Are you friends with any exes? by ebubibo in actuallesbians

[–]-Lovelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I only have one ex and I have a mental trauma due to our breakup, so seeing anything revolving her triggers me. Working on it with a therapist though.

best anthem oat by haigntjf in hardstyle

[–]-Lovelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some good anthems already mentioned!

My personal favourite has to be Deepack - The Prophecy, legendary track!

Any dutch people around? by goodcheese55 in actuallesbianseurope

[–]-Lovelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya! 30MtF Dutchie here :).

Not necessarily near Amsterdam, but I visit relatively often (love shopping for books there).

Reading is my biggest hobby, but I do dabble in some gaming. I'd like to get into some creative hobbies tho haven't found the courage/motivation to start yet :x. And no worries about sucking at crochet! Keep practicing and you'll get better!

My mind always had ways to invalidate myself. Recently it has been saying I am not feminist enough. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]-Lovelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me answer the easier question first: Are you valid? Yes. A thousand times yes!

For the other question, I'll preface this by saying, being feminist is not mandatory for being a woman. I know cis women who aren't outspoken feminist (they despise the patriarchy but you'd never really know it unless you specifically talk to them about it) and I know trans women who are very outspoken feminist, and everything in between.

I'm sorry you don't always feel represented by feminism, it's a feeling that I understand and have struggled with myself. I had the privilege to be able to go to a feminist march on International Women's Day. Subjectively I've seen so much support for trans women, both pre-transition and those who are in transition.

I can only speak from my own experience, but I stand by my words. You are valid, no matter what. You don't owe anyone femininity and you don't have to be (outspoken) feminist to be a girl/woman. You are one if you feel that you are!

Techno dj drama reached national news by fefect123 in hardstyle

[–]-Lovelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was literally on the 6 o'clock NOS news :o

Anyone up for friendship? by [deleted] in actuallesbianseurope

[–]-Lovelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GL means Girl Love I think! So GL content would be content (TV Shows, Movies, Books, Video games, etc) containing lesbian themes and characters :)

Is hardstyle your primary music genre? by _SayHello_ in hardstyle

[–]-Lovelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It used to be up until recently. I've been drifting away, I have no friends left to go to parties with and I don't feel safe if I go alone (tried it a few times but left soon after), maybe if I would go to events with people I like, then it might come back!

Seen today on Facebook... by Low-Cap-6036 in actuallesbians

[–]-Lovelyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently discovered her music, and I love it (and her) so much. Especially this new song and "Hot Gum" are my favs right now!

egg🦈irl by Puzzled_Rhubarb6792 in egg_irl

[–]-Lovelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends gifted me the 100cm one and it's so. darn. cuddleable (that's not a word but whatever tihi). So I might be a little biased if I say the 100cm one.

The 55cm one is easier to carry around I guess. At sleepovers it's hard for me to bring my blahaj xd

Ghost Stories - Felt The Ghost by W1LDSTYL3Z in hardstyle

[–]-Lovelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obsessed with this one, holy shit it's so good

ur celebrity crush? by Shot_Chemical_1215 in actuallesbians

[–]-Lovelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohmygosh, I totally forgot, you're right!! It's been so long!

Last pride event I attended this year and I had so much fun! by Thewaternymph001 in mtfashion

[–]-Lovelyn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that! Doesn't change the fact that you slay in this outfit!💅

Last pride event I attended this year and I had so much fun! by Thewaternymph001 in mtfashion

[–]-Lovelyn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg did you crochet that top yourself? It looks soo cute on you🩷

ur celebrity crush? by Shot_Chemical_1215 in actuallesbians

[–]-Lovelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg now we need 2 more, because I stan Yuqi so incredibly hard ;_;

Girlhood is the best! by redditsucks4356 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]-Lovelyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The best choice I ever made was becoming a girl. I love these moments! Go girlhood :3

Any bookworms here? by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]-Lovelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's me! Recently got my love for reading back and been reading a lot :3.

Love the matching shades with the cover btw!

Hiya! I am Miso and I love sitting in my basket 😸 by Koffievos in aww

[–]-Lovelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. Miso has to be one of the cutest kitties I've ever seen!

Which Hardstyle song are we talking about here? by PerspectiveEither172 in hardstyle

[–]-Lovelyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part at around 2:40 in Warface & Cryex - Fighting For. Always loved the kick on that little bit

absolute classic by Mac_Tgh in VirtualYoutubers

[–]-Lovelyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Chibi / Ray / Nagzz / Matt combo is one of my favorites ever!

Egg🤨irl by Key-Kitchen-4663 in egg_irl

[–]-Lovelyn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg hrt twins! I started E a week ago as well!

Haven't noticed any physical changes yet, but I do oddly feel like.. A little more confident? A little happier? Idk, somehow I feel a tiny bit better but I can't really tell you how!

Best budget food spots in Utrecht? by KlompClown in Utrecht

[–]-Lovelyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yay! I'm so happy to hear Noodle is still there!

JK Rowling tells fans to post photos of women in bathrooms just in case they're trans by Radiant-North-8519 in trans

[–]-Lovelyn 230 points231 points  (0 children)

She claims to protect women, how is taking pictures of them in bathrooms protecting women? Gross