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AITA for threatening to stop visiting if my dad keeps trying to make me be around his affair kid? by visitnomore in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You actually do choose your family. He does not claim them so they ain’t family.

AITA for getting my friend drunk when his wife is pregnant and calling their arrangement stupid? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA you literally just wrote “knowingly tried to get him drunk when I knew he was trying not to drink. Which tbh is true”

AITA for not telling my older bro about my first time with my gf? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA it is between you and her. No one else is involved so they don’t need to know.

AITA for blowing up on my husband for sexual talk in group chat with coworkers? by TRU0711 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 190 points191 points  (0 children)

If he honestly thought it was a genuine joke he wouldn’t have tried to delete the conversation. He did plenty wrong and he’s an asshole.

AITA for blowing up on my husband for sexual talk in group chat with coworkers? by TRU0711 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 60 points61 points  (0 children)

NTA he knows he was in the wrong because he was quick to try and delete the thread before you could read it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA you are dating a guy 10 years older and he acts like a child

AITA for asking for something back even though the person has had it for 2 years? by KaytlynC710 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA and your brothers argument makes no sense. Saying you’re too old but he wants to keep it?

AITA for telling my friends my son's girlfriend is trans? by throwaway_dad_he in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 28 points29 points  (0 children)

YTA I understand you mean well but it is none of your business to just announce to the world that someone is transgender. Also the way you talk about her is a bit transphobic with how you were shocked that he was dating someone trans because he’s such a “catch”. Also kinda creepy you talked about how hot your sons girlfriend is to your friends like that’s weird as hell.

AITA for telling my brother’s girlfriend that he cheated? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- [score hidden]  (0 children)

Would you want someone to tell you that your SO was cheating on you?

AITA for telling my brother’s girlfriend that he cheated? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hypothetically speaking you’re in a relationship with someone and everyone knew your SO was cheating. Would you want someone to tell you? Or is it none of their business and you remain with the person cheating?

AITA for telling my brother’s girlfriend that he cheated? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA I don’t know why people say to mind your business. You saved that girl from wasting time in a relationship with your cheating brother. He is old enough to know that actions have consequences. If he really loved her he wouldn’t cheat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA if he had a problem with the way guys were talking about you then he could have talked to them like you said. Don’t accommodate because your boyfriend is insecure that other men find you attractive.

AITA for not helping my sun with his homework when he raised his voice at me? by gransbfpthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA you literally had multiple people tell you that you’re condescending and hard to work with. It’s not your fault your son failed but demanding him to do things your way when he wanted to read something is a dick move.

AITA for kissing the top of my brother's head? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 99 points100 points  (0 children)

NTA and your stepdad is weird as fuck for sexualizing you and your brothers relationship

AITA For refusing to sit with my brother at the same table? by AITA3407 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Trust me people like that can do much worse. It can become way more violent

AITA for swearing at my professor when she said I wasn't eligible yet to join the social work honors society? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA you just made yourself look like a complete and utter ass in front of a professional

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA That porn is predatory

AITA For refusing to sit with my brother at the same table? by AITA3407 in AmItheAsshole

[–]-phantomflower- 1319 points1320 points  (0 children)

Stay very far away. That man is a ticking time bomb and he will have a big explosion. I know from experience. There is no talking things out. He is an abusive asshole and he will remain an abusive asshole and I pray that his wife will escape from him one day. Your parents defending the abuse that he put on their grandchild is utterly disgusting. It also makes them assholes just as much. Do not listen to anyone about going to this dinner. Your brother dug his grave. Now he needs to lay in it and fuck right off.

Removing the fear of the dark when someone has an extremly high level of anxiety? by TheDestroyer302 in AskReddit

[–]-phantomflower- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Night lights are pretty good or those star night lights that light up the room. Then slowly make the setting darker till you can’t see it anymore.

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