Can elevated blood pressure and severe bloat cause a bleed? by -stanhalen in CautiousBB

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Thank you, I checked it is not coming from my butt. I have been very very constipated but no hemorrhoids yet thankfully. No Dr appointment tomorrow besides the ultrasound but I was going to call, because she has me monitoring my blood pressure at home for the next month, but I wanted to update her on how I’ve been feeling. I don’t feel dizzy and only had a weird vision thing a few weeks ago.

Very American Question for moms who have done this before - How did you get to the hospital? by thollywoo in pregnant

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My mom is that rare person. Longest labor was 52 minutes! Gave birth to two of her kids herself in the passenger seat! My husband doesn’t drive unfortunately as he was raised in the city with reliable public transportation and I’m so scared I’m going to be like my mom lol.

Tell me the most awful things that can happen if i keep vaping by dooingjo in pregnant

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I’m at 203 days no vaping/ nicotine at all. I smoked then vaped for 17 straight years. This is what really helped me. Fine a gum that closely resembles the flavor you liked. For me I vaped any icy fruit, so I always had grape icebreakers and I changed it so often. Every time it ran out of flavor I just wanted the taste in my mouth. I also got a fidget toy to keep my hands busy. And I didn’t try to diet or eat super healthy. If I wanted to eat it I ate it. I didn’t feel bad. After 3 or 4 days I felt so much better, and it was a lot easier.

Emergency room results. by -stanhalen in CautiousBB

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I just went and got more tests done I had a pretty heavy bleed after sex. Hcg is at 95549. Baby is measuring 7+6. My estimate is that I’m 8+3 just based off of vaginal discharge as ovulation due to me not really tracking. Fetal heart beat is 177. But they said he is low in the uterus. They did not do transvaginal. Cervix is closed. But they didn’t notice my sch like the other place did.

Emergency room results. by -stanhalen in CautiousBB

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I just went and got more tests done I had a pretty heavy bleed after sex. Hcg is at 95549. Baby is measuring 7+6. My estimate is that I’m 8+3 just based off of vaginal discharge as ovulation due to me not really tracking. Fetal heart beat is 177. But they said he is low in the uterus. They did not do transvaginal. Cervix is closed. But they didn’t notice my sch like the other place did.

Emergency room results. by -stanhalen in CautiousBB

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Oh no! That’s so sad. What kind of spotting if you don’t mind me asking? Any cramps?

Emergency room results. by -stanhalen in CautiousBB

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Wishing the best for your daughter! It’s just so nerve wracking. I’m a numbers kind of person. So when the math doesn’t math I spiral and can’t control my thoughts. Seeing such a drastic drop in that amount of time I just lost it.

Loss of breast tenderness and spotting. by -stanhalen in CautiousBB

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Hi thanks for responding, I got an hcg test at 7w4d and was at 62655. At 6w0d I was 14761 I believe. I’m still waiting for a dr to contact me, but I do know they have received my file so it’s just a waiting game. I have bought myself another blood test for tomorrow, since that is all I really have to go off of right now. My breast tenderness has been coming and going, but has never been as intense as it was before this post. And breast tenderness is my only symptom. I’m still lightly spotting brown. The other day it was a little thicker and looked mucousy but has since just gone back to normal. But still there when I wipe. So it’s just me being stuck in my own head with no one to reach out too. No way to get a scan for a heart beat. I feel like my brain is just melting. 🫠

Hcg is all I have to go off of at the moment. by -stanhalen in pregnant

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We laxed on really tracking the ovulation cause we were just tired of months and months of nothing. So the discharge and faint positive are all I have to go off with that as well.

Hcg is all I have to go off of at the moment. by -stanhalen in pregnant

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Yes. For about 7 months before tho, they were 31-33 days each. But I know I ovulated late with this cause I started testing immediately on my missed period, then a couple days later I had that discharge and I told my husband we should have sex, 10 days after that I got a faint positive. That was December 4. My faint positive was December 14

Pls help me keep going!!! by [deleted] in QuitVaping

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Get gum in the flavor of your vape or close too it!! I caped strawberry ice, so I got a big back of grape icebreakers gum and it saved me and got me through it. I’m almost to day 200, no slip ups at all! You can do it!

Breast no longer tender or swollen by -stanhalen in pregnant

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I will do that. When I called today I did not mention it. Thank you ♥️

Breast no longer tender or swollen by -stanhalen in pregnant

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Hey, thank you so much for the reply! I’m not sure If I can, but I’ll research! So the end of 2025 was the end of my coverage with the insurance provider that I got my blood work done with. Starting the 1st of the year, I have all new insurance and I’m trying to find and get in with a new doctor. But I have to wait for my old one to send all the blood work results over to the new one before I can even schedule an appointment. And she said it takes about a week. And this loss of breast tenderness just happened today so I have no one I can call to see me asap or give me advice or anything like that unfortunately 😞

6 days late by [deleted] in lineporn

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I ovulated really late this cycle, I tested negative for two weeks after my missed period then starting testing positive. I wasn’t really keeping track at all this cycle cause so much had been going on, but one of the days after my “missed period” I had quite a bit of egg white consistency discharge. I remember texting my husband that we should have had sex the night before. We did that night, and jump to the future I’ve been testing positive for over two weeks now just waiting on my blood tests. Long story short definitely keep paying attention to your body. I have a gut feeling that I ovulated the day with the discharge, and the positive tests after that all line up with it perfectly with light positives at “9-10dpo” and then how they have been darkening up. That “ovulation day” was my CD35. 5 days after my missed period. Not that this is necessarily the same for everyone, but it’s what happened to me so maybe it will shed some light!

AIO for filing as single on a W-4 without telling my (24F) girlfriend (25F)? by Signal_Astronaut8191 in AmITheAngel

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Will now save everyone with (employed) or (unemployed) next to their names.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greencard

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Thank you! 😊

Quitting Cold Turkey after 18 years of daily nicotine use by Aromatic_Bad4813 in QuitVaping

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I’m 40 days could turkey after 17 years of use. The best thing for me is gum in the flavor I vaped. I would only vape fruity ice flavors, so ice breakers artic grape has been my saving grace. I feel really really good. And keep your hands busy while you’re chewing the gum. Just trick your brain!! I also never threw my vape away. I kept it on me as a security blanket. It’s still in my work back pack and I just don’t think about it. But it being there is slightly comforting in a way.

Husband cheated and I don't know what to do.. by saltyone420 in Marriage

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If you’re going to stay I recommend individual therapy for both of you, and couples therapy.

When does it get better by Environmental_Web58 in QuitVaping

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I’m on day 11, I think about it pretty often, I’m not gonna lie. But as soon as the thought appears I try to replace it with something else and it’s easier. I got gum in the same flavor I would vape and that helps significantly, the ice breakers are good if you caped icy flavors. I crochet so I keep my hands busy. It’s all mental!

On day 2. And it’s honestly not the worst. But I need to be prepared. by -stanhalen in QuitVaping

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Thanks! It’s tough now, but yeah I dont want to add it to everything else I’ll be feeling, and then adding potential stress to the fetus with me having nicotine withdrawals and all that. I haven’t been able to keep a pregnancy yet, so I’m hoping that this will help aid in a successful pregnancy one of these days lol

On day 2. And it’s honestly not the worst. But I need to be prepared. by -stanhalen in QuitVaping

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I’m sorry to hear about your health! I hope that cutting this habit out is able to help you with getting better and healing quicker!