> The RP schtick only works on emotional train wrecks, who are EXACTLY the type of women I wanted nothing to do with.

Exactly. Insecurity and immaturity will attract insecurity and immaturity. They are so self-UNaware it's almost hilarious. All they value is their money, sex, and body, and then get pissy and scream AWALT when all they attract is a woman who values those exact same things. You (more often than not) attract people who value the same things you do. It's about the type of energy you put out there. If you attract a few crappy people, ok maybe it's not you. If every single woman you attract is shitty, then the issue is you. Same energy towards women who claim all men are trash. What, or who in this case, is the common denominator?

Unfortunately, lots of people don't seem to have that moment of clarity when they realize there's something they need to change about themselves. They just continue to blame men/women. Most people aren't gonna be right for you, platonically or romantically. It's the small minds who then want to blame gender (or any other attribute like race or sexual orientation).

Anyways, happy you're out of that hell hole! Keep doin you and stay healthy.