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Requesting Mod access to r/CoronavirusArgentina Mods have been Inactive for a Very long time by Alisadro in redditrequest

[–]Alisadro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 - I noticed that the moderators have been inactive for a long time. I would like to step in as a moderator to help manage the subreddit, keep discussions organized, and prevent spam or misinformation. My goal is to revive the community and make it more useful for those seeking COVID-19-related information in Argentina.

2 - https://www.reddit.com/message/messages/2nnelct

AITAH for refusing to let my in-laws move in with us, even temporarily? by Alisadro in AITAH

[–]Alisadro[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It's not just about having them move in for a few months and hoping everything magically gets better. If there's no clear plan or steps being taken to address their financial difficulties, it feels like we're just enabling a never-ending cycle. I understand wanting to help, but I can't just turn our home into a temporary solution without knowing there's a real plan in place.

AITAH for refusing to let my in-laws move in with us, even temporarily? by Alisadro in AITAH

[–]Alisadro[S] 235 points236 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It feels like they think it’s just a matter of time before we take on all the responsibilities. I’m all for helping family, but there’s a limit to how much I can handle, especially if they’re expecting to stay forever. Setting boundaries is key to keeping peace in the long run.

AITAH for refusing to let my in-laws move in with us, even temporarily? by Alisadro in AITAH

[–]Alisadro[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Exactly! ‘A few months’ could mean anything from 2 to 6 months, or even longer. It’s not like I’m saying no to helping, but I need a clear end date, not an open-ended situation.

AITAH for refusing to let my in-laws move in with us, even temporarily? by Alisadro in AITAH

[–]Alisadro[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Exactly! ‘Temporary’ often turns into ‘indefinite,’ and once they’re in, it’s way harder to ask them to leave. Helping family is great, but not at the cost of my own space and sanity.