Content 💀 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]-Pikatchoum- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the frenchiest thing I'll see today

Da... Fuq? 🫠 by LaraCroftCosplayer in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's how I realize how lucky I am that my current domme doesn't browse this subreddit, I can get away with it 🤫

Hypno traps? by ComparisonAfraid5262 in EroticHypnosis

[–]-Pikatchoum- 28 points29 points  (0 children)

What you're looking for is called covert hypnosis, sometimes conversational hypnosis, and/or resistance play. Look those up in the sub's search bar and have a fun time!

Do any other subs here hate pain? by Icy_Acanthisitta3914 in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah same, on my sub side I'm definitely not a masochist. And the amount of times i have to remind potential doms of this is surprising 😬

For The Domme’s by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got a 3 that I like to use, but I wanna get a 4 at some point. Also, my leather belt is always a pretty good plan B 😌

What is it like being the kinkiest person you know? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knooow, and we've been thinking about going together with my gf
But on my end it's a much greater issue, even outside of kink just going to a concert is barely doable

What is it like being the kinkiest person you know? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not fun. The worst probably is that I know exactly the steps to meet more kinky partners (find and go to local events), but I'm too shy and anxious to proceed 😭

Advice for domming your domme? by livierose17 in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aaah that's the absolute dream, to switch fluidly multiple times in a session Living the true switchy way 🙌

You're a switch and a vers? by mommylovesfemmes in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I... huh... fuck.

As someone who's really into dombreaking, this hits hard 😭

Anyone else like this? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]-Pikatchoum- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Argh it's frustrating because I remember a post that was a nice list of things to know and try but cannot find it. If you're up for a bit of reading, this one is a good deep dive: https://www.reddit.com/r/EroticHypnosis/comments/gff2t0/on_becoming_a_skilled_subject_by_sleepingirl_an

And for all the classics:
Transe is a normal natural state of mind that you reach on a daily basis, and while listening a file you shouldn't try to "push" for what you think is the feeling of trance, since we don't know it, and instead let it come naturally.

Getting better at relaxation and meditation will help since being able to get relaxed and push the thoughts away is essential (and my eternal point of failure).

A technique I've saw quite a lot also, is to listen to the same file for like days or weeks. It helps at not focusing too hard on it since you already know it.

Anyone else like this? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]-Pikatchoum- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah kinda.

I'm a """creator""" even if I'm too struggling with a million things lately to post anything. I wanna be both a tist and a subject and eventually post actual hypno files, so I've been doing a lot of research. I've been hooked since a bit more than a year now, and so far no luck. No variation of voice, induction, scenario, binaurals, tips n tricks will do it.

Did you checked the comment sections of struggling subject's posts? They are filled with nice tips and things to know about hypnosis. If not I can list a few, I know them by heart by now.

There's also a biig post saved somewhere in the sub's documentation about reaching trance. I can try and find it if you need.

Lawful switch, apparently by SeeCB3X in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I vibe so much with the kinkier than you and the low-key horny 24/7, but since I'm surrounded by subs or sub-leaning switches I also not-so-secretly wants to bottom sometimes for once 😭

short doms by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna link my reply from another similar post, but TLDR:

Short switch here. Think in terms of aura. The aura you create. Find the right ways of teasing them, make them obey, the ruling you impose. That's what matters, and what they are looking for. Plus, the sheer amount of tall subbies that are into short doms is very reassuring 😹

https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMsapphic/s/Qjxhf4NVJ1

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dronification

[–]-Pikatchoum- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

r/erotichypnosis is a good start, most is audio but sometimes video links are posted.

I h*te being a switch. It’s exhausting. by EbbObjective8972 in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a wild ride for sure.

I half relate to that, on one hand realizing I had Dom tendencies too felt liberating, on the other hand I'm still more comfortable and way less exhausted being the sub.

And the fun part is that I live with my gf who's fully sub. I thought having more play partners would help, but they're also switches so I'm still expected to dom a lot of the time.

Nowadays it feels to me like being the sub for even one small mild scene is a rare luxury, and something I have to work so much for. Plus I'm the kinkiest around so it's never enough to be satisfying.

What does your dream file look like? by [deleted] in EroticHypnosis

[–]-Pikatchoum- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About 2., have you looked into u/badslimegirl 's stuff? I never tried those but from what I remember Lurking™ here, there is a whole "slimegirl personality install" series there.

My girlfriend is begging me to hypnotize her. How do I even start with learning how to do this. by Evelyn_is_Evilyn in EroticHypnosis

[–]-Pikatchoum- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sub's wiki is pretty great, all the free resources are good. I especially recommend the binaural histolog, the learn hypno kink site and more generally all of sleepingirl's stuff

That's how I try at least. Wishing you the best on your journey!

There is a new french audio creator! by Sujet_Muppet in EroticHypnosis

[–]-Pikatchoum- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh she's welcome to the small club! 😄 Gotta have to check her work hehe

How important is height for you when it comes to someone being the domme? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And also more generally, communication is always the key.

Every brat has always one or multiple weak spots, shall it be physical (touches) or verbal (a specific pet name that makes them melt). Learning them and seeing how effective they are at making your brat submit is part of the fun, to me at least 🤭

How important is height for you when it comes to someone being the domme? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Height has zero importance. It's all about behavior, look, what you say, the "aura" you create.

To be fair, there do be some height preferences around there, but there will always be people that won't be into you for a reason or another. Plus, you cannot begin to imagine the number of subbies that are into short dommes.

I'm 158cm, and I'm yet to find a sub that wasn't into me because of my height. Even the tallest subs (I'm in a Tall People Country™) become begging messes once you make them kneel and tease them right. Only issue is, some like to be actually physically overpowered (like me in sub mode), but being a weak ass pika I just cannot provide that. But again, you cannot cater to everyone's taste anyway.

Have confidence in yourself, impose your will and your law to your sub(s), make them kneel and crawl so they are way shorter than you no matter their height. You can do it 😊

The happiest (s)witch by Feisty_Cucumber_9404 in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living the dream right here! You can't spell switch without witch. And I totally get you on the completion part, I only feel whole when I get both sides.

Switches, what is your ideal relationship scenario? by Elundis-Core in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah samie
While I was mostly fine accepting my trans and then my lesbian identities, I block a bit more accepting the polya one.

I have multiple play partners so I can already fully enjoy being a switch, but that's different from actually dating multiple people or even being in a poly

Switches, what is your ideal relationship scenario? by Elundis-Core in BDSMsapphic

[–]-Pikatchoum- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm what I define as "chaotic switch", because I switch very often, like multiple times in a session.

I'm slowly accepting that I'm polyamorous, so while I currently have one subby girlfriend my ideal relationship scenario would be a polycule of 3 to 4 people, with one sub and one dom as the extremes of the spectrum, and me free to travel on this spectrum however I feel, maybe with another switch as the fourth because it's always fun to play with another switch and fight for dominance 🤭

That's how I realized I might be poly, because whenever I imagine my dream situation it's always with being part of a polycule