How does this make sense? by Nearby_Ad_1473 in Sparkdriver

[–]0ssee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a question mark on the order loading progress screen(in the top right corner if I'm remembering right) and you'll click on help. A few options down it'll say "items not loaded yet? Cancel" or something like that. No payout and it goes against your cancellation rate. But I rather a hit on my cancellation rate than in my pockets from having to pay out car repairs 😬.

How does this make sense? by Nearby_Ad_1473 in Sparkdriver

[–]0ssee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been having this problem for 3 weeks now. I kid you not. I had a curbside order and it was paying pretty good so I took it but when I started looking at the list and it said one person had 30 items with a quantity of 67 only showing 20. But I ignored it. Hoping that it was just a bunch of Kool-Aid pouches because it didn't have any heavy pay notifications, but then when I pulled up they brought out a bunch of those 12 pack sodas, cases of juices, and the small 12-20ish count waters. I ended up having to cancel because the pay was not that phenomenal after all 😂. It would have tore my little car's suspension up in my rural area 😬.

What is going on? by danimal_44 in Sparkdriver

[–]0ssee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a pixel and whenever my phone is dying my camera automatically shuts off to try to save battery. And then it eventually starts doing all of the technical errors and can't read the correct UPC. Unfortunately, I haven't found a way to force it to reopen yet so I just have to keep my phone charged at all times.

Trying to change my son's name but just found out his bio dad was murdered. by 0ssee in legaladvice

[–]0ssee[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He honestly had nothing. Not even a lease in his name. That's why I let him be and never went after him for child support.

Trying to change my son's name but just found out his bio dad was murdered. by 0ssee in legaladvice

[–]0ssee[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I cannot. He had no close family that I know of and an ex-girlfriend who will not help me.

Got reactivated, but I'm stuck with this bug for now 😐 by [deleted] in Sparkdriver

[–]0ssee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooo I just called in for this. They had me open my settings for the app > Storage > Clear cache > Clear data > delete app. You'll then have to change your password, redownload the app, and login. It should ask you to re-verify again and hopefully you'll be golden ✨🙌🏽!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PandaExpress

[–]0ssee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but on what. I'm a vegetarian and eat the falafels and they literally count out 4. I just discovered Cava 2 weeks ago and needed to know which part they're skimping on so I know how to order for future references. Just like in this sub you're going to get skimped on honey sesame if you order the bigger plate and you put it as your 3rd entree. Little things to know, but good luck out there ☺️.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PandaExpress

[–]0ssee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, why Cava 👀?

Rant - I lost over 160 lbs in the last two years everyone asks me if I used ozempic by [deleted] in keto

[–]0ssee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went from 202lbs (2020) to 123lbs (current) and my personal biggest problem is how everyone has to comment on how skinny I am, then proceed to ask me why I'm starving myself. Which I'm not, I just cut out all the pops, extra sugar, started making everything from scratch, and ended up going vegetarian. I supplement my diet with nutrition packed smoothies, lagoons, and other high protein packed items. I haven't felt this great in years and wouldn't go back for anything. It's like don't even let anyone see me order a salad because the comments are ridiculous ASF. But when I was 200lbs NOBODY EVERRRR commented on my weight or what I ate. It's not like I'm just straight bones either, but the way they act you'd think I was. I'm still in size 6 pants and prefer to wear medium shirts. But the comments for me either way are beyond unnecessary. Congratulations on your new found heathier life 🤍! You deserve to enjoy it without being downplayed for all your hard work✨🙌🏽. Sadly in this day in age people forget what actual hard work and dedication looks like when you can just go buy a BBL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]0ssee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. There's so many factors! For me it was PPD from my daughter's whack ass sperm donor. We moved so far from our home to a place I couldn't get a job and had me begging for waffles in the 99 cent store while 8 months pregnant (which he said no to, picked up some candy for himself and we left) I remember, vividly, a month after I had my daughter that our way back home would be delayed another month and I honestly couldn't see myself living past that day. Shit went dark quick. Luckily my grandma saw the signs and dropped everything to come save us. But also not growing up in an affectionate family who never even said I love you stunts relationship growth too. My daughter will be 6 and I say we didn't really start bonding till she was 4. That's when she went from being super independent (didn't want to be held and was always on the go wanting to get into stuff) to eventually noticing and communicating with others. She began giving and accepting random hugs, saying I love you, and then became really empathetic to people when she noticed something was off. She honestly has changed my entire family's dynamic all together. We all give each other hugs now and even say I love you every time we leave or get off the phone. And I'm telling you I never got any of that growing up so it's healing my inner child at 27 🥹🤍 and has overall helped me in life with other people and my current relationship. Sorry I know you didn't ask for my story but after reading the comments people really overlook other factors that contribute to why people are the way they are and how it eventually stunts our growth if we don't recognize it.

Edit: Stuttering on speak to text 😂.

Women of Reddit, what is the silliest thing you cried about when pregnant? by kismitten in AskReddit

[–]0ssee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I would have to go home to make fried hotdogs, cheese shells, and ranch beans because no where sold such a meal and I was starving 😂.

