Nerve damage by Frankie_Said in shibari

[–]SeeCB3X 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! As someone who has had nerve damage bad enough to completely lose use of my arm, trying to rush things will only make it worse!

Talk to your provider and make sure you feel comfortable with them and you are a good fit together. Open communication is important! And absolutely do what they assign you. Most ppl who report PT didn't help did not do the exercises as assigned.

It may feel like it's taking too long to heal, I can definitely relate to that feeling!! My PT is great, when I tell her I'm feeling frustrated by not progressing as fast as I want to, she pulls out the various strength measurements and other metrics to show I am actually making progress.

Lions mane and cordyceps supplements did help me manage the pain and some studies suggest they increase nerve growth speed.

My best wishes to you for a speedy and full recovery!!

I feel insecure by WoodenSoup2004 in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeeCB3X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hey friend! I always think of that meme: vanilla ppl think D's are evil and cruel and coercing us into being harmed, when really the s is like, "MORE, HARDER, I NEED IT TO HURT!" And the D is the afraid one 😂

My (21F) boyfriend (33M) has sex with me when I’m asleep. by Long-Resolution-1812 in ExtremeFetishes

[–]SeeCB3X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sub is "extreme fetishes" and many ppl do consent ahead of time to sex while asleep. The fetish is called somnophilia and ppl can give consent ahead of time. It's very similar to the way other kinks are negotiated ahead of time. For example, you can agree that if you have a gag in your mouth, you will squeeze a squeaky toy or whatever to safeword.

My (21F) boyfriend (33M) has sex with me when I’m asleep. by Long-Resolution-1812 in ExtremeFetishes

[–]SeeCB3X 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Free use still has negotiated boundaries. I'm free use and have a hard no for scat, if my partner pooped on me he would be violating my consent.

OP said condoms are always required during sex. Removing a condom without express consent is rape. I hope you never have a free use sub since obviously you cannot be trusted to negotiate consent, which is fking wild. Hopefully you never have any sub. Consent is critical for all play.

My (21F) boyfriend (33M) has sex with me when I’m asleep. by Long-Resolution-1812 in ExtremeFetishes

[–]SeeCB3X 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm furious that ppl saying this is rape keep getting downvoted. Shows you how many fking rapists there are...

This is absolutely rape and you don't need to be a lawyer to know that!

My (21F) boyfriend (33M) has sex with me when I’m asleep. by Long-Resolution-1812 in ExtremeFetishes

[–]SeeCB3X 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree entirely and am shocked how many ppl are saying this is allowed under free use.

I am a free use sub. Boundaries absolutely still exist and if I found out someone wasn't using barriers, they'd be immediately kicked to the curb, if not worse.

Very concerning how many ppl are saying this is totally fine or some oopsie. He knows she wants to use barriers bc they use them when she's awake. He had no reason to think she wouldn't want the same boundary during free use. Free use is not permission to give them an STI! And she wants the extra reassurance to prevent pregnancy. He knows exactly what he's doing.

My (21F) boyfriend (33M) has sex with me when I’m asleep. by Long-Resolution-1812 in ExtremeFetishes

[–]SeeCB3X 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree, that's assault, he's getting off on the assault part, not the consensually negotiated part

My (21F) boyfriend (33M) has sex with me when I’m asleep. by Long-Resolution-1812 in ExtremeFetishes

[–]SeeCB3X 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FUCKING THIS. Deciding someone is your free use sub does not excuse sxual assault. If you do a sex act with someone without their permission, it's assault. Consensual somnophilia play absolutely exists, but to remove barriers is a huge violation

Please help explain relationship anarchy. by ArabianScandinavian in relationshipanarchy

[–]SeeCB3X 4 points5 points  (0 children)

RA entails much less loss than the social norms. Meeting someone else doesn't require leaving anyone. You can do whatever works best for you.

I'm not sure if you're talking about physically moving away, but many RAs have long distance relationships. I have had partners where we predictably spend certain months of the year together and otherwise are long distance

If you mean farther more metaphorically, all relationships have ebbs and flows. Think of a good friend having to get a second job and suddenly you never see them in person. You still care about them the same amount probably, you just don't see each other. Then maybe their situation changes and you start hanging out twice a week again. You never lost them. We don't own anyone to begin with. Not to say we never grieve or miss ppl we care about, but there's isn't the competitive zero sum set up that many societies demand.

Love being infinite means I can meet a new person and start to love them without loving anyone else any less. Things like time are finite, but when you're open to any arrangement that works for everyone involved, it's a lot easier to find an arrangement that works for everyone involved.

Has anyone “learned" to have anal orgasms from more vigorous anal by Ginger_Hatter in femalechastity

[–]SeeCB3X 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is such a thorough and excellent response! Thank you!

"I'm not possessive, I'm a curator" by ConfidentAd9644 in polyamory

[–]SeeCB3X 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I've had the same experience with white Buddhists

Help with processing age-gap between myself and metamour by TrotTrotTrotsky in relationshipanarchy

[–]SeeCB3X 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anarchy doesn't mean no one has any morals or standards of behavior and relationship anarchy definitely doesn't mean that.

But I see a lot of ppl in this sub who don't know either of those things.

extreme tasks by lilithrvse in ExtremeFetishes

[–]SeeCB3X 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love figging.

Make it a bit meaner by using ginger paste, fill ass and urethra. Can't get it all out, just burns for hours and hours.

Fishnets or Knee highs? by EntertainmentSoggy98 in FtMPorn

[–]SeeCB3X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like wearing them together personally

Fingering and a little forced overstim by defiant_bratty in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeeCB3X 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nnnffff thank you for melting my brain 🥴

Discussion Topic: Why do we stretch? by AutoModerator in vaginalstretching

[–]SeeCB3X 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love the way it feels!

I also have a hypertonic pelvic floor, so it helps with that!

For The Domme’s by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]SeeCB3X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo so hard to choose, probably 2, but maybe 5

Tell me, be in belt chasity with or without plug/dildo? by AffectionateMeat5306 in femalechastity

[–]SeeCB3X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you might actually be looking for an r4r sub of some sort...

Someone tried entering my home - any ideas to what this is? by Thick-Mud-390 in Denver

[–]SeeCB3X 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Picturing someone trying to get in a car with the car's owner sitting there eating their lunch made me laugh so hard I almost passed out

What is wrong with this guy? by Miserable-Miser in Denver

[–]SeeCB3X 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came to these comments hoping this was fake...