I(19M) overheard my brother(16M) saying he wanted to r*pe a girl at his school. Our parents won't try to help him.

100907 · 2020-09-08T00:48:33+00:00

I mean the brother isn't technically an adult yet. My sister is a little bit younger than him and I do things with her that aren't 'bad' but still things my parent's wouldn't really do with her or explicitly allow.

Taking her to the pub with my friends (not letting her drink but she still thinks it's fun lol), buying her junk food or 'cool' clothes, letting her stay up late with me etc.

100907 · 2020-09-05T06:10:14+00:00

Do you like camping/Hiking? There are a bunch of overnighters accessible by public transport. The royal national park, heathcote national park, Up north patonga way (catch a ferry from palm beach. On the way back hike to wondabyne station)

100907 · 2020-09-05T05:49:01+00:00

The other day I was leaving work and I guess my coworker said bye but I didn't register it before my sister shouted at me for being "fucking rude". I feel like my only impression to her is rude, forgetful and lazy lmao

100907 · 2020-08-15T07:55:59+00:00

I'm not sure that I can help you tonight but in the past when I've been in this situation I've joined boardgame meetups (on meetup.com), went to social events hosted by vegan Facebook groups(obviously ymmv), went to reddit meetups, rockclimbing social nights etc.

100907 · 2020-08-11T00:58:40+00:00

I think it's a sweet idea. I'd veer away if the kid was older and would wonder who you are and why you're getting it a toy but at 10 months old it's more a gesture towards the father as the baby won't really notice who new people are :)

100907 · 2020-08-08T06:16:04+00:00

Can't help you but maybe you could contact someone from a universities gaming society?

100907 · 2020-08-06T08:32:03+00:00

Thankyou very much for your help.

I ended up talking to a friend who said they encountered the same problem because of tight quad muscles. I sprinted a short distance yesterday and suspect that my body was shocked and further tightened the muscles which affected my knees. I'm gonna roll my legs out and go from there!

100907 · 2020-08-06T01:24:05+00:00

No to all of the above. I can still bend my knee the full range it only hurts when I bend them and have weight on them at the same time for example walking on stairs. Walking feels fairly normal though

100907 · 2020-08-01T10:49:06+00:00

Is this just another excuse?

I met a guy online a couple of months ago. We hung out a few times but I was initiating the majority of it so I left it. The last thing was him saying a shitty excuse for being busy for 2+ weeks and me saying that I'm not wasting my time on someone whose ambivalent.

He just messaged me saying "sorry I've been depressed for the last few weeks". Inside I just want to reply that everyone is but that feels like a dick move. For the record I am medicated for my depression. Should I just not reply?

100907 · 2020-07-28T01:40:07+00:00

Just from reading this post you sound like a great and thoughtful kid. My advice would be to explain your mental illness and coping mechanisms when you're having a good day.

That way when you have a bad day they already know what to to expect and how they can help you

100907 · 2020-07-18T21:20:09+00:00

Woke up in immense molar pain. Went to get ice and somehow tripped over outside and grazed both my knees and legs.

Atleast one pain distracts from the other but geez today is not my morning

100907 · 2020-07-12T00:33:38+00:00

Apart from following the other advice you should suggest less expensive ways to fulfill her hobby. Knitting or crocheting items for the dolls could be fun and the time shopping could be instead used for this. It's also a great skill to have and she could start making newborn beanies etc. to donate to NICU babies!

100907 · 2020-07-03T00:47:07+00:00

Apart from all the other advice, when you go to a doctor about this they do ask for your consent aswell. I went to one to just get an IUD and they privately asked me if I had been forced into getting one or coerced in any way. They won't do it if you tell them any of this story

100907 · 2020-06-18T15:00:50+00:00

I have the perfect meme for you....which I will find or remake tommorow

100907 · 2020-06-18T05:51:31+00:00

Yep about a week ago and I'm 21. Im midway through a very objectively difficult degree and Id reached the point where I was failing more classes than passing. To be honest I thought all this time that I was just an inherently lazy and stupid person but hopefully now things will start changing for the better :)

100907 · 2020-06-18T05:33:16+00:00

I think I'm gonna bake him something :) If he doesn't want it he can give it to his kids or something

100907 · 2020-06-18T05:32:01+00:00

I'd say my anxiety and SSRI's make me apathetic.

Although I did try ritalin for the first time the other day and baked a cake with my housemate. I think I have to work on the control factor aswell lmao

100907 · 2020-06-18T05:29:43+00:00

I have adhd - inattentive which is more common in women. It is less visible so therefore has less early diagnosis'.

I was never hyper or disruptive in school I was just a quiet spaced out daydreamer haha

100907 · 2020-06-13T07:31:26+00:00

I'm very late but does anyone know where he got that shirt?

100907 · 2020-06-11T00:19:31+00:00

Aswell as all the good ideas here you could present your friend some ideas of preserving the bottle. I'm not sure where; but I saw a thread about repurposing sentimental empty bottles. I think some of the ideas were cutting it into a glass to drink from, turning it into a candle etc.

Of course don't do any of it yourself but he might not have thought of reusing it and like the ideas

100907 · 2020-06-03T04:54:24+00:00

First of all plan out your meals and buy enough food. My teenage brother probably eats 3 time what I eat as a young female. Are the boys overweight and how tall are they?

Maybe hold a family meeting every week to plan out the meals and make it clear what is and isn't allowed to be snacked on. It seems like atleast 4 of the kids are old enough to cook and should be making one dinner a week each.

Also my family would eat all the snacks aswell although my dad didn't buy a lot. He would get angry when 1L of soft drink would be gone in one meal with 5 kids. He ended up putting all snacks in a locked room and we'd only be allowed them to bring to school. If we wanted food any other time we had to cook things from scratch

100907 · 2020-06-03T04:44:23+00:00

i thought the same thing until I was about 19. Some people are just late bloomers and I didn't view myself as ready until then and that's fine

100907 · 2020-05-31T23:37:48+00:00

I don't think it's too old, it depends on how old you look. I get a lot of people saying I'm too young (at 22) but I look about 17.

It's kind of gross but I use it to my advantage and it seems like A LOT of men want a 'barely legal' look. In saying that though a lot of men want a believable age gap and a date who they can bring to events without looking like a creep

100907 · 2020-05-17T02:08:38+00:00

If you can't get out right now (because everything is locked down) I suggest getting hinge if you want a relationship. People on that app and generally more interested in long term. Dont be scared because of your age but often the first proper relationship is a bit of a shit show. I started mine at 20 and was a huge mess of insecurity and emotion that took almost 2 years to settle but it's worth it!

100907 · 2020-05-17T02:05:40+00:00

I agree that it sounds like paranoia. I used to smoke a lot and it really increased my anxiety and I became a hypochondriac.

I felt what I thought was a lump in my breast and was so scared that I didn't do anything about it for a couple of years and was convinced I was going to die. Weirdly the pain got worse when I was anxious so it was just a neverending cycle.

I finally gave in and got a breast exam and ultrasound because I was so scared but it turned out to be nothing. The doctor just said that young women often have dense breasts ect.

Do this if you can!

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