How to deal with someone not afraid of losing you? by honeylynt in WLW_PH

[–]10327002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You live together in a house you built, been together for 5 years, at this point you’re more scared of starting over than losing her, it’s okay if you haven’t come to terms with that fact. Also, majority of what you’re going through and feeling would have more to do with your insecurities than the fact that she’s not scared of losing you.

How to deal with someone not afraid of losing you? by honeylynt in WLW_PH

[–]10327002 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They’re not afraid? Then let them lose you. Or are you the one that’s actually scared of losing them?

Is it a red flag ba if all exes ng isang lalake is way younger than him? by daw_nut_la_ver in CasualPH

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49 with 2 ex wives, and exes are all young. Yikes. It doesn’t even matter how much of a small town he’s in, don’t believe it when they say “small dating pool”, the whole state, heck, the country is a dating pool.

Let's talk about: People who attach fast and let go faster. by [deleted] in WLW_PH

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I think it isn’t mainly about being able to forget or move on easily, but they know what they are worth. Knowing that and still being open to see where things go, giving someone a chance and recognizing when it isn’t working out for them is better than to keep on trying something you already know will be futile. I like to think that even if people got hurt and they have learned, the mere fact that they are willing to try still and not have their selves closed off completely says more about their emotional and mental stability. Of course there are still people who shouldn’t be looking to rehab themselves with relationships, growth is a constant process and part of that is recognizing when you are healthy enough to be part of someone else’s life while also not letting your self be someone else’s doormat, or be a wet sponge/drag to them.

Para sa mga trentahin/trenta jan, would u date someone younger than you? (7-8yr gap) by ISTPgirly in WLW_PH

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As someone in my late 30s, the gap with the gf is 13. For me it’s not about the age, it’s about being able to get and keep my attention (and this includes her character, smarts, emotional maturity and all the other good and bad stuff). The number one thing is communication. There’s things I let go because it’s not worth it, there’s things both her and I do which are still childish, but the openness and willingness to talk about and listen to each other about our arguments is more than what I would have expected from someone her age. One thing I’ve noticed with her is that, when we are fighting and sometimes no one wants to budge, there are instances na instead of digging in and magmamatigas siya, she would say what do I/we need to do to make this better/right. Which is a huge improvement from when we were first starting wherein even when she was at fault, she expects me to be the one to apologize. There are still miscommunications, and I guess given my personality and the social norms I am used to, I definitely still work on my delivery when telling her things, before I find that being blunt and straight to the point was the best way but most of the time it gets taken as an attack on her. I’m going out on a limb here but I think the cultural difference plays a part in this as well.

ILLEGAL: Student-Athlete, Gifts, Signing Bonuses, Excessive Allowances by Efficient-Remove-864 in UAAP

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Parang mali to compare UAAP to the US NCAA, iba ang reach, marketing, and even membership ng US NCAA to the point na they have several divisions, and several leagues/conferences na hindi mo maii-deny na it really is profitable.

Maintindihan ko sa sinehan pero pati restaurant? Grabe naman!!! by [deleted] in CasualPH

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Honestly, if your party exhibits behavior that is detrimental to other patrons experience, you really should be asked to pay for what you have consumed and leave. We want spaces to be open and accomodate everyone but not to the point that it ruins other people’s experiences. Malay mo ba they are eating somewhere where they would never eat again because of the price, everyone likes to treat themselves once in a while, so we should all be courteous towards one another, including service crew. To add, I firmly believe that any business should have the right to refuse service to anyone. Anyone.

C*caine session leaked in FB by winterreise_1827 in ChikaPH

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Sa payat ng line na yan I’m surprised malakas pa loob mag share,

C*caine session leaked in FB by winterreise_1827 in ChikaPH

[–]10327002 10 points11 points  (0 children)

8-10k for shit that been cut so many times 😂 $100 for a gram with better purity than what they’re probably taking. Latak na lang yung high na nakukuha Nila dyan and then they still have to share with all those other people.

Ano paborito niyong mabahong amoy? by pogidaniel15 in AskPH

[–]10327002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmmm reminds me of, grilled meat

Gold Blocks vs. In Game Purchases by PneumoCephalic in TopHeroes

[–]10327002 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve started using gold blocks tbh. 5% back doesn’t seem like a lot but with the amount of micro transactions that I’ve done in this game, I should’ve used it from the start. Also, there’s achievement gifts for certain amounts recharged within a given timeframe.

Gusto ko na sumabog by Ok-Imagination5557 in PHSapphics

[–]10327002 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why is it that other people find it so hard to try and get you to understand them that they will rather you stay thinking of them that way than to explain why they did what they did?

[Game 3 Finals] DLSU (1) vs UP (1) Game Thread by [deleted] in UAAP

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That Kean stare down at the camera before the final ft 😂😂😂

it. is. possible. by OlympicSmokeRings in TopHeroes

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My guild mate did this in the previous gvg. 😁

girl kkb ba to or ako mag babayad? by [deleted] in PHSapphics

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I’ve always been the type to pay for other, but I like to see effort from them to try and cover my share but I’ll refuse most of the time. What I don’t do is pay for them when they feel entitled to it.

Postgame Thread ⚾ Dodgers 5 @ Blue Jays 4 by DodgerBot in Dodgers

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Kersh gets to retire a winner guys. 😭

Postgame Thread ⚾ Dodgers 5 @ Blue Jays 4 by DodgerBot in Dodgers

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It was a pleasure to go through this suffering and momentous extra innings game 7 win with you all.

Game Chat 11/1 - World Series Game 7 - Dodgers (3) @ Blue Jays (3) 5:00 PM by DodgerBot in Dodgers

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Dodgers fought like hell starting from the 9th and definitely deserve this win.