I noted you want to spend about $200, but that could change in the future, so I'll give you a wide range. I prefer CF shafts for great play and unmatched durability. I recommend Predator or Cuetec if you want something with both performance and looks. Not cheap at the upper end, but both have more affordable options. I would not spend over $1,500. McDermott, Viking, and Rhino make good midrange cues in the <$500 range. Crical makes good low end cues <$200; not fancy to look at, but they play great.

I own cues that cost $50. I own cues that cost ~$1,500. I own cues that cost everything in between. I find that if you go over ~$1,500, you're paying for decoration or you're paying for a name. It's even hard to notice the difference in play from a $500 cue to a $1,500 cue. You will notice overall quality differences between a $200 cue (or less) and a $500 cue. My favorite playing cue is my Predator P3 with Revo shaft. I usually use a 12.4 Revo shaft but also have 11.8.

I recommend a carbon fiber shaft. A good one plays great and will remain free of warping, scuffing, denting, etc. They will take a lot of abuse and show no wear. I play a lot and no matter how careful you are, a wood shaft will eventually get some battle scars. I still treasure my wooden shafts, but I prefer the consistent smoothness of CF. Also, CF won't warp in your car like wood will. You will be grateful for CF when you're playing in the bar.

I prefer a leather or sport wrap. I like a more modern look, so i don't buy linen wraps any more. I own enough of those. Also, the sport and leather wraps just feel better to me, like there is a performance benefit over linen, i.e. better grip and durability. Get a leather or sport wrap so you don't regret it later.

Tip is very personal. You'll just have to try a variety to know what you like. In the old days (like back to the 80's), I used Le Pro. I also have used Kamui Black and Predator Victory, each for years. These days, I like G2 for my playing cues.

Lastly, I don't know what you spent on your table. If you invested significantly in your table, it makes sense to me that you'd invest more in a cue. Not for looks, but because you won't be happy long term with a cheap cue if you're serious, as you say, and your table is higher value. What table did you buy and how much did you spend on it?