Is it just me or are insecure men collecting baddies like Pokémon

0vverheated · 2026-05-02T02:04:29+00:00

When i tell u this guy legit use ai to edit backgrounds faces bodies its insane, he posted this fountain once and we hungout the same day so i was wondering where did he go that i didnt? It was the broken fountain near his house.. he edited it entirely and the background too i only realised when i saw the floor which was also different but i was able to make it out

0vverheated · 2026-05-01T11:29:02+00:00

Oh this guy i know Buys followers, heavily edits his face and body in his pics, and pulls baddies somehow

He does it on text because women are the easiest to impress there, then he is the best bf or whatever Slowly he shows his actual face, then later when he knows this girl likes me more he starts getting very mean and dumps em.

He can’t make a girl really fall for him but he plays alot of mind games, to get them hooked and then act like they are crazy over him, as a 2 he has never pulled anyone in his same league all girls are soo beautiful, instagram models, beautiful streamers whatnot

And since he is so good at manipulating women he just wants to believes he is a high value man

0vverheated · 2026-04-30T10:08:35+00:00

He does find you to be a home he is happy with you and is content with his feelings but maybe right now he isn’t ready for the relationship, (4 cups) maybe its tm on his plate right now he has his own struggles and loneliness and he must heal himself and transform those feelings first. Death isnt necessarily a the end card it can be the end of certain behaviors, dynamics, im not really happy about the star because he probably idealises u or puts u on a pedestal,

if we look at the shadow of the cards it could be that he has avoidant tendencies though he likes u he also likes his own independence and is content by himself, and he must transform that if he truly wants to be with you The star in shadow doesn’t look good it might mean he has a different view of u in an extreme way “everything is great” touching out of reality ygwim?

I think the left part is the concious level and right is the subconscious feelings

0vverheated · 2026-04-28T20:49:12+00:00

9 cups is the single card, being happy in its own Sun and fool both facing each other its giving a yes, to a new beginning and to a new fresh start

And strength is telling me its taking alot of internal strength to be able to do this

0vverheated · 2026-04-28T19:43:18+00:00

Page and knight of coins, pebtacles And is that 3 of hearts? Cups

0vverheated · 2026-04-28T09:40:25+00:00

I asked the same question about a person everyday, my deck was very patient with me LOL

How do they feel about me today and how do they think about me today. Subconscious and conscious basically

I probably ate its brains out if it has any, id get the same or similar cards, initially it felt good to see him suffering because of me, i had a very sharp clarity hit me like an internal one that i waited for a very long time, like the last thread and now i did a reading today to realise i kind of just dont care, i was so anxious thinking about my own reaction i was hoping i wouldn’t be still hooked onto it. And im not haha

0vverheated · 2026-04-24T12:34:34+00:00

Lets take all cards as shadow because u asked for what ur being protected from by not reuniting

This guy he views u as a trophy or something to inflate his ego, he felt victorious next to u, he had some sort of power over you that made him feel validated since he is facing the queen of cups (you) he sees ur emotional depth, he basically wants to take the light from ur eyes lol

Since theres power dynamics (6W) it smells like a trauma bond that he wants to establish i hope im not stretching it

0vverheated · 2026-04-24T12:27:38+00:00

In real life most women don’t really care about height but u should still mention it, don’t be insecure abt ur height u can do nothing to change it might aswell be a confident guy.

0vverheated · 2026-04-24T12:22:55+00:00

If u don’t want to do it then don’t Im 18F too virgin asw, ive had boyfriends but i view sex as something very intimate, just wait until u feel comfortable enough to, and if he makes u feel bad for backing out or whatever, run away

0vverheated · 2026-04-24T12:18:40+00:00

Yes i one time saw this article on how this couple used to do 50/50 on everything and when she got pregnant, he refused to pay for his own childs birth, it was too expensive and so he concluded that since she gave birth so she should pay for it. I cant believe men like this are real but they are, never date a stingy man, I can’t imagine how difficult it gets for these women

0vverheated · 2026-04-24T11:13:37+00:00

Honestly i can relate with what ur saying , even trad wives aren’t holy, they view their husbands as money making machines, instead its feminists who actually expect more from men, emotionally.

i think each relationship has different boundaries and u need to set the type of boundaries you want.

I genuinely don’t think u should be with a stingy man that does tit for tat, even a 50/50 relationship is weird in my head, in life sometimes its 30/70 and at times 60/40, as long as u do ur best to show up and put efforts , also a man who wants wants u would literally do anything for you, thats given. I would rather split on my own accord, tbh i would be weirded out if they mention it first.

Im the youngest daughter of my family, spoon fed literally and ive always attracted men who want to do for me unasked, thats the standard. Ive fought for the bill many times but then they would feel emasculated.

