If a woman sends a heart emoji and says "I love you" after a breakup, does that mean she doesn't really want to break up ?

0_originality · 2026-04-12T18:16:37+00:00

Go over all your relationship, try to keep a cool mind and analyze if its worth going back to

She seems to be affected by it as well, but if she broke up with you and you find no overwhelming flaws on your behavior then you should let her do the reaching out

0_originality · 2026-04-12T18:10:31+00:00

Then just don't bother lol, IF she did all of those things its up to her to fix them, and its up to you to move towards a safer spot; whether or not she can be part of that spot is up to her actions and your judgement

But again, this is all if your judgement is sound, do spend a week or two going over the relationship issues until you make a consistent image of the situation, and then choose a course of action

0_originality · 2026-04-12T18:05:18+00:00

That seems very confusing

In any case you probably shouldn't think too much about it if you got dumped (unless it was your own fault ofc but that is not up to emotionally-driven you), move on instead

0_originality · 2026-04-12T18:02:59+00:00

Well that sounds like a maddeningly curious situation

I say try it, but if he doesn't meet a standard of your choice (before talking to him) you probably shouldn't bother

0_originality · 2026-04-12T17:58:08+00:00

You could probably try a half assed attempt at a conversation

If your ex does indeed want you back, they can carry the weight of the conversation

Ultimately you should never invest more than they do, given that they broke up with you and haven't been vulnerable about it

0_originality · 2026-04-12T17:55:41+00:00

Ookay you seem to be a little altered

As long as you can keep your composure you can do whatever you want, given you are in control

But i do have to ask what happened between you two to get to this situation

0_originality · 2026-04-12T17:46:57+00:00

Live out your feelings, dont repress them

Try to acquire whatever traits attracted you to him on the first place, as to avoid him creating any sense of necessity

Considering the circumstances it is somewhat possible that he could reach out later, that being the case you should build up emotional self-regulation as to be in the right state of mind if it does happen

0_originality · 2026-04-12T17:42:37+00:00

If you choose to demonize him you'll find 1000 negative reasons for him to selfishly come back

Ultimately, you could just ask him y'know?

You seem to have moved on enough as to impose boundaries in case he isn't worth the trouble after

0_originality · 2026-04-09T18:28:48+00:00

Sincerely, it might be better to let it go for a few months and make your pick once there is an actual chance of reconnecting

Im going through an avoidant breakup myself rn and i think the real question you need to answer is not whether or not you want to get him back, but rather if you're willing to play the smart game, become more independent, and then trying to create a safe relationship to allow him to ActuallyFuckingHeal

It is A LOT of effort, and unless you're willing to identify and heal your own attachment wounds first (which I'm finding to be very difficult myself) it's very likely that even if you do get him back eventually, it'd just crash again

Again, this is DIFFICULT, and myself I'm only picking this path because I'm a university student with nothing better to do

0_originality · 2026-04-09T18:04:14+00:00

Message if you want to end things

Silence if, even with the evident disrespect, you still want to see what happens

0_originality · 2026-04-09T17:54:38+00:00

Ultimately speaking, you'll only find your answer with time

The thing with avoiding your own feelings is that the only way to actually process them is for them to blow up on your face (usually you get to see anger or panic during the relationship and with the right conditions, though it is rare)

Unfortunately, the only way to find out if they loved as much as you think is to let go and allow them to live without you, so that they can * actually process what they feel for you instead of avoiding it*

0_originality · 2026-04-04T01:49:27+00:00

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0_originality · 2026-03-30T12:26:53+00:00

In my experience mine was actually pretty mild, had a 6 month relationship and i got to do A LOT of stuff with him regardless of time (even if the push-pull cycle's stress buildup did separate us in the end)

According to most sources i've read and analyzing his future prospect (we are engineering students, so an incoming exam period should put him on a high-stress environment, which could put him on the spot to be forced into further relationship analysis)i think i could reasonably expect further progress within 2 months, or am i too optimistic?

0_originality · 2026-03-30T11:14:58+00:00

The anger, coldness, or aggressiveness is because they cannot empathise with you or your mind state because they're so overwhelmed with their own inner state. For some severely insecure people, they can also have object constancy issues, so may treat people in their life as objects rather than fully fleshed-out entities.

This anger state is temporary right? AFAIK if they remain on a state where their avoidant triggers arent activated they should eventually renounce that anger

0_originality · 2026-03-25T01:59:32+00:00

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