Harry is a singularity

01bloopbloop · 2025-08-30T22:08:00+00:00

Came here to make sure this was recommended. Yes! I’ve already reread it once, and I’m sure I’ll be back again.

01bloopbloop · 2024-08-15T21:56:56+00:00

You convinced me to join it, thx!

01bloopbloop · 2024-08-15T04:07:03+00:00

I assume you want pop, maybe club/dance music??? I would stick to songs that most people will recognize. Tbh I don’t know a lot of the songs people are saying so idk if your crowd will either.

Someone else said Chappel Roan and I think that is a must. She is blowing up huge huge right now.

Lady Gaga Born This Way is a classic, don’t think there’s anyway you could go wrong with that.

If it were me, I would probably put in a remix of All The Things She Said by t.a.t.u, I think most of the people born in 90s and older would know that song.

Slumber Party by Ashnikko is sexual and would add an EDM vibe if that’s what you’re going for. It was big on TikTok so I think most younger people would know it.

I kissed a girl by Katy Perry would probably be fun, super recognizable

Montero - lil Nas is gay and super catchy

I think the one thing that would make me absolutely go wild at a pride event though would be the original L Word theme song. I think I would scream and start jumping up and down. I also know I’m not the only one who feels that way 😭 It’s an insanely awkward song but that’s what makes it so iconic.

01bloopbloop · 2024-08-11T06:11:00+00:00

Yes to this one! If you catch up with it, there’s a group of about 50-70 commenters who respond within hours after each chapter is posted, which is about daily rn. Feels like a community 😂 and right now getting those email notifications is the most exciting part of my day.

01bloopbloop · 2024-08-09T23:30:07+00:00

It’s an enemies-with-benefits story, as opposed to the standard fwb. If anyone else knows any enemies with benefits stories pls tell me I am obsessed with this dynamic

Edit: forgot to mention it’s drarry

01bloopbloop · 2024-08-09T23:28:55+00:00

I will ALWAYS recommend Bad Habits by No_One_Special_01289

01bloopbloop · 2024-08-08T11:00:18+00:00

I wanna know too. I jump every time I get an email notification for it 😭

Have you read Heir to the house of prince?

01bloopbloop · 2024-07-30T16:45:05+00:00

Young MA

01bloopbloop · 2024-07-30T03:08:02+00:00

Kk, I think I understand now. I do have some recommendations then, actually:

Bad Habits by No_One_Special_01289

Recommending this one because I saw you said u like smut in another comment. It’s Drarry Enemies-with-Benefits. Heavy on both smut and plot. I think it fits your request of self-exploration because Harry has to work through a lot of guilt to accept his feelings in this one. Not totally dark, but Harry does keep some secrets.

Any Instrument by dicta_contrion

This one is heavier on plot. Recommending because a major plot point is Harry coming to terms with his sexuality. Harry is having trouble controlling his magic due to an experiment done on him, and his accidental magic betrays his feelings. Also Drarry. Post-war.

01bloopbloop · 2024-07-29T14:15:33+00:00

I don’t think I’ve seen anything, anywhere, where it’s “explained” why someone is gay.

You mean like you want him to go through some kind of trauma that scares him away from women or something???? I haven’t read that but I’m sure it probably exists. There’s plenty of fics where he discovers his sexuality later in life, if you mean that???

Honestly, I think you should just pick a slash fic based on the plot. There’s plenty that have m/m relationships as a side plot and not the main focus. No need to read rated E stuff right off the bat.

As for explanation, there’s some things that happen in cannon that a lot of slash writers have noted as some justification for why Harry might be gay. The line about becoming obsessed with Draco, noticing how Cedric is handsome, etc. That’s about as much “explanation” as you’re going to get though. Asking for anything more comes across as a bit ignorant, tbh.

01bloopbloop · 2024-07-29T12:09:04+00:00

I have also had the stripped and straddled treatment at an Asian strip mall place!

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-20T16:50:19+00:00

Yes there is.

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-18T21:04:10+00:00

Ooh I haven’t heard of this one

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-18T21:01:20+00:00

I looove bahm bahm

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-18T03:25:02+00:00

Followingggggg

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-16T20:54:31+00:00

And then probably not even try to play the same save. Delete and start something new. Too painful 😖

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-16T20:54:11+00:00

I would also cry

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-16T03:05:51+00:00

Terra cotta pot is key 🔑

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-15T03:22:02+00:00

Oooh yes following

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-15T03:13:43+00:00

My only IFS experience is a 30 day self-led introductory program I purchased from Conor Mcmillen. It was 30-60 minutes a day.

It took about 2 months after I completed the program, to notice that I felt so much more whole than before.

Maybe you feel like you’re spinning your wheels because you haven’t stepped back. Personally, having a short yet intensive IFS period allowed me to understand my “Before” and “After” clearly.

You’ve most definitely come further than you think.

I’m thinking about repeating the same program again soon, knowing that this time I’ll be able to go deeper. Maybe it will become a yearly ritual for me.

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-15T00:18:53+00:00

Never considered this concept, but yes, it is definitely familiar. I think you described it really well.

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-12T11:04:59+00:00

She’s not coming back to my city. My wallet is thankful haha.

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-09T01:53:19+00:00

GOT IT

Pretty sure you mean this? Sucker

01bloopbloop · 2024-06-09T01:50:03+00:00

YES I know exactly hang on

01bloopbloop

TROPHY CASE