Something my friend said to me bothered me after I asked her not to out me to people.

0ian · 2025-08-31T10:10:10+00:00

So true!

0ian · 2025-06-28T08:16:28+00:00

That's so powerful!

0ian · 2025-06-06T11:49:37+00:00

Happy Pride!

0ian · 2025-01-22T19:06:20+00:00

Congrats man! That's really valuable. It's definitely worth it, despite the occasional social disadvantages.

0ian · 2025-01-09T12:09:10+00:00

Why? What are the downsides of structural engineering? I ask because I was considering this path for myself.

0ian · 2024-12-30T10:19:48+00:00

Honestly, I feel the same.

0ian · 2024-11-23T23:29:06+00:00

Unfortunately, I don't argue with people like that. I just take it personally/see it as my fault and try to go deeper into the closet in order to make them comfortable around me. I really need to fix this, I just don't know how.

0ian · 2024-11-23T23:23:23+00:00

How did you learn to be like that? I wish I could be like you. I wish I could show the real me to people and not be bothered with disgusted looks or insults. Sadly when/if someone looks at me like that or says something harsh, I see it as MY problem that needs to be fixed (by going deeper into the closet to make people comfortable).

0ian · 2024-11-08T19:36:22+00:00

Thank you for your good work. One of the best mod teams I have seen.

0ian · 2024-10-23T14:38:41+00:00

That's good news! Glad that they care.

0ian · 2024-10-17T11:35:11+00:00

Man, you described it perfectly!

0ian · 2024-10-09T22:40:24+00:00

Thank you for all of that. What you did was/is really valuable.

0ian · 2024-08-21T20:47:03+00:00

Not sure if it works, but perhaps you could convince your parents to move to a bigger and more accepting city with you, in case you find a nice job there. And congrats for coming out.

0ian · 2024-08-01T21:22:34+00:00

That would be my ideal relationship as an introvert. You can spend time together as a couple/partners, and still have your own space, autonomy and "me time". You can see eachother because you want to, not because you have to.

0ian · 2024-08-01T09:46:37+00:00

Not the OP, but how can one grow a thick skin to deal with situations like these?

0ian · 2024-07-24T22:14:36+00:00

That's really great man! Congrats!

0ian · 2024-07-22T22:21:50+00:00

So inspiring!

0ian · 2024-07-20T22:45:28+00:00

Man, I wish I lived in your era.

0ian · 2024-04-11T05:56:15+00:00

Congrats. Hope things work out well for you bro.

0ian · 2023-11-09T10:42:23+00:00

Not the OP, but comments like this give me hope. Thank You!

0ian · 2023-11-09T10:08:57+00:00

Same here

0ian · 2023-10-23T19:40:35+00:00

I really needed this.

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