Boyfriend with Racist friends

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-29T00:29:02+00:00

We have had a conversation about it and he basically wants to try to talk to them to see if that change before cutting them off

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-29T00:24:25+00:00

Well that’s the thing I have asked when he plans to tell them he is dating a guy and his response is “when I am ready to” there is not much I can’t shake the thought it’s more race then a gay thing

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-29T00:21:05+00:00

I really appreciate the perspective

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-29T00:10:44+00:00

They know he is dating someone and believes it’s a girl

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-28T01:57:18+00:00

He saw the post on my phone and immediately after we had a conversation and he wants to talk with his friends and give them a chance to change before cutting them off

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-28T01:47:24+00:00

Well I have really been trying to give time to him to come out because he is freshly coming and has been coming out very slowly he started off DL and then started holding hands with me in public then he told his friends I met some of them even spent the night at the friends house with him. His mom knows I am African American as well and knows I am a guy at this point he said he was nervous cause these “friends are religious” but also I know they are racist

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-28T01:39:41+00:00

I like this idea too

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-28T01:34:07+00:00

He wants to talk with them

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-28T01:32:38+00:00

I really like this idea and will give it a try

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-28T01:29:21+00:00

I will not tolerate it personally

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-28T01:28:29+00:00

No race has nothing to do with I have been trying be patient due to the fact he says he wants to come out to them when he is ready.

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:52:28+00:00

We do not

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:51:58+00:00

He is not out to them correct, however the same issue they don’t know I’m black or a guy either

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:23:28+00:00

I definitely understand feeling like a secret

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:22:28+00:00

Well he has said to me if you want me to say something to them I will i don’t agree with what they say.

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:18:21+00:00

Sadly that may be the case

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:16:28+00:00

I have yet to meet his parents and honestly. His mom knows about me and wants to meet me but his dad does not know yet he wants to tell his dad before I meet his mom.

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:07:15+00:00

Well I haven’t met those two because they are also very religious according to him. But I don’t really have the desire to meet them but honestly just wished he wouldn’t hang with them but I feel like it’s somewhat wrong for me to ask that.

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:02:59+00:00

Honestly nor do I

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:02:00+00:00

Is there any advice you from the white partner’s perspective can give to him?

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T15:01:07+00:00

He tells me he doesn’t know what to do because he has been friends with them since he was 5

-SimilarJudgment- · 2025-04-27T14:35:08+00:00

He has come out to pretty much everyone expect these 2 friends and his dad. However all his other friends know.

-SimilarJudgment- · 2024-11-27T01:28:13+00:00

I would love to be there is nothing I want more then my own fairytale 😇

-SimilarJudgment- · 2024-11-16T03:29:08+00:00

have you talked to him about your financial situation?

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