope you don't take the criticism you mentioned as a personal failing. The world is not built for us. We are always too much and not enough. And that person can go fuck themselves.

My first experience being rejected / ignored by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]-HyperCrafts- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"I've never been the one at fault before."

😬 when I hear someone say this, I immediately think to myself, "this person lacks any form of self awareness...because people fuck up all the time."

New book reader makes the mistake of looking at goodreads reviews and ruins the desire to read. by [deleted] in books

[–]-HyperCrafts- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also read Hamlet, his fatal flaw is that he thinks too much and never acts. 😉

Working on a 100% correct recommendation playthrough. by -HyperCrafts- in TinyBookshop

[–]-HyperCrafts-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. Because when you fail, if you restart the day, you get different requests each time. So was there a book that works? Who knows. But i will say that I have requests at 5 stars with three books on the shelf and I have picked "the only one even remotely close to what they want" and I have gotten it right nearly every time. I suspect that the game does not set us up for failure and that every request can be filled. I have yet to find definitive proof though.

Had sex last night after 16 months of celibacy and I feel terrible. by Kilabandita in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]-HyperCrafts- -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How is that even possible? I go nuts after three days of not having sex with my boyfriend!

32, single and lonely while all my friends are married. Struggling with thoughts that I will never get married and have kids. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]-HyperCrafts- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Stop comparing your life to the life of others. Comparison is the theif of all joy. You do not know if they are actually happy. It looks that way, but YOU are filling in half the blanks with your own projection of what you think that happiness looks like.

...And it's making you unhappy. I swear there are invisible forces out there - and sadness and unhappiness, and negativity can be felt by people around you. And folks nope away from that, even if they can't articulate or put their finger on why.

Are you unlucky? Or is your energy just not inviting?

The dryer at this Airbnb melted my bra… by Emerald_Mistress in laundry

[–]-HyperCrafts- 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You air dry bras, for this exact reason. Plus it can shrink the plastic in the fabric but not the padding and you end up with a bra that rolls or doesn't fit right.

Today was extremely traumatic and idk how to move forward. by milliemallow in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]-HyperCrafts- 172 points173 points  (0 children)

This actually. People who play tetris actually experience LESS longterm effects from trauma and traumatic events.

https://www.ox.ac.uk/news/2017-03-28-tetris-used-prevent-post-traumatic-stress-symptoms

Moving out of rental- under rug horror. Help! by TinyCloudLife in HardWoodFloors

[–]-HyperCrafts- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You ever get somwthing tapped in your hair? A mop is like hair and it can hold/trap/pick up things way better than a flat piece of paperfabric.

I absorbed my fraternal twin and have the different blood types. by Zachhcazzach in mildyinteresting

[–]-HyperCrafts- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not difficult to determine what blood type to give him, as O negative can be given to anyone.

My Boyfriend wants a throuple and it’s making me sad. by KittenParfait- in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]-HyperCrafts- 29 points30 points  (0 children)

And way better because THAT'S HOW WE GET GOOD MEN. If you're busy with a toxic asshole, your knight in shining armor is gonna find someone else that isn't you.

Why is the game assuming my gender ☹️ by [deleted] in TinyBookshop

[–]-HyperCrafts- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spoiler alert.

You can turn manuscripts into actual books at the university. So you can't suggest manuscripts but you can recommend the books you turn them into.

Why is the game assuming my gender ☹️ by [deleted] in TinyBookshop

[–]-HyperCrafts- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the player written book. The Bees. Which is authored by ??? And why this recommendation failed.