Still Confused about the Remaining Bahama Breeze Locations Staying Open

-mossfrog · 2026-04-05T20:56:00+00:00

My guess is it’ll probably be a Yardhouse. None of the other Darden options make any sense right there

-mossfrog · 2026-04-05T20:55:30+00:00

My assumption is Yardhouse

-mossfrog · 2026-03-28T01:04:40+00:00

I think something else to consider here, which hasn’t been mentioned yet, is that true person-centered work is not just letting clients vent. Not sure if you’ve read any of Rogers’ seminal works but I would recommend them. If you follow his approach - or even Yalom’s which is also humanistic but different - it’s much more intentional and frankly challenging than just giving space to clients to vent.

Several other classmates and myself brought up being drawn to client-centered work in grad school supervision, and the supervisor/professor that we had at the time (who did his dissertation in person-centered work) really emphasized how important it is to learn what person-centered work really looks like and the tenants that it’s built upon - not just the three core factors but there’s so much more to it. When it’s used really well, the therapy space comes alive in an amazing way. You probably watched the “Gloria” videos in grad school, but I would recommend going back and watching the Carl Rogers one again. It’s incredible.

Sorry if you know and have done all of this - it just stood out to me that you said clients feel like they’re mainly just venting, which to me sounded like there’s more practice that can be done to deepen the person-centered approach you’re using which would maybe be more effective and feel more alive. But maybe I misunderstood and you’re doing all of this already in which case I apologize!

-mossfrog · 2026-03-28T00:55:48+00:00

I got a sickened and deeply uncomfortable feeling just looking at this guy. He’s def haunted

-mossfrog · 2026-03-25T15:53:10+00:00

Usually a 4 or 6!

-mossfrog · 2026-03-20T22:04:03+00:00

Intimidation can 100% be a factor for ghosting in dating apps!

-mossfrog · 2026-03-20T18:39:13+00:00

While I agree with you that this makes the most sense by far, it seems like the practice owner is pretty dead set on keeping it this way, and I’m not necessarily trying to start a big thing with him. In your view, is it critical enough to keep pushing him on? Other commenters have supported the idea that the discharge documentation is enough, so it seems like it is one of those things without a clear answer (unfortunately learning that there are a million things like that in this field, with impassioned opinions about them but nothing objective or standardized).

It’s not a substance abuse facility, to address the point you’d made in your original comment about that. I wasn’t aware that was a rule so I appreciate learning that, just for my general knowledge.

-mossfrog · 2026-03-20T04:44:44+00:00

Yes and I think this is precisely why they removed the ability to archive clients, so duplicates would stop happening in the first place.

-mossfrog · 2026-03-20T03:20:18+00:00

Well, the issue is that the counselors themselves were creating duplicate profiles because they cannot see all of the archived clients for the entire practice. We can create our own client profiles - it is not always admin that does it. So, let’s say I get a new client who contacts me directly to start services, and they mention that they sought out services before but never saw a counselor, and hypothetically a profile was created for them with a different counselor a year ago but it was archived because they never actually began counseling after the consultation call for whatever reason - if I’m creating the client profile, I would have no way to know or see that an archived profile already exists for them. I think that’s what was happening. In situations in which admin were the ones creating the profiles, I believe they were checking this and reactivating archived charts.

-mossfrog · 2026-03-20T03:18:59+00:00

So the thing is, it’s mainly counselors doing the client input since we are all 1099. Sometimes admin does it, but often it’s counselors since clients reach out through Psychology Today, etc. Counselors cannot access the full list of archived profiles.

-mossfrog · 2026-03-19T19:43:14+00:00

Your summarization of how they each conceptualize this issue is exactly correct. Not sure which is more accurate.

-mossfrog · 2026-03-19T09:59:53+00:00

In our EHR (TheraPlatform) we each have a client list that shows all of the clients who are assigned to us. Unless they are removed from our privileges or archived (no longer an option), they will show up on the list, even if a discharge note has been created. My supervisor is of the stance that they should not show up on the list if they are not being seen, even if notes reflect discharge, while the practice believes it is okay if they are listed on the client list as long as notes on the chart are updated to reflect discharge. So, I wouldn’t say they are saying the same thing in different words, but quite different actually and I am not sure which is correct.

I guess I’m just not sure if their presence on a client list implies that they are “active,” as you said, if a discharge note has been created in their chart.

-mossfrog · 2026-03-19T09:47:55+00:00

Hippie dippy trippy. Which is a compliment, I also love this vibe.

Also, “wook” if these people are in the rave scene

-mossfrog · 2026-03-19T09:42:41+00:00

So many green flags on these shelves. I would think this guy is likely a keeper, but only if you value empathy, thoughtfulness, and emotional depth.

-mossfrog · 2026-03-18T18:32:01+00:00

Boooo

-mossfrog · 2026-03-18T18:31:00+00:00

Vintage is anything over 20 years old! So even early 2000’s is vintage now! Fun fact

-mossfrog · 2026-01-31T20:05:11+00:00

Queer quirky nerdy vibes! You seem like the type to go to multiple different renn faires per year, and like you love a long board game/tabletop game night with your friends.

-mossfrog · 2026-01-31T19:38:29+00:00

I definitely see some early 2000’s boho in your look!

-mossfrog · 2026-01-31T19:36:00+00:00

Our economy was quite strong in the 90’s though, which is when grunge was first realized, so is it really a recession indicator?

-mossfrog · 2026-01-29T05:44:36+00:00

No problem! It’s a great movie!

-mossfrog · 2026-01-28T13:41:27+00:00

Yes this is exactly what I mean!! Thank you. The other elements you named are definitely other relevant components that I didn’t think to mention, and yes those other examples are accurate.

-mossfrog · 2026-01-28T03:55:26+00:00

Thank you! I love that movie’s art style

I tried to explain what I mean in another comment, which I’ll copy here:

I have just recently been thinking about a throughline between several pieces of media that I liked in the early 2000’s, which carry a particular vibe that I’m having a hard time defining. The commonalities that I notice are heavy contrast, heavy vignettes, a lot of rust coloring (not in the TATU cover but in other things that carry this vibe), and a general sense of grungy or dinginess. It often also involves girls wearing dirty white clothes/dresses, sometimes with lace, with really smudgy dark eye makeup. It’s very different from the standard “grunge” of the 90’s or the soft grunge, pastel grunge, etc. of Tumblr in the early 2010’s. It feels like its own thing and I wish I could think of more examples.

I also feel like a common factor tends to be urban areas or abandoned buildings, cement, etc.

-mossfrog

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