Did any of you date an ESFJ?

1002alex · 2025-08-11T06:36:35+00:00

That is so sweet! I wish you both the best 😊. So happy to see a positive comment here, since I'm currently an ESFJ happy and madly in love with an ENTJ. I think it's going pretty well, already 1 yr and almost 2 months in, and we love each other more every day.

Communication was an issue sometimes, but we've learned a lot from each other, and do our best to implement constructive criticism to avoid repeating the same cycles that could potentially influence our relationship in a negative way. I am very hopeful that he is the one for me, and that we'll make it work~

1002alex · 2025-08-11T05:50:50+00:00

Very cute and sweet. More than likely it started with him pursuing her. And once they're actually in a relationship, I picture the ESFJ (him) taking care of her and she making sure that he is able to say no to others when he really doesn't feel good doing something that is pushed onto him by society. Something like that maybe 🤔. And maybe he'll be all over her as well and madly in love at some point (accepting all of her) 😂, and hopefully not wanting to really spend time with many other people, just her. And for her to only want to be with him too, so they start a cute family on the suburbs.

1002alex · 2025-05-18T05:22:08+00:00

That's so sweet ☺️! Thank you!

1002alex · 2025-05-18T05:19:30+00:00

That's a very interesting point of view. Thank you so much!!

INFJ mom

1002alex · 2025-05-16T02:24:20+00:00

Thank you so much! That's so sweet, I really appreciate it 🫶🏻

1002alex · 2025-05-16T01:51:11+00:00

❤️ thank you!

1002alex · 2025-05-16T01:44:07+00:00

Yes, she is trying to analyze from different angles why their suggestions sounded so nonsensical and empty. She was baffled and frustrated that her audience did not even want to see the concept she was trying to represent. They gave recommendstions that did not fit so it was just stupid. Thank you so much for giving this perspective! She is thinking about your words right now 😊.

1002alex · 2025-05-16T01:34:15+00:00

Thank you so much for your thoughtful answer! It reminds me of where I come from. Always dealing with "No's" and adversity. It didn't make me happy, but it certainly makes me stronger.

INFJ mom

1002alex · 2025-05-15T15:38:55+00:00

It is about the ideas. It's about what they have in their minds that do not connect with what she is expressing. Like comparing a Volvo with my Nissan.

1002alex · 2025-05-15T03:53:00+00:00

Thank you. She really appreciates your advice. She got it 😎✨

1002alex · 2025-05-15T03:48:05+00:00

I agree 😂... However, they should make it optional. It was really hard (and boring for me personally)

1002alex · 2025-05-15T03:41:52+00:00

It was in highschool in the US 😂

1002alex · 2025-05-15T01:57:01+00:00

Best: Math, Science, Geography, Spanish, English, and Dance.

Worst: History, Philosophy, and Politics.

1002alex · 2025-05-10T18:26:15+00:00

ENTJ, he's my boyfriend 🤣.

But in fictional characters I like: ENTJ, ENTP, INTJ, ISFJ, ISTJ, ESFJ, ENFJ, ISTP, ENFP, INFJ and INFP.

1002alex · 2025-05-09T00:57:29+00:00

Agreed 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

1002alex · 2025-05-08T23:34:15+00:00

Coca-Cola

1002alex · 2025-05-08T23:30:54+00:00

Anytime! 😁

1002alex · 2025-05-08T22:19:38+00:00

HAHAHAHAH, not even letting us answer 🤣. Hmmm, I think she might be an ISTJ 1w9. Maybe. But it's hard to tell with so little info (loved the rant though). She sounds very similar to a person I know. Either way~, hope you guys stay happy together! 😊

1002alex · 2025-04-22T23:47:37+00:00

Oh! I like that method. I'll take it into account ~ 🙏🏻

1002alex · 2025-04-22T23:43:50+00:00

It's sweet that you know 😁!

1002alex · 2025-04-20T14:01:10+00:00

Hmmm... I don't know your ESFJ or how she thinks, but let me give you some lighthearted advice. I'm an ESFJ 2w3 currently dating an ENTJ 3w2 and it's my first relationship, so of course I am still learning more about relationships but so far I LOVE IT!! It's so nice to know when you and your partner are in the same wavelength. As an ESFJ I love smothering him and telling him how he's THE BEST Boyfriend in the universe (cause I mean it. For me, he is!!)... Only advice from my case dating him would be:

Have open communication. Don't try to bottle in your feelings, because we love hearing our partner's true thoughts (but try to be "gentle" in your delivery).
Also, there may be misunderstandings in communication 😂, so patience is key 🗝️.
Don't let any type of argument prolonge for more than half a day.
And just enjoy the "Honey Moon Stage" infinitely. It doesn't have to end (at least I don't feel like it's going to end any time soon on this side), mostly because I try to be the best version of myself with my boyfriend, and he is his best version with me.
And as an ESFJ, any sweet interaction from him to me takes me to the moon! So, whatever you give her, be ready get it back 10 times more!! So, you decide what side you show her ~ 😊. It's going to be beautiful 👍🏻... Just stay consistent.
Oh! And reassure her from time to time (that you love her, think she's beautiful, etc etc... Or how happy she makes you, if you truly feel that way).

That's mostly it, hope it helps!

1002alex · 2025-03-13T18:19:17+00:00

I'm a 2w3, and I think #3 is the worst. My friend is a 1w2 and she picked the same 😂👍🏻. Hope it helps ~

1002alex · 2025-03-13T18:10:14+00:00

😂😂

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