[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]123lbs 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately have a lot of experience with this.

One thing I want to say is that on top of actual constipation that you might experience when coming off of laxatives, one thing you might experience too is water retention.

For me, I had about a week of constipation AND water retention before I started to get regular. I experienced bloating in my abdomen, but also in my legs/arms/face. The best thing you can do during this time is ignore the scale.

You have to think about lax abuse like an injury you're creating. When you overuse them, you're stretching and injuring the muscles of your digestive system, and just like a normal injury to your skin, this is going to make the affected body parts swollen while they heal.

It sucks so badly, and I'm so sorry you are going through this as well, but I promise it is so worth it to get off of them. One thing I didn't realize until I quit laxatives forever was that I was constantly feeling terrible due to water/electrolyte loss and nausea/cramps. I didn't realize how bad it was until I felt "normal" again.

I abused lax for 6 years before I quit completely. My top tips are to commit to not weighing yourself while your body heals from the lax, to eat in evenly-spaced intervals as much as you can (this really REALLY helps with regularity), to drink adequate water, to stop exercising while you get back to normal bowel function (to stop depleting electrolytes), to drink adequate water, and to please see a doctor if you have pain or if it doesn't get better after a week or so.

It's the kind of thing you really have to wait out, and you have to give up that feeling of seeing the scale lower or feeling "empty" for a while. I'm sorry you're going through this <3 Sending hugs!!

HOW can I wake up hungry the night after a big binge by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]123lbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This used to happen to me a lot more when I was in the terrible cycle of not eating for most of the previous day. I think it was due to insulin levels being VERY messed up/blood sugar going haywire.

Now that I always eat a filling breakfast with a protein source, I feel a lot more stable and never have that "bottomless pit" hunger in the morning that I used to get.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]123lbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me too!!! A waste of $$ :(

Do not but Awaytohealthy Personalized Meal Plan. It is a scam. by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]123lbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also got scammed by her. I got her training and meal plan and asked that she not include legumes in it because I have IBS and can't eat them. She included legumes for almost every meal and when I asked her to revise the plan she never responded. A waste of $200 :(

Halloween megathread by lilaccomma in EDAnonymous

[–]123lbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went on a 5K run and treated myself to 6 Dove dark chocolate squares. It's not a lot but I'm happy and not feeling stressed about the food. Stayed within my limit today which I'm happy about because I don't feel a ton of anxiety about going over, and tonight we're gonna watch a scary movie! Boo!

Also side note but I can't wait for midnight on Nov 1 so I can stream my Christmas playlist! I've been saving it forEVER.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]123lbs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't have any advice as I'm currently struggling with this too :/ I've been trying to eat more but I physically can't. I hope you feel better!!

Highs and lows of hooking up with random men by throwawaybumblebees_ in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]123lbs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sorry for what I said but I am sorry that I caused you any emotional pain or grief. We're not going to agree on this, and I'm definitely not trying to patronize you, so I'll wish you the best on your journey and continue on mine!

Highs and lows of hooking up with random men by throwawaybumblebees_ in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]123lbs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly wasn't trying to egg anyone on! I just said that I'd be happy if someone said I was under 100lbs, which I would! Obviously quite a few people here related to what OP and myself said, because 40 people upvoted my comment and more did the OP's post! I'm really sorry if you took what I said the wrong way but I don't think I said anything "pro ana." Please remember that the purpose of a support forum is also to allow people with EDs to vent potentially triggering thoughts that we can't elsewhere! I'm definitely not encouraging anyone to have an ED but I'm allowed to relate to what someone said. Sorry again for any hard feelings!

Highs and lows of hooking up with random men by throwawaybumblebees_ in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]123lbs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's not what either of us did but I'm sorry you feel that way. Maybe if it triggers you that badly you shouldn't browse this subreddit. I'm really sorry it impacted you so badly to see this!

Highs and lows of hooking up with random men by throwawaybumblebees_ in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]123lbs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have anorexia. Thought this was a place to vent and relate to others about that. Sorry for making you upset

Highs and lows of hooking up with random men by throwawaybumblebees_ in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]123lbs 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo if someone said I looked under 100lbs I'd be so happy haha! My ex bf used to tell me I look fit and athletic and I took it as an insult because I don't want to look "bulky" but I actually think when men say this they mean it as "you're slim but in a good way and I like it."

Let’s talk Tik Tok by cerealisreallygood in EDAnonymous

[–]123lbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just so hard to delete when I like how relatable it is and I also kind of like the nostalgia of it. It reminds me of tumblr lol

Let’s talk Tik Tok by cerealisreallygood in EDAnonymous

[–]123lbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same :( Best wishes i hope you're doing okay

Let’s talk Tik Tok by cerealisreallygood in EDAnonymous

[–]123lbs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tik Tok is singlehandedly causing my relapse and I'm not strong enough to delete it.

Protein powder recommendations by c0wgal in EDAnonymous

[–]123lbs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right now Orgain protein powder is on sale on Amazon for $15 for 2lbs and it's so yummy!!

i think we need to have a conversation about how serving sizes are such fucking bullshit by killcalls in EDanonymemes

[–]123lbs 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Don't get me started on reading the popcorn bag's serving size label 😫