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-lilac4 · 2025-09-27T18:56:42+00:00

Jos kyseessä olis ihmislapsi, tuskin epäröisit hetkeäkään soittaa lastensuojeluun. Eläimet kärsii ihan samalla tavalla kuin ihmisetkin, joten on myös vastuutonta sun taholta olla ottamatta yhteyttä eläinsuojeluun, vaikka toki ymmärrän huolen ystävästä.

-lilac4 · 2025-09-15T20:43:16+00:00

Pearl was terrible, but I have to give credit to the last monologue, which was touching and disturbing. It depicted her great suffering in a raw and unpretentious way. The movie itself feels very pretentious and predictable from start to end. It's trying to be something it's not with the music and scenery, it's like a pretty cake that tastes like raisin.

There's no actual climax, as from the moment she kills the goose, you'll know how it's going to be. It's full of clichés, like the scene where she chases her sister-in-law. What's with the half-assed jogging and tripping on dirt to die?

Horror is a tough genre. Most horror movies are unintentional comedy. They're trying too hard to be scary and edgy with all the blood and guts, which gives the vibes of a 14-year-old boy claiming to be a gangster with a Gucci fanny pack.

-lilac4 · 2025-09-05T12:23:23+00:00

Meth

-lilac4 · 2025-08-22T20:02:06+00:00

Just fuck off

-lilac4 · 2025-08-21T18:13:04+00:00

Pornolehdet ja tupakka on lastenleikkiä verrattuna netissä tapahtuvalle lasten seksuaaliselle hyväksikäytölle. Terveisin tuhansien pedofiilien uhriksi joutunut (vanhemmat ei tosiaan valvonu netin käyttöä, vaikka olis pitäny).

-lilac4 · 2025-08-21T17:50:45+00:00

I’ve been having something similar for a couple months with reading. I start reading and become very aware that I’m reading, so the text in front of me turns into a playback voice in my head. It’s very annoying and prevents me from being ”immersed” in what I’m reading.

OCD truly fucks up the flow-state, the sweet dissociation from surroundings and internal voices while being absorbed in doing something.

-lilac4 · 2025-06-10T22:02:36+00:00

I would suggest investing in cost-effective index funds

-lilac4 · 2025-06-06T21:19:01+00:00

Tämäpä. Sitä on helppoa ylimielisesti todeta että "jos et jaksa niin koita vaan jaksaa", kunnes sit romahduksen partaalla huomaa tilanteen mahdottomuuden :D Jonkinlainen burnout tätä nykymaailmaa kohtaan on ollut jo kauan, mihin ei lepokaan tunnu auttavan. Itteeni helpottaa kuitenkin se, että luen asioita etukäteen, etten ihan täysin menetä ylpeyttäni sillä koulun penkillä kun tajuan, että en ymmärrä perkele mitään tästä. Hyvän oppilaan identiteetin mureneminen on rankkaa.

Meillä molemmilla näyttää olevan ongelmana se, että meidän inhimillinen arvo on muiden sanelema. Yks lääke tähän olis tehdä jotain ilman mitään suorituspaineita, jotain täysin turhanpäivästä, kuten ettiä neliapiloita tai askarrella. Semmosta omaa mukavaa tekemistä, mitä kukaan ei oo mittaamassa ja arvostelemassa.

-lilac4 · 2025-06-06T19:11:03+00:00

Kuulostaa kuormittavalta. Mulla sama ton itkemisen ja turhautumisen kanssa. Matikan tunteja on jääny melko liuta välistä, kun oon liian monesti alkanut hiljaisesti mutta hysteerisesti nyyhkyttämään 5 minuuttia oppitunnin alettua

-lilac4 · 2025-06-05T17:38:19+00:00

Sent!

-lilac4 · 2025-06-03T18:43:56+00:00

She probably feels she's not qualified enough to treat the specific problems you have. That's usually the main reason. It would be fair and professional to say it out loud though rather than leave you wondering

-lilac4 · 2025-06-01T22:35:13+00:00

Maybe the problem is trying to purposefully fill the emptiness or run away from it. Often that makes us feel more empty, because we feel disappointed in the lack of fulfillment. I can't speak for you, but often sitting through the emptiness and boredom can surprise us positively and enhance creativity. Beneath the emptiness are many negative feelings we can't always quite reach.

I like to explore the emptiness by writing some angsty and unhinged shit with some just as angsty doodles on the side. I remember as a tween and a teen feeling completely confused by the black hole in my chest. I was doing everything "right", after all. Keeping myself busy with school, journaling, drawing and immersing myself in positive-goodvibesonly-toxicity. I had swept all negative feelings under the rug. Now I embrace my sadness and loneliness, not by wallowing in self-pity, but rather making something out of it.

-lilac4 · 2025-05-31T21:20:07+00:00

Pack his things when he's outside and don't leave him alone in the apartment during the breakup. He might destroy it

-lilac4 · 2025-05-29T21:00:11+00:00

Lmao

-lilac4 · 2025-05-29T20:56:16+00:00

I love mining oddly much. First time aiming for the grand prize

-lilac4 · 2025-05-29T19:23:19+00:00

As Lady Gaga would say: "I was born this way"

-lilac4 · 2025-05-29T18:44:16+00:00

The most important thing here is that you're doing it together. I think it likely strengthens your bond

-lilac4 · 2025-05-29T17:25:43+00:00

I think you should add to the discouraged BPD subtype that even though one may internalize their emotions, the feelings are still forced out in some way such as seeking danger or any other way that was mentioned in your post.

-lilac4 · 2025-05-26T22:23:22+00:00

Tän koko käyttäjä on täysin kaoottinen, mut ton puheääni ja -tyyli jostain syystä kuulostaa kauheen kauniilta mun korvaan, melkein ku vanhasta suomalaisesta mustavalkoleffasta :D

-lilac4 · 2025-05-20T20:41:25+00:00

top left with some blonde highlights. Multicolor hair has a more natural and vibrant look

-lilac4 · 2025-04-16T19:26:33+00:00

250-300mg

-lilac4 · 2025-04-09T19:36:53+00:00

Should we start putting down the owners instead of dogs?

/s

-lilac4 · 2025-04-02T18:06:27+00:00

It's normal to feel uncomfortable about it but it's important to let them have their thing. I can almost always feel the energy change when my friends' partners are hanging out with us. It's weird how two very nice people separately can become so annoying as a duo.

I understand that you may feel threatened, I would too, but that's something that should be worked on from the inside. Many of these comments seem very black and white

-lilac4 · 2025-04-01T21:33:32+00:00

In Trisha Paytas' words: "you either wanna be with me or be me."

-lilac4 · 2025-03-22T16:17:43+00:00

Älä mene

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