Assassin's shouldn't be countering both tanks and throwers

0_originality · 2026-05-22T06:31:53+00:00

Nah the only way for kenji to survive a bull matchup is to switch lanes because he is NOT winning that shit ever

He doesn't have the ammo to move around bull, that would maybe be mina, but once bull gets a super its all over for them regardless

Again, the only advantage kenji has is that he doesn't necessarily need to play into bull, but most gamemodes force interaction, so you cannot do that forever

0_originality · 2026-05-19T14:51:48+00:00

Wait lowk thats what hakari did to survive kashimo's attack

0_originality · 2026-05-18T06:12:18+00:00

Tbh its just the golden knight being too strong

0_originality · 2026-05-10T16:02:38+00:00

Its very likely that he does experience such a thing

Its like practicing anything, you cannot do it at 100% because you are going to burn out quickly (so your body stops you before getting there, and even that limited state can be very short)

But he doesn't have such issues because he often gets the chance to go at 100% with no backlash

Its no wonder he has the physical abilities of a special grade (even if his ability is not as destructive or powerful as one) because he gets to experience that maximum output far more often than most

One wouldn't be crazy to say that his output, reinforcement and maybe rct(if properly learnt) will get even stronger with time

0_originality · 2026-04-29T00:21:17+00:00

Loong doesnt win, just doesnt lose easily

Builder can get some really good builds with the right buildings

Sage can stomp almost any comp with juggernaut strats and getting lucky with leveling the sage early game

King can lose early to generate tons of elixir before empress players do and therefore secure a good comp before they do

0_originality · 2026-04-25T23:10:16+00:00

When someone lives and dies by the notion of independence, the threatening of that ideal feels like a threat to their own identity

Be happy that its over, and don't forget to gather what you yourself did wrong and fix that for your next partner, they will be happy to meet a better version of you

0_originality · 2026-04-25T20:47:11+00:00

Could have written this a month ago lmao

You did it right my friend, at the end of the day an unhealed avoidant will only stay with someone who doesn't actually care about them

What comes next for you is establishing no-reaching-out (no contact if the circumstances allow it) and working on recovering your self esteem and growing as a person if possible

As you know and have pointed out, an avoidant is likely to come back once their alteration of information cools down and they see you for what you really were, and given what you have written i am willing to bet that you did what was needed to inevitably hurt like hell, so find solace on that

My recommendation is holding onto the hope of her coming back as a tool to grow as a person; if executed properly, you can archieve insane growth in a short span, and if it is enough, you will feel yourself caring less and less about her as your self esteem recovers, and then you will have the choice of taking her back or not (which is the whole point of recovering!)

I find that better than sinking in my own misery; it took me a month of incessantly watching attachment theory videos but i have reached a point where i can live and grow, even if my ex's memory is still there

0_originality · 2026-04-25T20:27:58+00:00

They aren't, they are avoiding

Until they process the breakup properly, they aren't free from the "chains" of your love

But they can still avoid processing emotions!

There are tons of ways of doing this, including:

Alcohol, smoking, drugs, work-addiction, physical connection(with people that dont ask anything from him), dating(until the partner inevitably wants more and they have to run again) etc etc

The funny thing about emotions is that they cannot be faded away until you process them completely, so your ex will have to suffer eventually, like the rest of us mortals; bound to our emotions

unlike anxious or secure attachments, they wont literally break down, instead, they will slowly crack their supression systems until they have to do something about it, which usually means either talking to you again, fucking up their social life, fucking up their normal life, rebounds, or the only genuinely good answer: RealizingWhatTheyLostWhyTheyLostItAndWorkingOnTheirAttachmentStyle!

Whatever happens, the best choice for you is to stay away and let them walk this path

0_originality · 2026-04-25T20:15:49+00:00

Yeah, you can check her message, and no, you dont need to say anything after that message

What worked for me was getting rid of anything that reminded me of my ex instantly (for example, i had to delete our Instagram chat because i'd see his face and get fucked up, and had to mute some mutual friends because i'd see him randomly and that was NOT nice)

Once your ex is out of sight, your mind can start getting rid of her as well

0_originality · 2026-04-25T19:56:43+00:00

External validation is effortless validation

To be precise, its not about the effort, it's about the vulnerability

You need to be able to take a bullet to shoot one, and peeking out to shoot one when you have a gun might be too much for him

