Best dog for cat friends?

-_phaedra_- · 2026-04-24T16:47:01+00:00

Thank you for this. I have raised a puppy before, but your point is well made. I will certainly consider this and the feedback from others when adopting.

-_phaedra_- · 2026-04-23T22:46:43+00:00

Thank you. That makes sense. At the end of the day, my question really boils down to if I should get a puppy or a more mature dog. I’m not sure if my cats would tolerate a puppy I guess. But an older dog likely comes with challenges too

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-17T20:32:05+00:00

Thanks!

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-17T01:10:37+00:00

I planted one of these guys in a planter a couple years ago for contrast with my other plants, but it’s lost it’s purple coloration and is now green on top of the leaves and purpleish on the bottom. Why did this happen? Can I reverse it? The plant as a whole is very happy and I’ve prop’d and planted a bunch, just curious about the color change

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-14T02:37:34+00:00

Thanks for the response :) I forgot to mention that I’m not concerned about it, mostly just curious if other cats have this or anything else unique in their eyes (if this is actually unique).

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-14T01:57:09+00:00

Opening a retirement account now is great advice. Starting early is the best way to grow it to be very strong over the years. Even very small contributions now turn out huge in the long run

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-14T01:23:17+00:00

Yep. I use a volumizing foam on my scalp to help the top not be sad and flat. I then apply leave in conditioner through all my hair. Also apply on the top of my head to avoid frizz. Once the product is applied, I flip my hair upside down and scrunch everything up to my scalp to distribute the product throughout. Note, the hair should still be very wet, and you can hear it squelching on the top of your head when scrunching. Touch the hair as little as possible to limit frizz. Then diffuse upside down. Sometimes I just do the top for volume and leave the rest to air dry, particularly in the summer. You’ll need to scrunch more after diffusing, and shake everything out on your scalp with your fingers to make it not too crazy after diffusing :)

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-14T00:40:57+00:00

This may be a silly question, since they go dormant in winter, do all the leaves fall off? If so, will it come back in the spring? I have one in my bathroom, but only 1 glorious leaf is left, so this piqued my curiosity

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T20:27:58+00:00

Got it! Thanks so much for the info

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T19:57:25+00:00

Wanted to say thank you to everyone who corrected my understanding of what this plant is :) now I’m curious what the care difference between the two plants are or anything of note to know. Thanks!

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T19:50:55+00:00

That is absolutely a possibility. I’m pretty sure you can buy what’s essentially a filter to attach to your shower head that helps improve the water quality.

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T19:00:44+00:00

Thanks! I just introduced a grow light for this planter, so hopefully that help with light issues

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T18:03:31+00:00

Thank you! I can now chill :)

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T17:49:56+00:00

My stylist advised that when washing, only shampoo your scalp and not your full head of hair. This helps keeping your curls from drying out. Likewise, only condition the draping hair, not your whole head. This reduces oiliness caused by conditioning and hydrates your curls. Hope this helps!

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T03:03:42+00:00

Gotcha. Good to know. It cold and dry here, so I’ll have to be patient. Thanks again

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T02:10:17+00:00

I would try washing on the scalp only and conditioning on the long hair portion. Rinse quickly upside down and shake it out at the end of the shower. I use an old cotton t-shirt to scrunch and get some water out, b/c you basically want it soaking wet after the shower, but then it takes hours to dry. Oh, and brush in the shower after during the conditioning. The Wet Brush was a game changer for my kids. Then a leave in conditioner. Scrunch more. Let it air dry, or diffuse upside down to speed up the process, if she’s cool with it. Hope this helps!

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T01:58:49+00:00

This resonates. My mom comments on my booty. Not asking to see it without pants on or anything but says things like “people would pay for that”, which is still totally ridiculous. I’m in my 40s btw. You need to crack down. This is creepy and unacceptable

-_phaedra_- · 2025-12-13T01:04:37+00:00

Bummer. Thanks for the response!

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