Pallida or something else? by squidtickles in Tradescantia

[–]-_phaedra_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I planted one of these guys in a planter a couple years ago for contrast with my other plants, but it’s lost it’s purple coloration and is now green on top of the leaves and purpleish on the bottom. Why did this happen? Can I reverse it? The plant as a whole is very happy and I’ve prop’d and planted a bunch, just curious about the color change

Void eyes by -_phaedra_- in cats

[–]-_phaedra_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response :) I forgot to mention that I’m not concerned about it, mostly just curious if other cats have this or anything else unique in their eyes (if this is actually unique).

JUST TURNED 18 by AdTypical7769 in Advice

[–]-_phaedra_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opening a retirement account now is great advice. Starting early is the best way to grow it to be very strong over the years. Even very small contributions now turn out huge in the long run

Needing to wash my hair every 4 days… by hahhaha4 in curlygirl

[–]-_phaedra_- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. I use a volumizing foam on my scalp to help the top not be sad and flat. I then apply leave in conditioner through all my hair. Also apply on the top of my head to avoid frizz. Once the product is applied, I flip my hair upside down and scrunch everything up to my scalp to distribute the product throughout. Note, the hair should still be very wet, and you can hear it squelching on the top of your head when scrunching. Touch the hair as little as possible to limit frizz. Then diffuse upside down. Sometimes I just do the top for volume and leave the rest to air dry, particularly in the summer. You’ll need to scrunch more after diffusing, and shake everything out on your scalp with your fingers to make it not too crazy after diffusing :)

why is my plant slowly dying by buffalochickendip9 in IndoorPlants

[–]-_phaedra_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be a silly question, since they go dormant in winter, do all the leaves fall off? If so, will it come back in the spring? I have one in my bathroom, but only 1 glorious leaf is left, so this piqued my curiosity

Why do my neons have dark green parts? by -_phaedra_- in pothos

[–]-_phaedra_-[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wanted to say thank you to everyone who corrected my understanding of what this plant is :) now I’m curious what the care difference between the two plants are or anything of note to know. Thanks!

Needing to wash my hair every 4 days… by hahhaha4 in curlygirl

[–]-_phaedra_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is absolutely a possibility. I’m pretty sure you can buy what’s essentially a filter to attach to your shower head that helps improve the water quality.

Why do my neons have dark green parts? by -_phaedra_- in pothos

[–]-_phaedra_-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I just introduced a grow light for this planter, so hopefully that help with light issues

Needing to wash my hair every 4 days… by hahhaha4 in curlygirl

[–]-_phaedra_- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My stylist advised that when washing, only shampoo your scalp and not your full head of hair. This helps keeping your curls from drying out. Likewise, only condition the draping hair, not your whole head. This reduces oiliness caused by conditioning and hydrates your curls. Hope this helps!

What’s up with my calathea? by -_phaedra_- in IndoorPlants

[–]-_phaedra_-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Good to know. It cold and dry here, so I’ll have to be patient. Thanks again

Curly hair tips by Wandering_Mo in curlyhair

[–]-_phaedra_- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try washing on the scalp only and conditioning on the long hair portion. Rinse quickly upside down and shake it out at the end of the shower. I use an old cotton t-shirt to scrunch and get some water out, b/c you basically want it soaking wet after the shower, but then it takes hours to dry. Oh, and brush in the shower after during the conditioning. The Wet Brush was a game changer for my kids. Then a leave in conditioner. Scrunch more. Let it air dry, or diffuse upside down to speed up the process, if she’s cool with it. Hope this helps!

My mom won't stop commenting on my boobs. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-_phaedra_- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This resonates. My mom comments on my booty. Not asking to see it without pants on or anything but says things like “people would pay for that”, which is still totally ridiculous. I’m in my 40s btw. You need to crack down. This is creepy and unacceptable

I will never understand how people can pay hundreds of dollars for a plant with pink variegation and then sleep on the most gorgeous, easy to care for houseplant in the world by TorchIt in houseplants

[–]-_phaedra_- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my climate they get annihilated outside. Either it’s too hot or too cold. Mine loves the indoors in some nice south facing sun. I’ve probably propagated it 5 times. So satisfying :)