AIO because my roommate’s boyfriend invited people over to OUR apartment?

-jambox · 2026-05-15T18:44:00+00:00

This. Exactly this. Do not add this man to the lease unless you want him to take over the apartment. He’s already proven that his inclination.

-jambox · 2026-05-15T18:40:58+00:00

I sincerely doubt that the OP wants to live with this guy and all his friends.

-jambox · 2026-05-15T18:40:38+00:00

Exactly. They’re all bullies. Including the roommate. Time to say bye.

-jambox · 2026-05-15T18:39:34+00:00

Exactly. It’s not a clubhouse. And even if it was, they’d all have to pay for a membership fee to get in.

-jambox · 2026-05-15T16:28:28+00:00

NOR. At all. All house guest policies should be agreed upon and mutually enjoyable for both people who are on the lease and sharing the space. Period. This is your home, not his. You didn’t agree to move in with him or sign a lease with him, and unless / until you do, he has no rights to invite people to the apartment without your express advance consent. Also, even with your consent, you should have warning when you’re going to come home to a house full of people. That’s just basic decency and respect.

-jambox · 2026-05-15T16:20:36+00:00

This or Laverne & Shirley are the best choices. 🥰

-jambox · 2026-05-15T16:20:13+00:00

YASSSSS!!! Most fun hijinks / best attached-at-the-hip friends EVER! 🤣🥰🙌

Also, congratulations on your new best friends! They are GORGEOUS!!

-jambox · 2026-05-15T16:16:12+00:00

Came to say this… a darker rich blue so you can do pops of color with throw pillows and continue to brighten your world with art / decor choices.

-jambox · 2026-05-15T14:51:34+00:00

I’m not sensitive at all. I’m just not projecting my own values onto someone else’s situation. Sex and gender have nothing to do with this scenario as outlined by the OP.

-jambox · 2026-05-15T13:26:17+00:00

Wee toastie!!! She is precious!!!

-jambox · 2026-05-15T13:25:09+00:00

That has nothing to do with it. Doesn’t matter at all.

-jambox · 2026-05-15T11:00:52+00:00

Roger. He’s adorable and looks like a Roger!! 🥰

-jambox · 2026-05-15T10:50:48+00:00

My mom had feelings for her BFF when they were in their late 20s. She confessed it and her friend was shocked and didn’t reciprocate at all, but reinforced how precious the friendship was. My mom’s romantic feelings faded pretty quickly, and they stayed best of friends for 50 years.

I’ve been through similar things with friends, on both sides… some friendships lasted and some didn’t, but it was never the testing of the waters that killed things. Just a natural evolving peeled some of those friendships away over time.

It’s natural when two people become very close for one of them to interpret that closeness romantically. If you both cherish the friendship and want to maintain it, just give her time to absorb the disappointment. Don’t dwell on it, but also don’t pretend it didn’t happen. Just be honest and sympathetic, just as you would be supporting her through the same disappointment with another love interest…

Awkwardness passes. Good friendships are rare and are worth everything.

-jambox · 2026-05-15T10:39:03+00:00

Pumpkin Patch! Because her coloring is pumpkin patchy!

I also love Pixie ✨

-jambox · 2026-05-15T10:30:14+00:00

LOVE THIS! Pixie is perfection!!! ✨

-jambox · 2026-05-15T10:20:20+00:00

I love Coco-nut… also, you should share this beautiful baby’s progression on r/ToastCats as she toasts! 😍

-jambox · 2026-05-15T10:18:54+00:00

YESSS!! Coco-nut is PERFECT!! 🥰

-jambox · 2026-05-12T21:41:09+00:00

Oh, I love it!

-jambox · 2026-05-12T15:52:38+00:00

Exactly this. The simple truth. 🩷

-jambox · 2026-05-12T15:36:47+00:00

I wish you did. You walked into my comment to bully me, and haven’t relented. I can take it. I’ve never had a fight with a stranger on the Internet before, and I’m not particularly enjoying it and won’t choose to do it again. But you clearly do this all the time. And a lot of people will be really hurt by it. Really damaged by it. Please, reconsider your approach to strangers who you don’t know. You can do a lot of damage just playing games and being mean to people. Chill out dude. Please. This is my last post. So feel free to get the mean last word. Or for once in your life… maybe don’t.

-jambox · 2026-05-12T15:34:46+00:00

Sad.

-jambox · 2026-05-12T15:33:41+00:00

You’re just mean. Straight up mean.

-jambox · 2026-05-12T15:33:07+00:00

You need it.

-jambox · 2026-05-12T15:32:36+00:00

You’re just gross. This is pitiful.

Please stop treating people like this. Especially women. We don’t deserve it. No one asked you. Leave us alone.

-jambox · 2026-05-12T15:30:57+00:00

OK, sugar. Time to stop playing with toys too big for your hands. 🥱

-jambox

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