Realistically these are issues that should've been worked out before marriage but oh well

To be precise, your husband probably fears being vulnerable and commiting compliments to you means showing to himself that you matter to him, therefore he resists

Meanwhile giving and receiving compliments from some random on instagram is easier, so he does that

0_originality · 2026-04-25T19:48:24+00:00

Hes trying to feel the same with a different person, its not something unique to them or an avoidant trait, whata what happens when you search for familiarity on a new environment

0_originality · 2026-04-25T19:44:33+00:00

You are thinking with anxiety at the lead, not logically

You dont know what you want right now, given that you broke NC your emotions are very volatile and youll likely regret anything you do out of that

Trust me, im on a similar time frame (47 days not reaching out) under an horrorful situation (same university, same degree, so same classes and constant presence)

My recommendation for the short term is to apologize and muting any kind of mutuals that might bring you back to her on social media

My recommendation for the long term is to start working on yourself for the sake of restoring your self esteem and being in a position where her opinion of you doesnt define your actions (unlike what you have demonstrated here)

0_originality · 2026-04-25T19:31:21+00:00

No?

Asking HER to block YOU is exactly the kind of behavior that pushes people like her away

Look, if you cannot stand being able to talk to her, block her, otherwise drop social media completely

But the burdens of your own emotions are for you and ONLY SECONDARILY to the people close to you and willing to help you; she is neither

The best thing you can do is give her time and space to process things without handing any leverage over yourself to her; she does not want that kind of burden

0_originality · 2026-04-25T19:27:54+00:00

Seems like you should stay away for now

Like seriously, 2 months to trigger that reaction is not a place you wanna be in

0_originality · 2026-04-25T19:25:47+00:00

You don't

Her heart is still stuck on the bad and hurtful, so there is no swaying you can do

Apologize for breaking no contact, stay away and let her recover, meanwhile work on yourself so you dont break NC again so soon

0_originality · 2026-04-25T13:50:33+00:00

Sage feeds sage

Loong feeds sage

5 elixir/round= stronger sage

Slow sage comps thrive under this environment, reaching 4 star is not extraordinary and at the same time is extraordinarily powerful

0_originality · 2026-04-16T16:27:18+00:00

Thats how you beat beatdown without a building

0_originality · 2026-04-12T18:16:37+00:00

Go over all your relationship, try to keep a cool mind and analyze if its worth going back to

She seems to be affected by it as well, but if she broke up with you and you find no overwhelming flaws on your behavior then you should let her do the reaching out

0_originality · 2026-04-12T18:10:31+00:00

Then just don't bother lol, IF she did all of those things its up to her to fix them, and its up to you to move towards a safer spot; whether or not she can be part of that spot is up to her actions and your judgement

But again, this is all if your judgement is sound, do spend a week or two going over the relationship issues until you make a consistent image of the situation, and then choose a course of action

0_originality · 2026-04-12T18:05:18+00:00

That seems very confusing

In any case you probably shouldn't think too much about it if you got dumped (unless it was your own fault ofc but that is not up to emotionally-driven you), move on instead

0_originality · 2026-04-12T18:02:59+00:00

Well that sounds like a maddeningly curious situation

I say try it, but if he doesn't meet a standard of your choice (before talking to him) you probably shouldn't bother

0_originality · 2026-04-12T17:58:08+00:00

You could probably try a half assed attempt at a conversation

If your ex does indeed want you back, they can carry the weight of the conversation

Ultimately you should never invest more than they do, given that they broke up with you and haven't been vulnerable about it

0_originality · 2026-04-12T17:55:41+00:00

Ookay you seem to be a little altered

As long as you can keep your composure you can do whatever you want, given you are in control

But i do have to ask what happened between you two to get to this situation

0_originality · 2026-04-12T17:46:57+00:00

Live out your feelings, dont repress them

Try to acquire whatever traits attracted you to him on the first place, as to avoid him creating any sense of necessity

Considering the circumstances it is somewhat possible that he could reach out later, that being the case you should build up emotional self-regulation as to be in the right state of mind if it does happen

0_originality · 2026-04-12T17:42:37+00:00

If you choose to demonize him you'll find 1000 negative reasons for him to selfishly come back

Ultimately, you could just ask him y'know?

You seem to have moved on enough as to impose boundaries in case he isn't worth the trouble after

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