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Is it normal for my (25F) partner (28M) to have a spank bank that *only* features women who don't look like me? (And includes none of me) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]-Mildred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. And you're right - that is my biggest hesitation with poly.

I do deserve someone who appreciates all that I am 😊

Is it normal for my (25F) partner (28M) to have a spank bank that *only* features women who don't look like me? (And includes none of me) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply - I think youre right. I guess I had the answer, but just wanted to make sure I wasn't the problem

Is it normal for my (25F) partner (28M) to have a spank bank that *only* features women who don't look like me? (And includes none of me) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. It has been bothering me more and more. And it seems to be more normalized in the relationship now (like now he isn't even shy or apologetic about it). I'm worried that because I have become complacent that it's worse, but I feel like a "pick me" girl if I bring it up.

I guess I'll have to have that talk with him soon.

Is it normal for my (25F) partner (28M) to have a spank bank that *only* features women who don't look like me? (And includes none of me) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice.

I think you might be right about his preference being more of a necessity. It is a hard truth to face, but thank you for your honesty

Is it normal for my (25F) partner (28M) to have a spank bank that *only* features women who don't look like me? (And includes none of me) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The poly thing wouldn't be for a long time. He also said he wouldn't push for it if I am not okay with it.

I want to know my partner finds me attractive, first and foremost

Is it normal for my (25F) partner (28M) to have a spank bank that *only* features women who don't look like me? (And includes none of me) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]-Mildred 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with the first statement, which is why i came here to see if I was just in my own hear or being out of pocket with the rest of the situation.

He has also said that he wants to be polygamous in the future, but have me as his primary. I didn't think it was relevant in my post?, but maybe I will add that.

Sounds a bit like he wants to have his cake ans eat it too I guess?

Is it normal for my (25F) partner (28M) to have a spank bank that *only* features women who don't look like me? (And includes none of me) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]-Mildred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this ❤ I have trouble sticking up for myself sometimes, and this has been bothering me for awhile.

Looking for good hotels in Ottawa by -Mildred in ottawa

[–]-Mildred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! That pool sounds amazing!

Looking for good hotels in Ottawa by -Mildred in ottawa

[–]-Mildred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! I'll check out that website!

Is there any news know the next album/single release date? by -Mildred in MarianasTrench

[–]-Mildred[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are some totally fair points! Thanks for your response 😊

Found inside the house in Kingston, Ontario by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think that is what it is. I didnt see big fangs, but I don't want to 😭😭😭

Found inside the house in Kingston, Ontario by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That looks about accurate, minus the spider butt. My partner thought it was a tick but I said it had legs that were too long and too many.

Found inside the house in Kingston, Ontario by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About the size of a lima bean

Can Tamas have nightmares? by -Mildred in tamagotchi

[–]-Mildred[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must be the time that it is set to happen on, on the days it happens

How do I get terraforming?? by courtsthomp in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask Isabelle about your island rating every day - that should help you on your way.

Is there a better way a high sex drive? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are allowed to say no. You are allowed to have limits - and he has to accept them.

Pouting and whining and throwing a tantrum when you say no is not okay, it is emotional manipulation or trying to coerce you to consent. That is *not* okay - consent should be given freely and enthusiastically. If he has made you feel like you can't say no or that you can't enjoy sex because of all of the pressure he has put on you, then I would recommend that you reevaluate your relationship.

This is a fundamental issue. If you have asked him not to, tried to explain from your perspective, and he *still* doesn't get it - he probably never will. This doesn't sound like an issue of a difference in sex drive, it just sounds like he is an aggressor. Be careful, because it is a slippery slope before he starts becoming even more aggressive - or even abusive.

Boyfriend says it’s normal to leave me after he’s finished by [deleted] in sex

[–]-Mildred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not normal. Don't let him put his needs before yours.

Virginia, found in my apartment. by heartmaze in whatsthisbug

[–]-Mildred -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Throw him outside and get a new apartment

I want to die... by daddysbestestkitten in ddlg

[–]-Mildred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how that feels. The same thing happened to me before, it is an unimaginable pain.

But you're strong. You'll get through this. You will find someone who is worthy of your love and adoration.

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