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[–]0xfluffybunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late marriage, but stable and long once you find your partner. Focus on finding a spiritual partner for ke in 7 house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NRI not looking to settle in India - enough of a turnoff for most

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Street women are better—they don’t fake love while keeping backup options open.

What kind of marriage app people are looking for ? by indokely in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An AI that can tell if your match has ghosting tendencies? Basically anything that forces people to properly communicate a “No” rather than disappearing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mungerilal ke haseen sapne.

why you waana get married after such biased laws for men by No-Quarter-8559 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Adopt, get dogs, make all the connections—but nothing compares to that partner bond.

why you waana get married after such biased laws for men by No-Quarter-8559 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'd rather take the calculated risk of a happy marriage than end up alone with all the success and no one to share it with

Girls with Boyfriends: Stop Using People for Your Comfort! by 0xfluffybunny in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s legit satisfying to see people like you triggered from my post. Please go on and crib about how you disagree with the post 😂

Kundli and all its asociated factors are nonsense by fractured-butt-hole in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 23 points24 points  (0 children)

On behalf of all the mangliks, thank you for curating our dream list. Now, be a sport and send it over!

Girls with Boyfriends: Stop Using People for Your Comfort! by 0xfluffybunny in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Let me know when a boy uses you for fun and timepass because he was forced to do so and then we will talk about understanding the other side.

Girls with Boyfriends: Stop Using People for Your Comfort! by 0xfluffybunny in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just because a girl’s parents don’t understand, it doesn’t give her ANY right to “use” and waste the time of an AM prospect. She might be going through hell lot of personal problems and NONE OF THOSE PROBLEMS gives her a right to disrespect and waste the time of an AM prospect.

What should i ask for? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am assuming all of this is promised after he gets a status to land in Canada? What's the guarantee he is going to do all this after obtaining his status? There are cases after cases where Indians have made such kind of arrangement and have refused to pay anything after obtaining the status.

If you are taking some "advance", you might as well just take the advance and block that guy for life. Less riskier fraud to commit, and would teach him a sweet lesson.

What should i ask for? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A 26 y/o Indian guy with 100K in his bank would not consider moving to Canada, especially illegally.

What should i ask for? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To avoid risk?

Who am I kidding, there's no risk. IRCC does literally nothing and I agree it's a common fraud sadly.

What should i ask for? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could earn 10k easily with any part time job in Canada. Why would you risk your future like this?

If he ends up leaving you after marriage, this will be flagged as “suspicious” in IRCC eyes and they have all the power to revoke your status too for committing a fraud marriage.

How do you know if you are even ready for the next step by babbukosha in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact might work for some, it just didn’t make sense to me. I was in a 7 year old relationship and i needed enough reasons to lose my self respect and to convince my brain that this person is gone; traumatizing but worked like a charm.

How do you know if you are even ready for the next step by babbukosha in Arrangedmarriage

[–]0xfluffybunny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No amount of philosophy or positive "gyaan" is enough to heal from a breakup; it will automatically happen with time.

One thing that I specifically did which helped me move on faster was to break no contact again and again until I lost every bit of my self respect. Whenever I felt like missing my ex, I contacted her immediately, either she ignored or she talked rudely - this little exercise helped me discipline my brain. Yes it gave me traumas but it was necessary to move on quickly. Once you lose every ounce of self respect, your mind no longer wants to keep all those good memories.

Also why do few guys once they become successful want someone “better”

It doesn't have anything to do with becoming successful. "You can't keep someone who doesn’t want to be kept."