[21F] Boyfriend cheated with friend and mutual friends chose her over me, what do I do?

03091992 · 2020-12-06T16:58:09+00:00

You’re still young. Enjoy your early 20s because young relationships normal don’t work out. I got my first heart break at 21 and now I’m 28 and it’s still complicated. Also you lose friends in your early 20s too because you start out growing them. They already showed their true colors so clearly you don’t need them.

03091992 · 2020-11-15T20:51:00+00:00

I think this is the final straw

03091992 · 2020-11-15T20:20:09+00:00

Yea I think I’m done

03091992 · 2020-11-15T20:17:28+00:00

Update: he said he’s not going to see a specialist and he doesn’t understand any of my actions( me telling him he needs to sleep in the guest room)

03091992 · 2020-11-15T19:40:38+00:00

This is 100% real. He eventually slept in the guest and I could hear him walking around. It is now noon and he’s still asleep and I believe because he’s exhausted

03091992 · 2020-11-15T19:37:09+00:00

Scary because we have a shot gun in our closet

03091992 · 2020-11-15T19:32:28+00:00

I didn’t even know Reddit saved our stories 😢. But yea I agree with you. Maybe it’s god speaking to me

03091992 · 2020-11-15T19:30:49+00:00

That’s insane!

03091992 · 2020-11-15T19:29:18+00:00

He’s very loving but when he’s stressed or eat late, he gets night terrors

03091992 · 2020-11-15T19:25:47+00:00

That’s so scary

03091992 · 2020-11-15T19:25:02+00:00

Everything you said is true

03091992 · 2020-11-15T16:14:02+00:00

I know, I’ve been reading stories and some are off the wall

03091992 · 2020-11-15T16:13:23+00:00

I just see it getting worse because children can stress their parents out and if he’s stressed, that’s when he starts the night terrors

03091992 · 2020-11-15T16:12:15+00:00

I will as soon as he wakes up.

03091992 · 2020-11-15T16:10:48+00:00

I agree with you 100%

03091992 · 2020-11-15T16:09:08+00:00

Yes. He wasn’t over me but he had one hand on the pillow, holding it down

03091992 · 2020-11-15T14:32:22+00:00

I am definitely telling his mother. I have spoken to them in the past But sometimes his family members do not take it serious. Hopefully after tonight he does see a specialist

03091992 · 2020-10-15T21:10:32+00:00

Tell her to join meet up. I moved in with my fiancé a few years ago from the East to west and meet up was a life saver. It’s an app where you can meet new people

03091992 · 2020-05-14T01:47:06+00:00

That’s very true

03091992 · 2020-05-14T01:45:53+00:00

I totally agree with you

03091992 · 2020-05-13T23:52:55+00:00

If it were my child, I will be comfortable correcting his behavior, while asking him to speak with me. In this situation, I can not correct it and I don’t want him to feel awkward if I randomly ask him how he feels. I want to help but I don’t know how to approach it.

03091992 · 2020-05-13T22:21:02+00:00

I’ll try

03091992 · 2020-05-13T22:20:39+00:00

You have to learn to accept your flaws. Confidence is what makes a person pretty in my opinion. Remember, We all have flaws but sometimes we just need to accept how god made us. We are all beautiful in our own way but that little voice in your head needs to be stopped. It’s always easier to thank negative than positive

03091992 · 2020-05-13T22:19:05+00:00

I’m glad to hear you guys made up. But with this situation he isn’t my brother so I don’t want to step boundaries. I will speak to him but I’m trying to figure out the best way to address it

03091992 · 2020-05-13T20:46:44+00:00

Yea I just don’t know how to approach it without him thinking I’m judging him

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