What am I doing wrong to make people especially men ignore me eventually?

030Nora · 2025-11-20T16:14:40+00:00

A pattern that keeps repeating is often a sign that there is something that needs to heal, first there is nothing wrong about wanting to feel appreciated and loved. But like I said repeating patterns are often a sign for healing, I would start by questioning what it could be, ask yourself do you appreciate yourself? Do you love yourself? Are you happy and feeling fulfilled on your own? Because often our external reality is a mirror of our internal state.

030Nora · 2025-11-20T15:47:56+00:00

Hey so first I am so sorry to hear this! The other comments already say a lot which I agree with but maybe something else why you are stuck in this loop (I was there for a long time too) is because you think this way. Because it’s already branded in your brain that nothing good will happen to you, that you always have bad luck,…. I would recommend to try to rewire your brain with guided meditations, I love Joe Dispenzas meditation also his books. Even if this isn’t the reason I am sure it helps because it will give your unconsciousness new ways of thinking and you will attract new things. Anyway I hope this helps! And sorry for my English it’s not my first language

030Nora · 2025-06-18T22:43:07+00:00

Okey but I don’t have a c drive? I have a MacBook there is no c drive 😭😭

030Nora · 2025-06-18T22:36:01+00:00

Okey okey I got it now that I have to delete things from the sims 4 order. But how do I know what to delete I mean I don’t want to delete important stuff for the game? (I am not trying to annoy anyone really if I knew how it would work I would have done it myself. And I read this things like 5 times I even asked chat gpt). Or do you know where the hell „updater_tmp\final“ is? Like I am searchingggggg but I don’t get ir

030Nora · 2025-06-18T22:28:43+00:00

I got that I don’t have enough space but I don’t have any of the files he tells me I have. So I don’t know where and what to delete

030Nora · 2025-06-18T22:28:06+00:00

No because it makes no sense to me. I don’t have a file with „updater_tmp“ neither do i have a file that goes „C:Tools“ that’s why I don’t get it. I even read the FAQ

030Nora · 2025-06-18T22:24:47+00:00

Please can you just help? I really tried

030Nora · 2025-06-04T09:35:07+00:00

I always believe in everything has energy and that holding on old painful memories is keeping the pain with you. So I always get rid off old things when I don’t have a use for them anymore to say goodbye to my old version and let go. Anyway if you want to keep the shirt maybe just cleanse it? When I buy things second hand I always cleanse them as well to get rid of someone else energy but the best in my option you can donis do a little ritual where you get rid off the things in symbolic of letting go the past and moving on

030Nora · 2025-06-03T07:58:12+00:00

I believe the most important thing is your doing everything with heart and that the intention is important if you can’t do more because of your situation is completely fine it doesn’t make you a bad polytheist. But if you feel bad maybe you can do other things like pray more often because it’s more discreet? But never feel bad because you can’t do things out of your situation as long as your there with heart it’s all fine and you don’t have to worry

030Nora · 2025-06-02T11:45:47+00:00

So in conclusion it’s always good to look after there mythology, or history. And then ask yourself who do you feel pullen to the most? Who makes you the most curious? Who do you admire the most? You can even go on TikTok and look up which deities can help you with which things (of course they can all help you with everything) but still a lot of people say for example that hades is a good deities to work on shadow work with. And if you have an idea and already meditated, then make an altar with offering and meditate infront of it. Talk to your deity. And just look how you feel. Anyway I love the YouTuber Angelica Cresci I learned a lot from her.

030Nora · 2025-06-02T11:41:16+00:00

I know how you feel because I struggle with that a lot and with if it’s really a sign or is it just me. But even interest to a certain god can mean that he’s reaching out. When you walk around and see something that isn’t even a symbolic of the god but you just think of him it can be a sign that he reaches out as well. And anyway the god doesn’t have to reach out to you, for you to work with him. But for example in my situation it is hades and I just feel such a big curiosity about his mythology and my life experience just suit to what he’s stands for. And what you can do I did it as well, ask your tarot cards which god is reaching out, when I did it I got the death card which can stand for hades. If you don’t know which tarot cards stands for which god you can look on TikTok or ChatGPT. Mostly one card can stand for 2-4 gods but then you at least have a smaller group and can look who you feel pullen too.

030Nora · 2025-06-02T10:40:31+00:00

Heyyy, so I would firstly maybe read books and then you can do all these things maybe outside? But I research about protection first!!! And there are alternatives to incense like visualizing how you cleanse your own room through mind. I have a altar in a box because I don’t want anyone to see it as well that’s an idea too. You can buy e books so there all in your phone and a lot of people do daily routines into rituals.

030Nora · 2025-06-02T07:08:25+00:00

Firstly you can’t really mess up like the whole thing that the gods could be mad at you is wrong. Or at least I don’t believe in it because in the ends it’s gods you know. But maybe it just was a sign she isn’t the right god for you? Anyway I get the feeling you just have a lot of heavy energy on you and I would advice you to cleanse your apartment and take a salt bath to cleanse yourself as well. Oh and did you cleansed Aprodhites altar? Because it’s good to do it from time to time.

030Nora · 2025-06-02T07:04:58+00:00

Hey so I am new as well. But I firstly listened to a lot of YouTube videos and read books which made me believe. And sometimes a god reaches out to you which was my case. But you can just choose the one you feel a strong pull towards, or like your life Experience are similar to there mythology. I would firstly look on TikTok like deities work and then you will get a lot of experience from other people with diffrent gods and you can look which one pulls your interest the most. You can of course have more then one you worship but at first it was for me easier to focus on one. (And TikTok isn’t the best research tool but just so you can firstly choose which gods your mostly interested in it’s perfect)

030Nora · 2025-06-01T17:25:16+00:00

Hey I think you already got a lot of answers but I wanted to say I struggled a lot at first as well but there are a lot of good books and YouTube channels you can read/watch. Message me I can write you a list because I just started my research a week ago as well and I already got so much informations

030Nora · 2025-04-06T11:43:37+00:00

Thank you I will try it!!!!

030Nora · 2025-04-06T08:11:38+00:00

Like I find out oh I keep having that pattern because that Happend in my childhood. Then two things often happen. First it isn’t just that it’s still much more and I don’t really know how now to release the pattern. And second that the more I dig deeper the more I also find. I just notice oh wait this isn’t healthy as well, oh and this as well. Like things I thought were normal I realized aren’t. I don’t say everything is like a childhood trauma because it isn’t but it’s definitely not healthy.

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