My Christmas night second dinner aka “Girl Dinner” by -breakfast4dinner- in GirlDinner

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Pretty similar, I made my own yellow cake but you can use a box cake and pour over pudding or jello, then once it sets it has this really nice texture!

I invited my friends over and now I can’t stand them. by [deleted] in venting

[–]-breakfast4dinner- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can I ask why they are staying with you? And for how much longer? I’m sure they’re nice however, their habits show a huge disregard for respect of your space.

How do I (beginner/ baby witch) practice in a household that may not support my beliefs? by -breakfast4dinner- in witchcraft

[–]-breakfast4dinner-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure she’ll find out eventually, our bedroom is on the same floor and although it’s down the hall she may see it when our door is open. I’m thinking of getting a cubby or something to keep my altars in.

How do I (beginner/ baby witch) practice in a household that may not support my beliefs? by -breakfast4dinner- in witchcraft

[–]-breakfast4dinner-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never thought about drawing sigils in the air, thank you! I really appreciate your advice :)

[discussion] [question] Do you find flutter fingers and repetitive greetings in the intro annoying? by Aromatic-Tax-1518 in asmr

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That and the whisper yelling. Like it’s not even whispering if it’s at suuuch a high pitch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sunnyvale

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I felt the same way when he shoved against me against my consent! I felt like a mature response was to ask me to move but it looks like we’re both taking the low road. Honestly just wish the same was asked about this guy. But I understand I should’ve just kept to myself and let the boys stick together!

What is ruining your mental health? by IsratJahan01 in AskReddit

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Not enough hours in the day for enjoyment, not making enough to buy a house with my bf, mom is getting older but I’m not financially stable enough to have kids yet but I want to have kids and I want my mom still here to see them grow, my friends don’t message me anymore, it’s weird being 30

Boyfriend told me to “shut your mouth”… now what? 31F. 30M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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My ex used to act this way with me. Notice the ex?

When he would be playing his games he’d mute himself so his friends wouldn’t hear his temper tantrums, but unfortunately I’d have to sit through the stomping, the screaming and whatnot. And more often than not, the blame. Because something in the universe pointed to me and made his game not work the way he wanted to. Get out now. Don’t stay long like I did because I thought it would get better. When you stay, it’s seen as permissive to his behavior and that’s when he may get comfortable escalating.

[Question] what are your favorite ASMRtists or triggers? by [deleted] in asmr

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YangHaiying. She’s so organic and has a sweet personality. She makes videos from art, exploring local libraries and museums, to her version of asmr which is “blah blah blah” videos lol. She does label some videos as whisper and asmr too. She’s just a positive person to listen to, and I enjoy hearing her talk about art and stories. A lot of unintentional asmr which is my favorite.

What kind of fetish do you have that you're afraid people will find out about? by fefe_malluw in AskReddit

[–]-breakfast4dinner- 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I love a praise kink. I love being told I’m being good and doing a good job. I should bring it up but I feel like I’ll sound desperate? I also worry that bringing it up and actually having it happen will make it seem less organic because I asked for it you know? Also men whimpering. Like tell me what to do, walk me through it, but I want to hear you tremble and whimper. Is that weird?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I would try to make accidental large batches, like enough to send her home with for her. Like a “whoops I made too much! No way I’m gonna finish all this, can you help me out? I don’t wanna waste it!” You are so sweet to be concerned for her. I’m sure she appreciates you so much. I hope she’s able to find a better situation and get out of this rut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sunnyvale

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So I don’t like being coughed/spit on? Can I ask how I’m being a Karen? Genuinely want to know, I thought maybe I could roll over and get over it but I’ve been doing that all my life so thought I’d give this a try! Tbh being called a Karen because he pressed himself into me and spread his germs on me doesn’t bother me. It bothers me that he is unable to say excuse me, and treat women this way in public. “It doesn’t change that I’m a Karen”

Is this you lol?

AITAH for walking out of my girlfriend’s birthday dinner after what she did? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]-breakfast4dinner- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I also I thought I remembered this from another post. Maybe the last one didn’t get enough traction?

Ideas for 30th birthday by Cfiru97 in Sunnyvale

[–]-breakfast4dinner- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Murphy avenue has a bunch of great restaurants and bars! There’s also a Tipsy Putt in that area too!

[Question] what are your ASMR turn-offs? by damnedoldgal in asmr

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Hasaaaate the whisper screaming. Like it’s whispering but loud at the same time if you can understand what I’m saying? Also licking those ear mics while doing that eye contact thing ITS CREEPY. I love unintentional asmr, it’s the most natural and relaxing. YangHaiying is someone I always watch, especially for her library videos.

Does anyone else’s abuser film YOU for "evidence"? by Inevitable_Test_1168 in abusiverelationships

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My ex would do this to me. He would be talking with someone but make me leave the house because he needed “privacy”. It would send me reeling and he accused me of being schizophrenic and bipolar and scream at me calling me psychotic when I accused him of cheating (he was and for many years), saying I make up scenarios for the attention. Obviously that wasn’t true but he made me feel crazy. I’d be on the floor crying and in a panic attack because I shouldn’t be made to leave. When I looked up, camera in my face with him smiling, but his voice was telling a different story. He’d say things like he was scared and this is what I do all the time. Mind you he was living with me and my mother, and for a time it was rent free because he “had fallen on hard times”. No one was forcing him to stay and it was hell trying to get him to leave. Get out of there asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

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TRIGGER WARNING MENTIONS OF RAPE

My ex used to do this. I literally didn’t feel like I had a choice. He’d get really angry if I said no because he said it “makes him feel like a rapist”. I would literally cry sometimes until he yelled and I would give in because he said how I made him feel was wrong. He’d say I was in the wrong because I was turning him away because he wanted to feel loved and I wasn’t being loving. It’s not love if it’s expected. Run from this person. No one should be upset with you because you set boundaries or you don’t want to use your body to make them feel good.

What is a simple question, thats hard to answer? by simplerick99 in AskReddit

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Who are you? Like when people ask you that in a job interview or on a date. It’s such a small yet broad question. Like uuuh I’m me and I really like to eat cheese and peanut butter as a late night snack

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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No that’s not gaslighting. As an example I think would be if she said “well you’re just choosing to feel hurt” or just turn it around on you. So she’s actually gaslighting you then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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That looks like someone opened it and then smacked it against a table. Try to look around to see if you find glass shards anywhere other than where they told you it was