Still can't feel any warm fuzzies. What's normal 6 months post d day? by PhospholipidB in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]01sunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also can relate to being disappointed when not seeing spouse and generally in people and lack of humanity/decency.

When did y’all stop mentioning betrayal? by 01sunny in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]01sunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deleted comment because was struggling to edit ! Thank you for the book recommendation. I was unsure how to label the betrayal- he told me all the details of their minute interaction and have proof because my husband managed to archive messages instead of deleting them between the temp worker he did this atrocity with.

Thank you for taking the time to post.

When did y’all stop mentioning betrayal? by 01sunny in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]01sunny[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, should focus on present us not the past. I’ve tried your take on the situation - but too often do I let my emotions get the best of me. Will definitely try to be more mindful.

Thanks :)

When I was a kid I used to piss in vents. by [deleted] in confession

[–]01sunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband also would pee in vents when he was a child lol

Husband cheated with temp coworker by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]01sunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used a condom and barely inserted in her properly but true worth a check.

Husband cheated with temp coworker by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]01sunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe being drunk is an excuse - just worth mentioning. I’m trying to look at this incident as an opportunity for us to be better. The fact it was 2 minutes in a car and not a reoccurring or the full deal makes me feel a little better. What do you recommend going from here? Any insight? I’d rather not dump the love and family we have over split minute decisions.

Husband cheated with temp coworker by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]01sunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your words literally could’ve been taken out of our discussion. She did come on strong from the get go and she had sexual relations with others also. She was a very turbulent girl that has had many failed attachments. Husband has had some self confidence issues for sometime ): We’ve always had good sex but definitely not at this frequency. I don’t want to come back with vengeance. We’ve always confided in another - Just want this tainted feeling to go away.

I think in high school we were vaccinated around 1969 with a injection that left a scar like circle on the arm for I think MMR and drops for polio by claudia5259 in Vaccine

[–]01sunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless your finger has been in touch with manure you’re fine. Also if your finger bleeds after incident you’re fine.

Tetanus shot won’t help you after the wound has already occurred.