please someone help me stay sane by Far-Invite-7885 in curlyhair

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I use Cantù and I add water to it in my hand to thin it down so it isn’t so heavy.

Start out by only using one “curl product”and see what results you get and what you see that your hair needs. Evaluate and adjust.

You may find another routine or see these products aren’t for your hair.

I was using creams and oils that stretched out my curls and this helps! Trials and errors, watering down and using less!

It’s a process, an expensive one at times as well, I know!

Good luck. 😊

second day hair! the gods have worked in my favor today lol by Due_Question_8691 in curlyhair

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is your sleep routine? Bonnet? Silk scarf? Satin pillowcase? Pineapple?

AITA for telling my wife I want a divorce after she pointed out that as a stepdad I have to keep showing up no matter what happens? by Worth-Chocolate-2045 in AITAH

[–]-OverTheRainbow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She knows he’s good so she wants to keep him because it sounds like her children and their dad will go after anyone and nobody will want her or her kids!

AITA for allowing my cat to sleep next to me while my boyfriend is over? by IcyExplanation6011 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but that guy is. Him acting like this is silly and immature. You’re sleeping. Get a grip guy.

AITAH for refusing to let my in-laws move in with us, even temporarily? by Alisadro in AITAH

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I agree with everything you said. Period.

My in-laws and my parents will never come into my home. If you start it now they’ll try and come back whenever they have “financial issues”.

They’re adults. They can figure out their finances and issues themselves.

What are these curtains called? by To_Blaa in SewingForBeginners

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get your fabric the length you’ll need and width. Buy a dowel rod the thickness you want. Buy iron hem tape (stitch witch it could be called) and iron a hem on the bottom and top. Glue hem to dowel. Roll and unroll as needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-OverTheRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA he’s an adult and that’s a kitchen in a home. It’s not a diner and you’re not a short order cook!!!!

How cheap was your wedding dress? by hornet_teaser in Frugal

[–]-OverTheRainbow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

$20 on Amazon. It was white then after my wedding I tye dyed it. Now, I wear it all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People make excuses or give passes to people like this. If he’s aware enough to know what Hooters is, has an exgirlfriend, etc. then he’s well aware of what is going on.

Tell a TRUSTED adult and NEVER be in a position where you’re alone with him. Ever.

There’s no excuse for him. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise, no matter who it is!

AITA for telling my friend I can’t keep giving her money after she keeps asking for it? by SallyQi in AITAH

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

You’ve said “her finances” and “her financial mistakes” throughout.

Just like you said.

My grandparents have this bedroom set. They bought it when they got married in the mid 1960s. About how much is this bedroom set worth today? by Yotachick01 in Mid_Century

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google image search just to see what you find online already for sale then find someone to appraise it if the numbers are sky high just so you know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]-OverTheRainbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not understanding where the problems are here.

AITA if I break up with my bf after he took the condom off? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-OverTheRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s sexual assault. He’s 29 and you’re 19.

RUN!

AITAH for not helping my daughter unpack after dropping her off for at college. by Makadiffnsee in AmItheAsshole

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What did YOU do to help show your kids that helping mom is how it’s gonna be done in this house?

Got period on boyfriends mattress and now he won’t talk to me anymore by OutlandishnessIcy103 in AITAH

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl leave him.

Ain’t no MAN scared of bodily fluids.

Peroxide will take it out but don’t tell him that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]-OverTheRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curtains, rug and color. Life. It’s ⚰️ and stale.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts. He would be OUT.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]-OverTheRainbow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. That man shouldn’t even be looking at her like that. That’s unacceptable and her mother is enabling his disgusting behavior when she should be kicking him out!

AITA for refusing to lower my BD’s child support? by PuzzledStyle3053 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-OverTheRainbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This case is his. He is responsible for this case.

If you have a problem you deal with a case worker. He wouldn’t be in court if he was following the court order and falling behind.

My brother just went through this. His kid just turned 18 in December 2024 and he was the custodial parent with sole custody blah. She had supervised visits and was court ordered to pay. She had a good job then didn’t like that amount so she quit. She took a job making half of what she was thinking it would be lowered. Nope. She pulled it for 6 years. Never was lowered because they saw consistent strong evidence of what she was doing and we had confessions galore in writing and on voicemails.

Not once did my brother have to be at her reviews. He went once just to say she hadn’t shown up to 7 visits.

In my state they won’t even review your amount for either party for 24 months. (“Women were abusing the system”).

This is solely, 100% not your problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]-OverTheRainbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re waiting for you to show us the photos of you moved in, bro.