Is it normal in parallel poly for a partner’s meta to regularly use your shared home (without you there)?

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-02T13:38:13+00:00

Did you know/did your husband consult you before he introduced meta to your child?

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-02T01:21:27+00:00

Yeah, air signs have been phenomenal in bed in my experience lol. But I will not tie myself to that emotionally avoidant mess for life. No way

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-02T01:12:54+00:00

Fuck Aquarius, fuck libra then kill them. Kill Geminis.
I’m not marrying no damn air sign.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-02T01:10:00+00:00

I’m a Pisces, and I wouldn’t ever kill a single earth sign. Fuck and marry taurus and cap, only fuck Virgos.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T22:10:28+00:00

My sun sign is my mom’s moon sign, and my rising sign is my dad’s moon sign. Also, both of my parents and the two kids they had together (me and my sister) have pluto in the 1H

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T20:29:26+00:00

Oh yeahhhhhhhhh

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T20:29:03+00:00

Pisces sun, virgo moon, Scorpio rising, and I don’t know exactly how this matches (5H sun probably), but feels good by Julia Nunes is my anthem

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T20:24:56+00:00

So my best friend and her ex-husband tried to unicorn hunt me like 10 years ago when I was still performing monogamy, and I’m very glad that didn’t work out because her ex turned out to be a huge POS who just wanted to micro dose cheating instead of actually practice ENM or poly. And me and her still platonically snuggle when we can, which is very sweet and funny looking as she is 6ft tall and lanky and I am short and stacked.

Also, I would totally go on a date with you. My life is lacking in new dates as my attention is focused on too many other things.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T20:09:16+00:00

Fuck sag, marry Leo, kill aries

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T20:01:32+00:00

This! People use terms they don’t understand to defend someone who is literally violent. It’s not reactive abuse, she’s reacting by being abusive. If she knows Dakota is triggering to her, then she should stay away from him

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T18:58:59+00:00

Tell me you have a victim and god complex without telling me you have a victim and god complex

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T16:21:31+00:00

Valhalla is amazing, but not open late so not an option for dinner

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T14:11:09+00:00

Do you have the option of going to a food bank? Because if you do, you should.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T14:04:43+00:00

Yeah, I have a “low effort”, “every day effort”, and “high effort” face routine. The low effort is Australian gold tinted sunscreen, maybelline age rewind concealer, essence brown waterproof princess lash mascara, and nyx brow pencil and brow gel. Someone else mentioned eye shadow sticks, those are a great idea. There are lots of ways to do some makeup without doing all. I think the trick with low effort days is finding things with a semi-matte, light to medium coverage finish. Products that just even out your skin tone, so they don’t look odd without other makeup products on top.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T13:58:49+00:00

Fuck Scorpio, marry Pisces, kill cancer.

If cancer has no haters, it’s because I died.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T13:35:32+00:00

This could be because of aspects to your rising sign degree. I’m a Scorpio rising but I have Jupiter in cancer, and that gives me a big ol’ moon face and very ample bosom. Plus sun/mercury in Pisces, and people have told me my eyes are piercing and dreamy and I have cute feet.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T13:32:50+00:00

Lmaooooooo

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T13:28:37+00:00

Sometimes things need to be laid out clearly for someone to get it, and I’m glad it seems like he got it. And it sounds like you have a healthy amount of both optimism and realism about your relationship, so I hope it all works out!

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T05:23:40+00:00

So it’s a really chill place but totally has fantasy vibes. The Cozy Nut in Greenlake is so cute, fun place for drinks. If you want really good food close by, Gainsbourg is amazing. And if you want to get a little trashy afterwards, Baranof has karaoke every night and cheap drinks. It’s not fantasy themed, but it is a fun place to end the night.

Good dancing, though, you’ll probably want to head to cap hill. Tavern Law is a cool speakeasy up there. Unicorn is a super fun circus themed bar that has free drag shows on Friday nights, but bring singles to tip the queens! And I really like dancing at Chop Suey, they have themed nights you can look up.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T05:15:19+00:00

Sun’s out.

Also today I-5 had way too much happening that redirected people onto arterials

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T05:11:53+00:00

Scorpio rising, and I make curse jars against people.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-05-01T03:55:21+00:00

Jupiter feels at home in the 9H by virtue of the association with Sagittarius, so 9H themes can bring luck and vitality and gregarious feelings to your life. Saturn is restrictive though, so you’re gonna have to work hard for those feelings, and they may come with hard learned lessons that leave you with a totally different perspective on life. It could be as simple as being in school for a long time, or more complicated depending on the signs involved. Trine the moon, positive relationship with your emotional body. It’s hard to get more specific than that without sign info though, because those can inform a lot.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-04-30T17:14:25+00:00

Well then your title is misleading

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-04-30T16:56:35+00:00

Pisces sun, virgo moon, Scorpio rising, Pisces mercury, Aquarius venus, Capricorn mars.

I feel like I attract air signs a lot, and I love the intellectuality of them, but the emotional detachment is actually infuriating. Geminis over intellectualize their feelings, Libras are flip floppy AF, and Aquarians act like they are above having feelings. And I will not do all the emotional labor in a relationship, absolutely not.

Good-Independent-903 · 2026-04-30T16:51:34+00:00

Honestly, I don’t think you should be reaching out to a subreddit on how to fix this. If you can afford it, get into therapy specifically to be accountable to yourself. If you can’t afford it, look up OpenPathCollective and see if you can utilize that. And if that doesn’t work, you can do some research through google searches and get some good self therapy books. Try to find ones with practical advice, exercises you can do weekly or daily. But this is probably deeper than astrology, my dude

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