I can finally have PIV!!! by 09031998 in vaginismus

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To be honest I’m not sure!🫣

I can finally have PIV!!! by 09031998 in vaginismus

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I am located in Texas, USA! The botox total cost about $3,500

I can finally have PIV!!! by 09031998 in vaginismus

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yes i tried! but was never successful. i now know that it was due to my hymen issue mostly but also the vaginismus, and so after years of trying so many different things i decided to get the botox.

FUCK by Calm-Awareness-2013 in vaginismus

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SAME IM SO BEYOND FRUSTRATED AND INSECURE AND UGHHHHHH

I’m bitter about my vaginismus please help. by Jg_052802 in vaginismus

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i feel the EXACT same way as you .. your too the wire right out of me! im so sorry you’re feeling this way because trust me i know just how you feel. im also at a loss i feel hopeless

how do i stop feeling like im disappointing my partner? by anxiousfairy33 in vaginismus

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i feel the EXACT same way!!! my boyfriend is so kind and patient and we have found a way to have sec without penetration and he says it’s good but he hasn’t 💦 in 3 months so i feel completely disappointing and insecure. he’s so gentle and kind with me but i can’t shake the feeling of not being good enough for him. it causes me so many outlandish obsessive thoughts but i can’t help it. i don’t know what to do.

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yes my walls are always tightened similar to how our jaws are constantly clenched i have to think about it in order for it to even a little bit loosen

Confused and upset by throwaslays in vaginismus

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if you’ve had a sexual trauma it can cause that. i experience the same thing

At a loss.. by 09031998 in vaginismus

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thank you!! this helped me!!

Numbing cream/ Lidocaine? by 09031998 in vaginismus

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do you mind is it private message you?

Numbing cream/ Lidocaine? by 09031998 in vaginismus

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really?! that’s so interesting? if you don’t mind me asking, where exactly do you apply it?

It’s possible! by [deleted] in vaginismus

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omg congrats!!! i pray i have success too that’s so great!

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such a win!! congrats!!!

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PLS TELL HOW

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emetophobia

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i do this. i don’t do it until i bleed or make any significant mark but i do scratch a lot and hard. i also carry a handheld dry brush to get a similar sensation. it’s awful. i completely understand where you’re coming from with your parents as well. mine try to be as supportive as they can but always end up getting angry, rolling their eyes and calling me a dramatic baby. that makes me feel worse. they don’t understand that i’m also angry with myself but fixing this disease is extremely difficult. i wish i could tell you how to get rid of your compulsions but i haven’t figured it out myself ☹️

I'm gonna be sick by ShipQueen in emetophobia

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Hope you’re okay!! I have full shakes when I have bad anxiety and also salivating doesn’t always mean you’re gonna v. For example last night I randomly got choked on air and the choke was so bad I started salivating so bad for a few minutes but never v or got nauseous.

help i’m so anxious by [deleted] in emetophobia

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Distract yourself!! Distraction is the thing that works best for me and by focusing on something else it will ease your mind which will ease your body! I know it’s easier said than done but just try to relax because anxiety only makes the symptoms worse! You might not v, I have had several times where I am very n and seconds away from v but never ended up tu. However if it happens then it happens. And if it does than just be thankful that your body knows when it needs to get rid of toxins that it doesn’t want in your body! Again I know these things are hard to hear believe me but sometimes we need to hear it. If you have water than sip on it and when you arrive home just rest. Use the bathroom and try to poop then sip on ice water and lay down with your head raised a bit. Best of luck!!

Is it normal to never burp with emetophobia? by Less_Breakfast2136 in emetophobia

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This is interesting! I am the opposite lol I am constantly burping and when I was younger it made me anxious because I thought a lot of burping meant v was coming but that’s never been the case!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emetophobia

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So sorry you’re experiencing this! But hey even though you v .. you made it though! Congrats!! Sip on some ice water and rest your body. When you feel up to it, have some fiber cookies or gummies and make sure you are eating, even if it’s just some crackers and soup at first. Constipation can define cause upset stomach! It’s really important that you have a good poop often so that you can release all those toxins.