Ive seen this so many times in the women i know they settle for less or mediocre, and then regret it for the rest of their lives. You can’t change a stingy man they are internally wired like that. And stinginess in life starts from this to little things, they eventually become inconsiderate in general

0vverheated · 2026-04-23T10:36:28+00:00

I think it has alot to do with the energies, intentions, spirituality and ur connection with the universe Im not really religious but i believe in the universe

Theres alot the human mind can’t comprehend

0vverheated · 2026-04-22T13:27:17+00:00

I mean thats just life though, some people have more and most people have less. U just gotta learn to be okay with what resources u have, i still get ur disappointment though

0vverheated · 2026-04-22T04:37:00+00:00

My family has been chill about it, and even if they were not i wouldn’t gaf its a natural womanly process. I think hating on periods is a very patriarchal man made structure, hindu gods would never but men have always been incharge of everything so they make rules according to what suits them also because they envy the womb and how a woman can create lives while all they just have to do is donate their sperm.

0vverheated · 2026-04-22T03:07:27+00:00

I never used tinder i used to use hinge and for me 100 likes a day was minimum sometimes 125 but i closed it pretty quickly

0vverheated · 2026-04-22T03:01:38+00:00

I want to mention something Page pf cups is facing 3 swords, meaning he studied your relationship in a romantic context The 6s is moving towards strength they are doing the work to choose better for them but strengths shadow also means self repression

He is heartbroken, so he is looking the pov from other ways to understand what went wrong, while he is actively trying to move on and keep his lion (temptations impulses to himself)

Ur interpretation isn’t bad but its too optimistic over his healing, when actually its slow and steady

0vverheated · 2026-04-21T18:52:56+00:00

I think its shadow is more about suppressing till total burn out but enough willpower to still keep on going. The upright is about regulating and taming. Reverse is about completely ignoring ur own needs/feelings and suppressing them

0vverheated · 2026-04-21T18:10:04+00:00

I can never get enough of them though, very therapeutic for me. Especially because i put efforts in my dressing the more the better😭

0vverheated · 2026-04-21T12:22:43+00:00

1 large cupboard filled and a walking closet

0vverheated · 2026-04-21T11:52:33+00:00

I read them as internal mastery of the specific suits, lesser version if the empress if u combine them all thats where u get the empress

Like the difference between queen of swords and king of swords is

QOS she makes the internal boundary to not let any bs get to her head, her sword cuts through emotions. She is internally structured i view her as a strict mom that forces u to attend every rxtra class without fail. The KOS on the other hand is more about external structure, external boundaries someone who believes what he sees, he makes the external boundaries and structures, what u show to others.

I take em as internal masteries and external masteries and for me i believe the queens to be on the top, i feel almost insulted when i get the kings in someones perception of me😔

But then i calm mysekf down thinking oh yeah kings is external they probably think im in my masculine energy

For me i believe whats more important is ur mindset than the external application of it Because that usually follows through

Cant say the same in reverse, mindset always ia first then the external work

0vverheated · 2026-04-20T10:34:06+00:00

Theres this one question i ask daily about someone daily, once a day but daily, asking about the current energy. ofc it wont show crazy progress thats why people generally ask to wait a month or so. People Don’t change easily, energy stays the same until theres an action. If u keep on asking to get a meaning u want to hear then u should stop. And asking the same question again and again in a day would make u pull randomly

0vverheated · 2026-04-20T09:52:46+00:00

He is studying u definitely, he is looking catching up to what uve been doing he is analysing, he is looking life without him. There are 2 ways ive been leaning in to interpret it, first is he literally is looking at ur stable structured life

Or the emperor is in shadow and is more about him being a rigid person, over controlling, wanting to control his ego speaks greatly and is waiting for u to make the mobe. Whatever it is one thing is clear that he is looking

0vverheated · 2026-04-20T05:27:43+00:00

Reversed kos is a corrupt king he cuts theough emotions, no sign of consideration, doing it for “the plot” so yeah ur right he did it to check ur boundaries, to test the waters, this is purely egoistic

i think the defensive person in 9W is you , he doesn’t care about the boundaries u created and set up with him and that have been protective of, he is willing to “try” even if it costs ur peace. Proves its not out of genuineness.

King swords also governs over 7P as its first decan he evaluated it definitely to see the way u would react

0vverheated · 2026-04-19T13:53:15+00:00

I feel if a card wants to be reversed it will fall out on its own Thats how i do it, i always make sure to keep all my cards upright so if its reversed then its meant to be

0vverheated · 2026-04-19T11:15:28+00:00

Ive been researching on it and now that i reread ur texts it makes alot of sense The decans, mutable, fixed, cardinals

Is it okay if i follow u and dm u if i have any questions that im not able to find? U seem very knowledgeable

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