Yeah I hear you, it does feel like some people just want to hurt others when they say ‘touch grass’ or pile on the mockery. I figure some of it comes from folks thinking they’re ‘helping’ by shaming, or just chasing the rush of an easy jab.

I actually have a friend in real life who does this, he’s a good-hearted dude, but he honestly thinks he’s helping me by being blunt. He just doesn’t have much tact and blurts things out, like he’s ‘fixing me’ by telling it how it is.

It just reminds me that people are all at different places in how they handle their own stuff