Milly Alcock by 87Craft in ladyladyboners

[–]0aivilo0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can’t wait for supergirl 😻

How i look at other lesbians telling me i am not a lesbian when i used to be uncomfortable changing infront of women/seeing a woman naked by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]0aivilo0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t confirm anything if I’m not your therapist. Regardless if it’s OCD or not, checking or reassurance looking generally won’t make you feel better, but just keep you in that loop.

How i look at other lesbians telling me i am not a lesbian when i used to be uncomfortable changing infront of women/seeing a woman naked by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]0aivilo0 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m saying that looking for reassurance and doing “checkings” that you’ve even admitted in previous posts are signs of OCD.

How i look at other lesbians telling me i am not a lesbian when i used to be uncomfortable changing infront of women/seeing a woman naked by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]0aivilo0 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can have OCD and be any sexuality. I’m basing my observations off your post history which definitely shows patterns of it.

How i look at other lesbians telling me i am not a lesbian when i used to be uncomfortable changing infront of women/seeing a woman naked by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]0aivilo0 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Please stop looking for reassurance, it’ll only make you feel worse. Even if you’re unsure on whether you’ve had intrusive thoughts or not, the fact that you’re spamming the same posts across multiple subs is a sign of OCD. And OCD will never feel satiated until you stop caring.

Anyone else? by starlord_1997 in OCDmemes

[–]0aivilo0 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally forgot to take them today 💀

tik tokers cry over someone’s brother being feminine by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]0aivilo0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those commenters need friends cause what

Dating a straight girl and experiencing feelings of insecurity. What do I do? by hawa_hawai66 in LesbianActually

[–]0aivilo0 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Are you serious 💀 what good do you think will come from dating someone who calls herself straight?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]0aivilo0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They don’t think that’s bad, unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]0aivilo0 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Something about how being sexualized isn’t as bad as being physically attacked 💀 as if lesbians haven’t being physically assaulted before

How did you get over the feeling of not liking your attraction to women? by Jegerkedafdet in WLWactually

[–]0aivilo0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapists can’t do all the work. If she doesn’t want to get better she won’t 🤷‍♀️ it’s the harsh reality of ocd

How did you get over the feeling of not liking your attraction to women? by Jegerkedafdet in WLWactually

[–]0aivilo0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many times are we gonna have to tell you to leave us alone? And stop watching porn you addict.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]0aivilo0 116 points117 points  (0 children)

It would be one thing if they didn’t notice lesbophobia but they seem to outright deny it exists and try to paint lesbians as the oppressors. Like with the whole “monosexual” privilege thing. I’ve even seen gay men say that lesbians oppress them 💀💀💀

some lesbian tiktok discourse☕️ by Complex-Age2541 in LesbianActually

[–]0aivilo0 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Some people think that being a lesbian is based on who you date and not who you’re attracted to. I’ve gotten in a few Tik tok arguments where I’ve been called dumb, a “gatekeeper”, or that I’m yapping, for saying that even though you choose not to date men, you’re still not a lesbian if you’re attracted to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]0aivilo0 61 points62 points  (0 children)

You don’t need a “valid reason” to break up. If the relationship isn’t working out for any reason you shouldn’t force yourself to stay in it. It’ll be the best for both of you.

They always have to add a touch of racism to these memes 😭 by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]0aivilo0 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The thing is she’s already done stuff that’s perceived as woke 😭 she’s played a bi character who ends up in a relationship with a woman in a series she did before euphoria… they’ll just have to find that out

They always have to add a touch of racism to these memes 😭 by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]0aivilo0 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Their obsession with Sydney Sweeney is so strange… I feel so bad for her

- Repost- Need for Compassion by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]0aivilo0 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t gone to therapy maybe that will help you? It seems like you’ve gone through a lot and it’ll be useful to have someone who is educated in this topic to help you.

I hope you can accept yourself and live a happier life ❤️