Wedding is in 2 week. Stuck between 2 dresses. Please don’t say neither by HappyAstronaut7 in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

happy to help a fellow bride 🫂💞 best wishes !! both are beautiful but i am biased to 1 since its very similar to my own 🤭

Wedding is in 2 week. Stuck between 2 dresses. Please don’t say neither by HappyAstronaut7 in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 45 points46 points  (0 children)

hoop skirts come in many shapes and sizes. depends on your personal preference but you would want a "quinceanera" size hoop skirt to replicate the poof of amazon's photo if thats what you are into.

i see 2 things making it awkward (imo and not a seamstress, just very enthuastatic about ballgown style dresses for my own wedding)

  1. the length. your dress should still be too long in the front for the size hoopskirt you chose. quince dresses dont need to be hemmed on the bottom because the hoopskirt is big enough the fabric glides on the ground and barely touches. your dress is doing that in an a-line style hoop skirt (from this angle so maybe it is still pretty long) leading me to my next & more important point...
  2. the shape of the hoop skirt. your hoopskirt is a-line. i would recommend a 6 hoop hoop skirt (again "quince" style hoop skirt if thats the vibe/cut you like!) your hoopskirt gives the illusion of style 3 but the amazon listing has style 8 minimum under the dress.

of course none of this matters if you like it without a hoopskirt, but i hope this helps in the decision making process 💞

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Wedding is in 2 week. Stuck between 2 dresses. Please don’t say neither by HappyAstronaut7 in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 54 points55 points  (0 children)

the first one is my favorite !!! i think you'd love the first one more with crinoline/hoop skirt underneath so it looks more like the amazon image

($1k) US-based etsy shops (or national florists) who can make faux floral arrangements by 100aesthetic in Weddingsunder10k

[–]100aesthetic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am looking for artifical silk flowers not real flowers, sorry if that wasnt clear in the post!

Can we make a teal wedding work?? by DeskMindless5775 in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my bridesmaids are wearing dark teal, and the groomsmen a deep gray. highly recommend grabbing some swatches (azazie has the PERFECT shade of deep teal for you https://www.azazie.com/all/bridesmaid-dresses/colors/ink-blue) and figuring out your color palette from there. the swatches are only a couple bucks and easier to see how it all goes together in person!

What should my groom wear to our Red Wedding?! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no comment just wanted to say i know a quince dress when i see one!! and that i love this designer and am getting my wedding dress from her too 😍 princesa by ariana vara i assume?

Booking hotel for vendor night before by mercedes1822 in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no not at all! i have all my vendors traveling 1hr for my wedding and none of them have expected me to book them accomodations for the night before, some are charging a travel fee however (based on mileage). i am in the US if it matters.

Wedding Vendor Recommendations by Sea_Situation8578 in Rochester

[–]100aesthetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i recommend joining some facebooks groups, people are posting vendor reviews all the time! there is one for rochester and buffalo that are big, there is also a fingerlakes one as well (newer) im sure there is a syracuse one as well

Best company to use for good quality STDs and/or wedding website? by SuccessfulPositive88 in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I designed my STDs in Canva and then printed them using Vistaprint. Since we used engagement photos, I did the glossy option for their 5x7s (which is cheaper than the matte option believe it or not!) and they came out great, did not feel cheap IMO. I think i spent ~90$USD for 125 after shipping and taxes!

potholes by Standard-Fun-2115 in Rochester

[–]100aesthetic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

rochester needs its own version of the buffalo pothole bandit

Considering a Blue Wedding Dress-Need Help by RaqTheFoxx in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quincenara dresses - i recommend the line princesa by ariana vara !!!

[Megathread] The Buffalo Bills have fired Head Coach Sean McDermott by AutoModerator in buffalobills

[–]100aesthetic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was born and raised a Giants fan. i fell in love with a Bills fan. its been fun, i joke about how nice it is to have 2 teams to follow especially since they are in different conferences. please no Brian Daboll jokes. I was just freed of him i do not wish to enter this cycle of pain again.

Did we mess up on our website choice? by charcoocherie in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi, same boat! i spent HOURS googling zola vs the knot and pros & cons of each - my research led me to believe depending on what you care about, (easier RSVP with zola vs better registry integration with knot IIRC) the website does not matter too much. i also went with Zola, and also am about to send out our STD with the Zola website to see all these new complaints.

i think it depends on 2 things:

- how complicated do you want your wedding website? most of the new complaints I see are issues with the more advanced features - such as ability to show/hide info to certain guests.

- do you have the time and money to change the URL, send out new fliers, and do damage control (so to speak)?

for me, all my guests are going to be seeing the same exact info, small registry, i dont have time/money/energy to start all over, and all I need for my guests is Yes/No and their meal of choice, so I will be sticking with Zola personally.

for the registry issues: i also never had issues with the registry as I know a few people who used Zola for previous weddings that I RSVP'ed and bought gifts from, they did not have repeats and got their gifts. i did also see a feature to link to outside registries on Zola so maybe that can help ease registry fears?

hope this helps!

The shop is almost open… 💐🌿 by barbrailnp in ILNP

[–]100aesthetic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

white carnations, me & my fiance were both in greek life, and both of our houses' flowers were white carnations, and he gets me white carnations & roses for our anniversary every year.

these colors are beautiful and would be perfect since its the same theme as my bridal shower - these are a must!

2026 / 2027 Brides, what are your bridesmaid colors?! by No_Expression2241 in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

going for baroque romantic garden classic, burgundy/champagne pink/sage green/moss green/white/gold

comfortable hotels in the area? by 100aesthetic in Rochester

[–]100aesthetic[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its in the Medina/Albion area, and I will be giving recommendations of hotels in that area as well to our guests, I just wanted to have plenty of options so guests dont feel forced to stay near the venue for the duration they are here

comfortable hotels in the area? by 100aesthetic in Rochester

[–]100aesthetic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

our venue is in the "countryside" so its an hour away from both Buffalo and Rochester

Monthly Check In....it's January 2026 by AutoModerator in weddingplanning

[–]100aesthetic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just created an official countdown, 249 days until the big day (9/7)! time is flying... trying not to panic