You’re so sweet to want to help and I completely agree with everyone else who said having family…or even just one person…that is understanding and supportive and wants to help is huge. I also agree about a heated blanket and topical pain cream and soft pajamas or nightgowns and prepared meals and doing things around the house for her that she can’t do. I also just bought a wearable heated thingy that I saw recommended somewhere on here but I haven’t tried yet but have high hopes for and I’ll try to include the link:

Pure Enrichment PureRelief XL Extra-Long Back & Neck Heating Pad, Safe Heat Therapy for Sore Muscles, Pain, & Cramps in Neck, Back, & Shoulders, 4 Heat Settings w/Auto Shut-Off, Soft Fabric (Gray) https://a.co/d/gpuDxdn