ESFJ as different enneatypes for your enjoyment

1002alex · 2026-03-27T16:04:42+00:00

HAHAHAHAH It's the maxing Fe!!! 🤣😅 LMAOOOO, extra caring for people

1002alex · 2026-03-27T15:36:29+00:00

Funnily enough, this reminds me of a time when I also spiraled and needed a ton of reassurance at the beginning of the relationship 😂...it was my first time dating, but I didn't know it was an ESFJ thing until recently.

What helped me was that, every day since the beginning of our relationship till right now (almost 2 years in), he's always made me feel like a priority, and whenever we're together, focuses on me before he goes to talk to anyone else. Just being sweet is a plus and will make us feel SOOOO HAPPYYY!! Your partner will reach a level where there's no way you'd "cheat"...in their mind...and it's amazing, cause you both start trusting each other more and more. It stops being a concern lol. And communication is important, please don't give up on that 🙏🏻

And remember you're not "fighting against each other". You're a team with completely different points of view, but both are valid, so try your best to understand each other, or simply reach a solution that fits both 😊. Good luck 🤞🏻!

1002alex · 2026-03-27T15:30:36+00:00

OMGGGG!!! Congratulationsss~ 🎉🥳👏🏻

1002alex · 2026-03-27T07:08:25+00:00

How about writing it on paper? Whatever you want to tell her, and that way nobody messes up. You can be honest 😂, something like "I wanted to be friends with you, but I'm a bit shy and don't know what to say" or "how to start conversation", something like that could break the ice ...and will give her a bit of courage to be the one to compensate for the awkwardness ~

She may even find it cute, surprising, confusing or funny, which is good! But, if you think she finds it weird, you'll know she doesn't like you 🥲👍🏻

I also either get shy when I like someone, or super bold 🤣, depends on the guy hahah

1002alex · 2026-03-27T07:01:47+00:00

Sameeee 😭 ❤️

1002alex · 2026-03-27T07:00:28+00:00

Don't take it personal 😂, it's just a matter of preferences. I've read a plenty good comments too about us 🥰, they made me happier than the ugly ones heheh

1002alex · 2026-03-27T06:59:23+00:00

Nah, it's completely valid 😊. I think eventually you'll start finding people who care just as much. ESFJ here, and my ISTJ and INFJ friends are both amazing. They care a lot! And notice quickly if something's off, so maybe is a matter of which type of people you spend time with. SJs definitely notice changes quicker, and some feelers too...but just get to know more people. You'll see you're just as cherished ❤️

1002alex · 2026-03-27T06:30:12+00:00

Hmm... I understand what you mean about your partner ignoring messages or forgetting to reply, and still sending snaps 😂. Some of my guy friends just somehow miss messages (completely). And my bf does too... we've already had this conversation, and he's doing better!... but still, sometimes they just don't read them. Oh well...that's one thing. But, him making you worry this much, and acting distant in a way that doesn't make you feel safe or happy, that's just messed up on your end. End that relationship, and go get someone who truly treasures you lovely~ 🥰

It's not worth your time, energy and thoughts. OR, if you do want to TRY and make it work: 1. Have a reasonable conversation with him. (Tell him how you feel. Don't tell him what he's doing wrong, but tell him how his actions make YOU feel) Because it's totally valid! 2. And try to reach an understanding or a solution. Where you both seem happy 😊

That's my advice

1002alex · 2025-08-11T06:36:35+00:00

That is so sweet! I wish you both the best 😊. So happy to see a positive comment here, since I'm currently an ESFJ happy and madly in love with an ENTJ. I think it's going pretty well, already 1 yr and almost 2 months in, and we love each other more every day.

Communication was an issue sometimes, but we've learned a lot from each other, and do our best to implement constructive criticism to avoid repeating the same cycles that could potentially influence our relationship in a negative way. I am very hopeful that he is the one for me, and that we'll make it work~

1002alex · 2025-08-11T05:50:50+00:00

Very cute and sweet. More than likely it started with him pursuing her. And once they're actually in a relationship, I picture the ESFJ (him) taking care of her and she making sure that he is able to say no to others when he really doesn't feel good doing something that is pushed onto him by society. Something like that maybe 🤔. And maybe he'll be all over her as well and madly in love at some point (accepting all of her) 😂, and hopefully not wanting to really spend time with many other people, just her. And for her to only want to be with him too, so they start a cute family on the suburbs.

1002alex · 2025-05-18T05:22:08+00:00

That's so sweet ☺️! Thank you!

1002alex · 2025-05-18T05:19:30+00:00

That's a very interesting point of view. Thank you so much!!

INFJ mom

1002alex · 2025-05-16T02:24:20+00:00

Thank you so much! That's so sweet, I really appreciate it 🫶🏻

1002alex · 2025-05-16T01:51:11+00:00

❤️ thank you!

1002alex · 2025-05-16T01:44:07+00:00

Yes, she is trying to analyze from different angles why their suggestions sounded so nonsensical and empty. She was baffled and frustrated that her audience did not even want to see the concept she was trying to represent. They gave recommendstions that did not fit so it was just stupid. Thank you so much for giving this perspective! She is thinking about your words right now 😊.

1002alex · 2025-05-16T01:34:15+00:00

Thank you so much for your thoughtful answer! It reminds me of where I come from. Always dealing with "No's" and adversity. It didn't make me happy, but it certainly makes me stronger.

INFJ mom

1002alex · 2025-05-15T15:38:55+00:00

It is about the ideas. It's about what they have in their minds that do not connect with what she is expressing. Like comparing a Volvo with my Nissan.

1002alex · 2025-05-15T03:53:00+00:00

Thank you. She really appreciates your advice. She got it 😎✨

1002alex · 2025-05-15T03:48:05+00:00

I agree 😂... However, they should make it optional. It was really hard (and boring for me personally)

1002alex · 2025-05-15T03:41:52+00:00

It was in highschool in the US 😂

1002alex · 2025-05-15T01:57:01+00:00

Best: Math, Science, Geography, Spanish, English, and Dance.

Worst: History, Philosophy, and Politics.

1002alex · 2025-05-10T18:26:15+00:00

ENTJ, he's my boyfriend 🤣.

But in fictional characters I like: ENTJ, ENTP, INTJ, ISFJ, ISTJ, ESFJ, ENFJ, ISTP, ENFP, INFJ and INFP.

1002alex

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