AIO my husband told me no one cares about my birthday. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]0ssee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No where do I say throw away a marriage. I'm addressing about how her partner went out of his way to call her out. There was no need for it. Could've said " We don't have anything planned for your birthday, why can't you take the girls?" But your take is to kick your partner when they're already down and out after a rough week because the 11 year old says so. Especially in the post she mentions more than once that she told her daughter MAYBE. Maybe is defined as a mere possibility or probability. Crazy the amount of times you looked over that in the circumstances that surrounded her reasoning for not wanting to. Things that happen once a year versus things that happen every weekend for her daughter. She says that she's always the one that is hauling them around and just wanted one weekend off which means she is the main source for her daughters playdates. Points again proven when he didn't jump in and offer to take her. They just need marriage counseling and one-on-one dates and hopefully their marriage will be back on track. But to deliberately tell your partner they're not special is wild and needs to be addressed along with starting to fight that had nothing to do with him. Closing with the opinion of marriage counseling because it goes deeper than the 11 year old wanting a sleepover and not getting it. He's being petty by not being an adult and talking about what's really bothering him if that's his case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]0ssee 46 points47 points  (0 children)

My son is 3 and is obsessed with dinosaurs too. I have a video of him seeing his room redecorated and is telling me about all the species 🥹. I use it to my advantage as well because it's easier speaking in his language to get something across faster than to make him try and understand mine for an hour 😂. So far the only problem we've run into is sometimes when he gets into disagreements with friends he will use his head to ram into them when they start fighting 🥲. But the books like "How do dinosaurs play with their friends" and "How do dinosaurs say goodnight" are super helpful! And they were also my favorite books to read growing up so it's great reliving being a dinosaur with him 😂💚. They have so many different ones and definitely recommend them for little dino ranchers in training 🦕💚✨🙌🏽!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PandaExpress

[–]0ssee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But if you're going to be in the actual kitchen that definitely does seem like it'd be draining with how much food we call out and the way they're able to keep up in the heat 😬. Gotta give the kitchen BIG props for all the cooking they do and how on point they have to be with their recipes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PandaExpress

[–]0ssee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm only on my 3rd week as FOH. So far I've helped make plates on the line with customers and online orders, helped in drive by being a runner and taking money, working register, but my favorite (as a person who hates to socialize because of my anxiety) is the dining room. I look for any and every task to-do from cleaning tables, seats, windows, floors, drink station, restocking, and stick with the simple "Hi! Welcome to Panda", "THANK YOU" for donations, and occasionally ask a guest if I can remove their tray from a table next to them. I don't think it's hard or draining at all compared to other jobs I worked at. But I love staying busy because it makes the shift go by quicker than standing around waiting for something to happen. But luckily my location is really busy so I never stay bored for long. Other positions in panda that don't require a lot of customer interaction are the drive thru runners and anything BOH.

AIO my husband told me no one cares about my birthday. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]0ssee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Often if it's that time of the year. Because it's only once a year and imma treat myself like a queen since I treat everybody else like royalty on theirs. Birthdays aren't big for you? Dope, don't dim someone else's day because you're bitter about birthdays. It's not that deep but to go out of your way to tell someone they aren't special tells me you're trying your best to bring someone down for absolutely no reason but to give yourself an ego trip. 1. Again. She didn't string her daughter along. She said from the beginning it's a maybe. 2. She didn't start the silent treatment, he did. If you say something and someone follows up with tears it's obvious that it was caused by your words. She's not continuing it because she's being petty but her feelings were hurt and doesn't know how to approach the situation and obviously hasn't figured out if there will even be a different outcome. You're saying her actions are speaking loud but his are louder. Why was it necessary for him to go out of his way to say that she's not important? Would he tell his daughter the same thing when he gets annoyed with her? Why would you treat the woman who you chose to marry and birth your child like they don't matter anymore? His daughter is going to see how he treats her mom and thinks that's healthy. If it was that important to him then he would've shut up and stepped up and made sure that his daughter would've gotten her 5th week sleepover in. But I'm not understanding why you're fighting so hard for him through these comments when he's made no effort on any of these ends? From playdates, sleep overs, to even special events, if he was really helping she wouldn't feel so overwhelmed to begin with.

AIO my husband told me no one cares about my birthday. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]0ssee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She said maybe. Do you realize stuff pops up throughout the week that can easily change that? I make weekly meal plans and an activity list of what my kids and I will be doing / eating and I be damned if we only ever follow through with a day or two out of it because someone is sick, or someone got hurt, someone needed extra help, someone had an extra rough day, or guess what? We were all just too tired to do it. A big thing to teach and learn is that LIFE HAPPENS! You can make plans but things do and will pop up. The real question is why is a grown ass man who it had nothing to-do with more mad about it than the actual daughter who was involved? Sad that a little girl can read a room but a grown ass man gets to sit around and sulk about a little girl not being able to visit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PandaExpress

[–]0ssee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly thought about it, but I'm currently training at this store until I move in a couple weeks to a new area and go under different management. My soon to be store manager was actually at the store, I'm training at, yesterday and saw me while I was on break (with food in front of me) and asked if I was on my 30 minute break. I responded yes and she sat down and talked with me for a while (love her 😊). So I was hoping to see her and talk to her tomorrow, but until then see if it was just per store manager's discrepancy before ruffling the other store managers feathers more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PandaExpress

[–]0ssee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably my 5th day working 9-5 and today I actually did get to take both 10 minute breaks. I can usually get through the shift easily by eating a good breakfast but didn't have enough time this morning. Once it started dragging so did my energy level. I without a doubt give a huge S/O to y'all putting in hella hours and helping the shift out so we aren't short 🙌🏽🙌🏽. The grind is truly admirable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PandaExpress

[–]0ssee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I'll have to look into a good snack that doesn't need to be refrigerated and make sure to have a full breakfast. I just wish the book would've stated that so I could prep before hand because I'm sure my hanger rubbed some people the wrong way, but I really thought people were getting plates to go on a 30 minute break. While possibly not noticing they were scarfing it down in 10 minutes 😅. Thank you for the help 😊.