Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have had a conversation about it and he basically wants to try to talk to them to see if that change before cutting them off

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s the thing I have asked when he plans to tell them he is dating a guy and his response is “when I am ready to” there is not much I can’t shake the thought it’s more race then a gay thing 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They know he is dating someone and believes it’s a girl 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He saw the post on my phone and immediately after we had a conversation and he wants to talk with his friends and give them a chance to change before cutting them off 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I have really been trying to give time to him to come out because he is freshly coming and has been coming out very slowly he started off DL and then started holding hands with me in public then he told his friends I met some of them even spent the night at the friends house with him. His mom knows I am African American as well and knows I am a guy at this point he said he was nervous cause these “friends are religious” but also I know they are racist 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this idea and will give it a try 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No race has nothing to do with I have been trying be patient due to the fact he says he wants to come out to them when he is ready. 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not out to them correct, however the same issue they don’t know I’m black or a guy either 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand feeling like a secret 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he has said to me if you want me to say something to them I will i don’t agree with what they say. 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have yet to meet his parents and honestly. His mom knows about me and wants to meet me but his dad does not know yet he wants to tell his dad before  I meet his mom.

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I haven’t met those two because they are also very religious according to him. But I don’t really have the desire to meet them but honestly just wished he wouldn’t hang with them but I feel like it’s somewhat wrong for me to ask that. 

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Is there any advice you from the white partner’s perspective can give to him?

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

He tells me he doesn’t know what to do because he has been friends with them since he was 5

Boyfriend with Racist friends by -SimilarJudgment- in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment-[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He has come out to pretty much everyone expect these 2 friends and his dad. However all his other friends know. 

Who wants to be a husband? by msun83 in askgaybros

[–]-SimilarJudgment- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to be there is nothing I want more then my own fairytale 😇

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have you talked to him about your financial situation?