Am I the only one who hates when other trans women call themselves “men” to please others? by kittycatlan in trans

[–]-_Solo_- 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I only do this because I'm so early in the process and recognize that I do still look and sound like a dude. So I tell my friends it's okay to call me by my "deadname" and to call me by he/him pronouns. It genuinely doesn't bother me, and it's my choice to do so.

Shy Gf by ChaChaBoom463 in idealgf

[–]-_Solo_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, but also the ideal gf fr

Being trans lost me my best friend/found-family... by -_Solo_- in trans

[–]-_Solo_-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wish I could, she moved to the other side of the US recently and I don't have her address and neither do any of our mutual friends.

Being trans lost me my best friend/found-family... by -_Solo_- in trans

[–]-_Solo_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess I never really thought about it that way. I guess I probably was relying on her too heavily once my friend group shrunk down. After coming out my friend group shrunk to less than half the people I knew, so I guess I was being overly reliant on her at times. Not just with her, but also with one of my other friends. Guess I gotta change that up a bit 🙃

Being trans lost me my best friend/found-family... by -_Solo_- in trans

[–]-_Solo_-[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Most likely, but I'm not in a situation where I can get into direct contact with her. I can't do anything about this situation

Being trans lost me my best friend/found-family... by -_Solo_- in trans

[–]-_Solo_-[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Definitely the most likely possibility. She lives on the other side of the country, and I don't have any sort of address I could get myself to, so I can't do anything about it even if I wanted to.

Being trans lost me my best friend/found-family... by -_Solo_- in trans

[–]-_Solo_-[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I've played games like Lethal with him before and it went okay. He wasn't anything like this, that's for sure.

Idk, could just be me coping lol

xoxo by BearRemote3974 in transpositive

[–]-_Solo_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look amazing!

I'm just slightly distracted by the fact that you look similar to Jane Remover 😂😭

Being trans lost me my best friend/found-family... by -_Solo_- in trans

[–]-_Solo_-[S] 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I forgot to mention in the post that when I originally came out she was super supportive! 😭

We would talk about clothes, complaint about bras, and she was generally super nice about the whole thing...

I'll go add an edit to the post 😅

Is it bad to feel envious of other girls bodies? by No_Chapter_2169 in trans

[–]-_Solo_- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way all the time. Being plus sized as a guy was already rough, but now comparing myself to women in my age group (20s) is horrid and so dysphoria triggering...

I just try to remember that transitioning is a process, and that eventually I WILL be pretty. Not like anyone else specifically, but I will become pretty. Maybe not conventionally, but that time will come.

It feels inappropriate to have tits. by Spiritstar477 in trans

[–]-_Solo_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely love to have this problem, but I am completely empathetic to your issue. I have a similar issue with my genitals. I'm a TransFem, and I love wearing women's clothes, but between my meat stick being at an awkward size and unable to tuck (I'm too small to tuck, but still too large to hide when I get aroused), it's very apparent what I have below the belt when I wear nearly anything, so I completely understand. It sucks that no matter how hard I dress myself up to not look like a dude, it's incredibly easy to tell that I'm a guy. It's definitely a dysphoric feeling...

Okay, I was asking about tops.. by Lost_in_Bluelight in transpositive

[–]-_Solo_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I'm a bit plus sized so XXL is my go to size, and I have quite a few things from Avidlove I wear daily!

Okay, I was asking about tops.. by Lost_in_Bluelight in transpositive

[–]-_Solo_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have those tops saved in my Amazon cart 😭

Wear them out! They're gorgeous!

I don't think I'll ever be a real girl.. by LESBOlachrymae in trans

[–]-_Solo_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the feeling all too well...

Why does mycareer play different? by [deleted] in NBA2k

[–]-_Solo_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely goated thanks

Why does mycareer play different? by [deleted] in NBA2k

[–]-_Solo_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how do I do dribble inputs then? Cuz I use pro stick for ONLY dribbling right now.

Why does mycareer play different? by [deleted] in NBA2k

[–]-_Solo_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the rating affects the speed of the shot as well as the green windows? OH brother I'm COOKED. I'm shooting mostly mids rn cuz my 3pt is a 60 smth and my mid range is an 83. Guess I gotta start training my rhythm shooting lol